renmilktoast:

PS. Sorry for adding to an already shamefully long reply lol, but I missed this and I wanted to mention, I think this point is totally valid and in my own defense, I'm sure there are plenty of Koreans who that type of content appeals to and I've never doubted it. If that came across in any of my comments, it wasn't intended. I just didn't want to see people (not referring to you) discounting the fact that some more conservative-leaning concepts like modesty and purity are historically Korean (Confucianist) ideals and that some Korean people probably still retain those ideals, and this could have possibly impacted their television as much as censorship laws.

Oh undoubtedly, at the risk of getting off topic laws are often a reflection of society at the moment of time and place (pardon me while I brush off my sociology degree). But censorship laws being a byproduct of society (or at least those in the majority/positions of power) isn't really the issue. 

We need only look at manhwa or film to see that R rated material is plentiful there (The Handmaiden comes immediately to mind). Not to mention Korean erotica and pornography. So the fact that television in particular doesn't showcase those things but other media does tells us a) there's an audience  for it and b) there are creators making it, irrespective  of a western audience. So we can assume that television is spared because of the regulations in place. And with OTT platforms allowing creators to circumvent broadcast standards that opens up a whole new realm for dramas that print and film have already existed in for decades.

 renmilktoast:
Tbh I feel like I had a little of my faith in humanity restored just having a normal conversation with someone I disagree with. You should see some of the comments I've gotten when bringing this issue up elsewhere on MDL. It's been extremely disheartening.

I've had my fair share. Like it's totally fine to not like sex in your dramas, that's a personal preference. The moment you (general you) start pushing that on others as though every piece of media should cater to that preference, therein lies the issue. 

In this case the issue is some people seem completely baffled that Korea might want to create sexually explicit content for themselves and want to hearken back to some heyday before dramas got corrupt by Big Bad Westerners. If we get to a point were you can't find a drama without sex then they might have a point. Until then they mostly seem to be attacking anything that doesn't suit their world view rather than going to find something else that does. 

 Ivy:
But censorship laws being a byproduct of society

Maybe I wasn't clear enough, sorry about that, my main point wasn't that censorship laws are a byproduct of society. They most likely are, but my point was that in some cases, there is an influence in addition to censorship laws. Cases in which certain ideals or values, possibly left over from Korea's own history or culture, could be influencing the content displayed in a drama even regardless of the laws, if that makes sense.

 Ivy:
So we can assume that television is spared because of the regulations in place.

This is also a valid point and I'm sure it's definitely the case in some dramas. In fact, I'd be inclined to believe it especially about dramas like It's Okay to Not Be Okay, Lawless Lawyer, or Tale of the Nine Tailed, for example.

Inversely, dramas where I think it was more the creative vision (and maybe values, who knows) of the creators to leave out sexual content are dramas like Soul Mechanic or My Mister or My Perfect Stranger, to name a few. While watching those dramas, it just felt clear to me that the creators didn't feel sex was important to the story they were telling, or possibly even wanted to leave it out for some reason. Namely because there are many ways they could have included sexual content that was not explicit and therefore wasn't in contradiction with the censorship laws, but they simply... didn't. There are even dramas that went out of their way to imply something sexual didn't happen, again when censorship laws did not demand that.

But in the end, we'll never know the intentions and inner thoughts of those creators, so I can't prove it.

(I apologize that all this is really not eloquent, it's getting late and my mind is failing me lol.)

 Ivy:
If we get to a point were you can't find a drama without sex then they might have a point.

Tbh this was my biggest fear when I noticed the pattern with Netflix dramas having more and more sexual content haha. But for my part, I choose to believe it's an irrational fear and we'll continue to get plenty of dramas that don't feel the need to include sexual content. (I'm trying to convince myself. It's a work in progress. Don't judge me.)

 renmilktoast:
Namely because there are many ways they could have included sexual content that was not explicit and therefore wasn't in contradiction with the censorship laws, but they simply... didn't. There are even dramas that went out of their way to imply something sexual didn't happen, again when censorship laws did not demand that.

