Strong FL and Fluffy ML , 2023-2024 dramas?

• An Empty Dream 
• My Merman Brother  
• Yes, Her Majesty
• My Lady General
•  The Legend of Shen Li (I wouldn't call him subservient, but he's awkward/clumsy and very soft with her and FL is very dominant/strong)
• Wonderland of Love (maybe? FL is very dominant and strong, ML is soft but can hold his own)
• Secrets of the Shadow Sect (ML isn't soft but he is subservient)
• My Uncanny Destiny (maybe? FL is very strong/dominant, ML is soft and cute for her but not sure if you'd consider him what you're looking for or not)
• Love Song for Illusion (maybe? ML's main personality is soft and enjoys a more traditionally female career, FL is a strong assassin)

Not easy to detect that kinda of ml with all of that qualities. 

Like Flowers in Sand - FL is a cop, ML is a "momma boy"

Lovely Runner - ML is subservient . FL is determined. 

Perfect Marriage Revenge - ML is subservient. FL kinda of determined. 

Marry My Husband - ML is subservient  and clumsy. FL is determined and strong. 

The Double - ML just let FL do wtv she wants. 

Not many I can think of from the last two years, most that come to mind are mini-series. Here's a few...

• +100 My Lady General - love this one, definite role reversal, fits what you're looking for
• +1 Secrets of the Shadow Sect - a role reversal in that the FL has more physical & social power than the ML, though they are both kind of tough/cold characters... 
• Forever Love - the FL is richer and in a higher social position than the ML. Also I would say she has more power over him because he falls first for her and she knows this and uses it to her advantage haha, she spends a lot of time ordering him around which is hilarious. However I would not call the ML a "soft" character, he's a pretty typical action hero type.
• +1 also for Yes Her Majesty, My Uncanny Destiny,  and My Merman Brother (if you're ever purely wanting to see a man kneeling to a woman then this might hit the spot haha)
• Marry Me My Queen - fun and short role reversal drama where the FL is flirty and strong and the ML is more innocent
• Beauty Killer - strong & savvy FL and an ML with a hard shell but soft interior, set in a matriarchal society
• Sweet Games - noona romance with a strong driven FL and a soft and adorable puppy ML
• Watashi no Oyome-Kun - kind of a literal role reversal in that the FL is a cold, controlling career woman and the breadwinner in the relationship, while the ML is basically her housewife
• The Princess Royal - FL is more powerful and calls the shots in the relationship
• Ye Cheng Fu - set in a matriarchal society, the FL is more the playboy promiscuous kind of character while the ML is more reserved

In case you missed these, here are some from 2021 and 2022 that fit your request: 

Scent of Love (strong villain FL, very sweet soft ML)
The King's Affection (love this one, definite role reversal)
Why Her
Rattan

I have two lists you might find helpful related to this: Role reversals and FL clearly wears the pants

 Saygo:

• Call It Love
• Doona!
• Destined

thank you soo much