I stumbled upon an article in Zhihu, and i feel it's interesting to share.
The article is about "The type of people who like fox vs XL"
This writer list out there's 4 types of people who likes fox.
- Likes the actor
- They genuinely like his kind personality (but can't embrace his dark side)
- Those who have insecurity issues irl (some relate to YJ due to personal trauma)
- the 4th one is... people who thinks kissing and hugging = True Love
3 types of people who likes XL:
- They are strong & independent irl
- Sentimental (people who have been in love who could only miss them in their hearts)
- They wish to be like him (his strong personality, character etc)
She explains further about fox/XL:
She pointed out words used by Tong Hua to describe fox as praising and criticizing at same time.
"Cage, dragon bone prison, puppet, tracking technique, spider web, treacherous, Yudanzi etc."
Meanwhile, our XL:
"Sea, bow and arrow, snowflakes, lotus, seashells, full moon"
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Original article:
https://www.zhihu.com/question/619178257/answer/3265877597?utm_id=0
Honestly, I'm abit like XY, fear loneliness & people leaving but I constantly seeking improvement in myself and from my perspective, to be better is either learn to be one or learn from someone.
I like XL because I do wish to be like him, yearning to be emotionally stronger and independent.