It's really two separate things. No one is saying dramas without sexual content only exist because censorship wouldn't allow them to be sexy. There are plenty of family friend dramas that would exist without or without censorship. Not everything has or will contain sexual content (and we know this because broadcast standards vary greatly world wide and we aren't lacking in G rated material).

The point is that dramas with sexual content aren't on Korean television, in part, because of censorship. Those other dramas would still exist, creators are still going to create non-romance, non-sexy dramas. Its just the one that do want to create sexier dramas can't air them on television or if they want them on tv they have to fit regulations. 

Pointing out broadcast regulations in television was to make the point that kdramas are expanding to new platforms with less regulations, meaning a wider variety of storytelling - some of which is sexually explicit. Part of that might be because of western influence or even for a western audience but it's not the sole cause as some in the comments have argued. 

I don't particularly like gore, and when shows started going to Netflix they started getting really graphically gory because they could now without television regulations in the way. But not all shows went that route and I learned to avoid the ones I didn't like and to expect more graphic levels of violence on Netflix than I would find on tv. The same is happening with sexual content. But I mean these broadcast standards evolve as well, and media with them. Television 25 years ago isn't the same as today, that's all just part of the process. 

Have we gotten off topic? :D

 Ivy:
t's really two separate things. No one is saying dramas without sexual content only exist because censorship wouldn't allow them to be sexy.

Well... you aren't saying it, but let me just say I've encountered some people elsewhere on MDL who definitely seem to be saying it. If they're not, they should probably make that a lot more clear, because as it is, they appear to be making huge blanket statements just to further their argument, which is one reason why I've gotten into so many spats with people about this issue.

But I do fully acknowledge that you aren't one of those people, and we essentially seem to agree about this particular point.

 Ivy:
The point is that dramas with sexual content aren't on Korean television, in part, because of censorship.

Also a good point, so like I said, seems we basically agree about this part of the issue. I'm not sure I would have thought to put it in such plain terms, though, which makes me think a lot of people probably believe I'm blind to this lol. I could probably stand to elaborate more about this in future discussions instead of focusing solely on addressing the possible westernization issue.

 Ivy:
I don't particularly like gore, and when shows started going to Netflix they started getting really graphically gory

Same here. I originally wasn't sure if this was purely because of the censorship thing or because of westernization, but now I see it's probably some mixture of both. Again, I was probably oversimplifying the whole thing (or combining two separate issues).

Not sure if we got off topic but you're also right about the evolution of television. It happens in every country, I just think maybe SK was a bit behind the US in some ways lol.

 Ivy:
There is a subset of very conservative sexist fans on this site in particular that loudly proclaims that a) any sexual content coming up in Korean drama is only the result of Western influence, full stop. b) that any sexual content is irrelevant, unnecessary and should be censored (because all media should meet their tastes) and c) assumes kdramas to be a bastion of purity against the evils of western society, like sex and feminism. Basically they view Korean media as parroting their conservative values and are Big Mad that kdramas are daring to evolve. (and part of that evolution is OTT streaming platforms)

And we've seen these people go after dramas that don't have explicit content like The Atypical Family and No Gain, No Love simply because the FL is known to have had sex with more than one partner

I just wanted to point out that gory kmovies (obv manwha, too) are a thing: the best example that comes to mind is Old Boy (2003), and I had to stop watching Strangers from Hell even though it's not that explicitly gory, I found it disturbing.

And Netflix, without censorship, is doing shows without explicit sex scenes: Navillera, Move to Heaven or DP (though this one is very dark) are some that come to mind. So I don't think we should be worried about the lack of non-sexual (and good) content if the censorship were to be released.

