10joyboy

welcome to the club 😅🤣 I was saying this more earlier, I want to scold myself for thinking this would be any different 🤦

is not he's one already!?! 🤣😅

I argue _ and if you honest say the truth_ , that if this exact same plot but in fl place it's the ml , you wouldn't say it's a 10/10 , because it's about the fl that majority say it's good and some even say it's 10/10 , it's not even right to say that even if it's a good drama because there no drama 10 /10 not even directors say that about their dramas , but some they do, because they rate with feelings not actual facts.

Yes, they change them just to be “men,” as if a woman can’t be strong, independent, smart, and feminine and true to herself. Instead, they write her like a man in a woman’s body.
This actually supports what red-pill ideology says about working women — that they become masculine and lose themselves when they try to be like men. Even when this drama tries to say something different, it ends up confirming those false claims.
And what’s even worse: traits that are toxic and red flags in men are suddenly praised when women do them. That hypocrisy and double standard are insane.

You’re welcome , me too. I like equal and mutual relationships, not one person acting like a puppy while the other isn’t even a kind master, lol.
I also find it disrespectful how writers portray these male leads with no dignity, characters who only want to be with the female lead, love her unconditionally, and forgive everything with almost nothing, or don’t even get mad when she clearly does something wrong.
And now they want to make her look like the hero who keeps saving him again and again, and they call that “her way of showing love” and he should be behind her back proud of his master saving him like a weakling with no self-respect or manly qualities 🤦🤦🤦
What’s even crazier is that at the start they show him as smart and strong and ruthless , someone who shouldn’t need his “master” to save him at all.

And the worst thing for me is that they make humiliating him look funny and normal, and he just forgets it as if it never happened. I felt 🤢 from the very first time he said, “I’m your slave,” and wanted to kiss her shoes. Even if that was part of his plan to stay with her, there were many other ways to do it. That alone told me what kind of drama this would be.But I didn’t listen to myself and watched a few more episodes. In the last episode, she slept with him and then left in the morning. When he woke up, like a virgin in love wanting to see the woman he loves, he found only the pillows 🤦.And honestly, I understand her. She’s used to doing this in the past, so maybe she forgot that she’s supposedly with someone she loves. She treated him like one of her old toys.If you’re looking for an equal relationship, or even a male lead with a little dignity, and a female lead who actually develops in this regard, there’s none of that in this drama. They make what she’s doing seem not even wrong; it’s treated as completely normal just because the roles are reversed. I honestly don’t remember a C-drama with a male lead like her where this behavior is shown as normal and never corrected later. Even anime with harems have male leads who love and respect their girls more than this female lead does, lol.and if you want a strong independent cold smart open minded ruthless don't have emotions or she good hidden it and she think about what would happen at the end from the start of the drama because she's that smart and all of this is her plan, this drama have all that, but it's one sided no other person or ml or anyone else is near her , all look like pawn in her plans

so if she's like that so it's okay to mistreatment him !? and pregnant from one time sleeping with him !? and she was doing that with others like first episode first scene about her get rid of her lover !!? and ml is little more special because he's more smart than that stupid one who cheated on her 🤣😅and fls being like this is always accepted from viewers, but mls aloof and cold is red flag, poor ml get used, and she don't care about his feelings, I would have no problem if they make him a man that don't care about it also , and enjoy f her , not more feminine than any women in this drama want to cry because she left him alone in bed

