Replying to echo • Aug 12, 2025
Title Love, Take Two Spoiler
so interesting! I find the Mom’s lack of sensitivity for what she’s asking for, constant nagging and not ever…
This drama so far is quite interesting. Though I understand your points here but I think parents nag. When you care enough for someone, you'll nag. In your mind you just want that person to have the best and deserves the best and you feel the need to push as a sense of support. In some Asian cultures, a sense of support means putting someone down or comparing them to others, they think this way the person will want to revolt and try harder. However, I grew up in the U.S and most of us don't see that way as being effective, instead we praise when job well done, and we console when isn't. The mother Ji An in this drama as far as we have seen up to ep 3 she is pretty awesome to me. We all have our faults obviously, and no one is perfect but the way she cares for Hyo Ri and treating her to me is loving and very normal, nothing I find annoying accept for the fact that she nags. But we all do. I don't believe for a second that if you care or love for someone and you don't nag. About giving space, totally understandable and we all need our own space. In this drama, I don't think Ji An is always with Hyo Ri. Ji An is always busting her ass off to pay bills. I totally support the idea of time for one's self but that does not mean shutting someone you love, care for out completely as Hyo Ri does. I've worked some years in a hospital and have seen so many cases of young people committed suicide because they had too much time alone. When someone is going through a tough time, you give them their spaces but you still need to be around enough to give them the supports they need. The most important thing I've learned from working at the hospital and seeing so many sad situations where people passed away with regrets or living on with regrets is that the person that is leaving is the one that is being freed. Those who ever loved that person that will have to continue on living are those that will be in much more pain and will have a much harder time. So my opinion, I feel for Hyo Ri but I do think she's immature and selfish so I do hope she'll come around and understand that when she's in pain, people who love her are also in pain. And when she's gone, she'll feel no more pain but the people who love her that she leaves behind, especially Ji An will continue to live with pain. So if I were to know when I die, I will make sure I do everything I can and spend as much time as I can with all those that I love, that way when my time comes, I'll go with a smile and no regrets.
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