If these people were as loud regarding the objectification of Korean actors, that always have to look in good shape for a shirtless or shower scene that is like mandatory in almost every single drama that is aired on TV (if it's a man it's okay to show his body naked apparently), they could be understood. But enjoying your favourites actors naked scenes to then scream "porn" because a woman is also naked or the scenes are a little bit more explicit is hypocritical.
It's a good thing that the audience of Japanese dramas are more mature otherwise it would be impossible with these people.

 lilili:

And we've seen these people go after dramas that don't have explicit content like The Atypical Family and No Gain, No Love simply because the FL is known to have had sex with more than one partner

Yeah and Love to Hate you got railed on for it's feminist themes (personally I didn't think it was particularly feminist but some people did and took major offense to that fact). And all of this relates back to policing content and holding Korean media to this made up standard of purity.

"...all my favorite Korean dramas were both sex-free AND feminist."

That sounds right up my alley! Can you give me a list please ?  and thankyou.

 Kyubin:
for a shirtless or shower scene that is like mandatory in almost every single drama that is aired on TV

What's funny about this to me is, when I first got into k-dramas, I rarely watched anything made before 2015, so I pretty much never saw any of these obligatory tropes everyone talks about, including the "dead fish kisses" and "docile Asian woman" concept. My first dramas were Hotel Del Luna, Angel's Last Mission Love, Still 17, Are You Human Too, and Crash Landing On You. It took me several dozen k-dramas before I ever saw one of these so-called obligatory shower scenes, so I was very confused about why everyone said they existed in every single drama (I believe the first full-on, unapologetic shirtless scene I ever saw in a k-drama was ironically in Vagabond, arguably one of the most american-feeling dramas on netflix lol, so you can see how I got the wrong idea about things).

Personally I don't like shower scenes, they're so cringe and fanservicey and I'm one of those odd women who actually doesn't find guy's naked abs attractive lol (very weird, I know). I think the human body is most stunningly beautiful...in clothes. I seriously doubt most male actors start out feeling comfortable showing themselves half naked in front of a camera, same way most female actors probably aren't comfortable with shooting nude scenes, so my objection is still the same. It's funny to me that so many people seem to have double standards about the issue. I mean yeah, filming explicit scenes usually is more problematic for the women involved than the men (and more objectifying for some reason) but no matter the gender I personally don't think people's unclothed bodies need to be objectified onscreen for any reason (again, not trying to force this viewpoint on anyone else).

(sorry if I'm inserting myself into a conversation where I don't belong again, I just thought this was funny and worth mentioning that not everyone who doesn't like explicit content has double standards about it).

 Toot:
"...all my favorite Korean dramas were both sex-free AND feminist."

That sounds right up my alley! Can you give me a list please ? and thankyou.

For starters here is a slightly outdated list of my all-time favorite Asian dramas (all but one of them are K-dramas) and I felt like all the female leads in them were strong and opinionated and not at all the gross trope about Asian women.

Worth noting that several of the romances here (Are You Human Too and Extraordinary You to be precise) failed later on in the writing of the female leads (in my opinion). But they did start out very strong and feisty in the beginning, to the point where they are on my list of favorite FLs. Even though I felt like the writers didn't stick the landing, I still love them.

 renmilktoast:
(sorry if I'm inserting myself into a conversation where I don't belong again, I just thought this was funny and worth mentioning that not everyone who doesn't like explicit content has double standards about it).

Everyone is free to have an opinion and share it, it's a public space here, so you don't have to be sorry for expressing it. ;) And yours makes sense actually, whether we agree with it or not. People who think shirtless or shower scenes from their favourites actors are okay but are against all other type of nudity or explicit scenes for Korean dramas have the right to their opinion too, but in that case it just sounds really hypocritical to me.

I think "Queen Woo" just seems the perfect drama for these people to lash out about everything they dislike. There is always a drama like that from time to time. It's this one now, but it will be another one later for sure. No drama is perfect and no drama will ever please everybody, but sometimes some people go too far and here it's really the awful cancellation culture that is at work. They not share an opinion or debate respectfully with others for having a different one, they just scream that the drama is trash, people who like it are degenerates and that the drama should be censored or cancelled. Little dictators behind their screens from the back of their couches and beds...

I can't quote on mobile. I definitely didn't mean to suggest you don't belong or your comments aren't welcome, just that the original post and conversation were aimed at another group of people.