If I were in his place, I would have turned into her enemy because of how she humiliates him and uses his feelings. I would use everything to make her regret doing that.
But him? He has zero dignity, zero backbone, and zero self-respect. He’s more like a toy that she enjoys using, both physically and mentally, while he acts like a cute puppy.
this is more one sided than I expected to be

what he expect , she used to do that to all her past lover and they stay with her and him also will stay as a toy , and to make it for him they would make her save him if he got in some problem and that's it he should be a good boy and kiss her feet

like fl kissing ml in his cheek , she's acting like she's liking him and afraid to lose him to make him stay as her servant while he thinks he's specially lol

even when she lost her powers our smart strong... fl comes back and give her the power again so she will be forced to marry Yan that would also have a plot twist about his Identity 🤣😮‍💨😮‍💨
and ml is just like other servant of the rong family he only follow fl orders and she likes him a little more than her other servant like she was liking her first lover in first episode 🤣🤦😅

some say sml is good looking so he's okay even if he's bad , but the husband he's given cheating vibes , so they just waste time with him when they should find someone else for her 😅🤣🤣🤣

To be honest I don't like this stupid cliches of miscommunication that only ml affected by, like she was having her day normal, while he was thinking about her, and waiting for her call , and even misunderstanding jealous above all this is a no no for me , and it's not a good way to show that he's liking her or start to like her , especially that they do it only for the ml , and I read she teasing him about it, that she said something like you wanted to have lunch with me or something, and he said yes .

every new Cdrama I hope it's a mature romance, relationship that both equal and make equal effort I get disappointed, and especially after I read spoilers that she will break up with him later because he didn't tell her something because of his trauma or whatever.
and the elephant of cliches, that fl have a scumbag ex while ml still a virgin , 🤦

sorry for bothering you and have a great time.

so you think every Cdrama romance interesting, because this is the same romance in most Cdramas always mls give up more to be with fls 😅🙂

and let's agree to disagree, because if you think this is okay I can't say anything else,

and onein the relationship has to give more or sacrifice is one thing, and be doing that everytime is another thing, one thing for sure that's not what a healthy relationship is.

thank you for the discussion and have a good night

I read he get jealous he waits all day for her calling!! is this what a normal mature adult will do !?
a normal person will know she go to a date so he know she's busy, that's it and when she returns he will asks how was your date !? if he's her friend and that's it not be jealous and wait all day for her calling 😅,

He didn't propose marriage because he knows she would not accept him , she doesn't even let him touch her hand, and he’s supposed to ask for marriage? He got stupid after falling for her, but not that stupid 🤣😅🤣.
And when he chose to do his job, it’s because it affects many people, one of them being the FL. He didn’t choose his job because of his career, wanting a promotion, or loving his job more than her , none of that.

It’s her who still doesn’t want to be with him until the case is over, like she said she would give him an explanation afterward. If it were about him, he would’ve married her yesterday lol.

No, he chose to do his job because it affects other people, not only him, and she would also be affected if he didn’t do it. That’s not choosing his job over her; it’s also about her.
If he didn’t do it, his friend would die, and he would be punished for not doing his duty, and in the end he still wouldn’t be able to be with her. So doing his job was also a way to stay with her and to save other people.
And we are talking about all the facts, not just “he picked his job once.” There were many reasons, and not a single one of them was because he wanted a promotion or wanted to look better.

Meanwhile, she chooses her family any day and any time over her feelings.

But he literally said it with his own mouth, so why do I even need to write all this? That he would give up everything for her… and wherever she is, he will be too 😅🤣😅

she still going to blind dates!? so they start to make the cliche ml jealous scenes even before he fall for her 😅 and I see a jealous kiss later so he still get jealous even when they are dating!? why this always ml that insucure and act childish about it !? but they don't write fls like that also and make them jealous, even when they get jealous yheoget mad and ml has to apologize or they ignore ml !? I dislike this stupid double standard tropes. I want him also to have a blind date 😅🤣

The FL is the one who gives the granny the power to bully her, so I don’t care about the granny, because she is only bullying her because the FL is letting her do that. It’s all the FL’s fault, because the granny was evil from the start, and she uses it against whoever allows her to. She didn’t do anything to the other sisters, but the FL was bullied by her most of the time.

who else is not willing to give up everything for love !? if you talking about ml I think you're watching different drama, because here he willing to give even his life and self respect and standards and boundaries to be with her