Just that alone deserves 8 points. ! at long last, we finally have a female lead who can actually cook.and also…
and if she knows how to apologize it would be legendary change in cdrama writing style π ππ not just make only ml apologizing and confess his love snf suffer alone emotionally and physically because of break up while fls become more good and badass women that don't need anything even ml is just a bonus for them πππ
it's a cdrama ml , so being red flag is not allowed only being a simp and make a joke of himself by being jealous…
Yes, those cases exist, but in most other rom-coms they're rare. And in that drama, the FL was a red flag too. The difference between MLs and FLs in these situations is that MLs usually apologize, beg for forgiveness, suffer to win the FL back, get jealous, and even act silly because they're desperate to fix the relationship. FLs, on the other hand, are often written as cold. They don't seem to care much about the ML's feelings, rarely think about apologizing, and almost never make any real effort to win him back. Instead, they stay "strong," keep the SML as a friend, and seem to have a wonderful life without the ML. Meanwhile, the ML is shown drinking, unable to sleep, dreaming about her day and night, and suffering constantly because he loves her so deeply. The FL might cry alone once or twice, but then she's back to acting strong and playing hard to get. The story focuses almost entirely on the ML's suffering, which makes it feel like he's the only one who truly love her and can't live without the relationship. while focus on fl being the boss and independent strong have a senior and she's the one in her work and I bet she will save ml work also and be the hero, it's a common cliche π π
I am wondering the same. She should tell Lu Xi Xiao about her reasons concerning his father especially as she…
time skip in cdrama is just for fl to be strong and independent and that's it nothing else changes, and she have another man in love with her so when ml comes back he be insecure jealous and make a joke of himself so they call it comedy for fans πππ
Watched till ep10 so (don't read if you just started the show)Honesty I find find Zhou Wan and her mother quite…
and after all that she will not make effort to apologize or chase him to get back and she only sorry with herself not showing it like je wants, and even if they write her apologizing later she will do it after ml suffer and forgive her and apologize to her then she will say oh sorry and he will stop her from say it π π and feel guilty because it's his grandfather and act as she didn't do anything wrong π π.
I saw someone on Tiktok say that Lu Xixiao is trying to be a red flag but he can't and I think it's accurate
it's a cdrama ml , so being red flag is not allowed only being a simp and make a joke of himself by being jealous when fl with her friend or senior , and him saying I'm waiting you to beg , that would never happen and he will never wait for her to do that or even say sorry πππ
And yes, I comment especially about this double standard between MLs and FLs, and how most of the time MLs are just simps, even when FLs break up with them, they have no dignity or backbone, and act they will die singles because one woman break their heart so no woman near them . π π
Last time I checked, it's free to criticize the stupid things I don't like, especially the double standard between MLs and FLs, and it's free app, if it's only if I'm talking about same thing, I'm sure most of you also talking about same thing just we are different you praise this plots and I'm not because I had enough with it, and let's respect each other taste.
I said it I bet he would be the one chasing after her, even after he said he would make her beg him for forgiveness or whatever he said during the breakup call. ππ
Totally agree. Itβs not romantic when one side of the relationship does all the work. Cooking only works if…
ππππmls in cdrama always cooking alone and never anyone complain ( except me in this app) but now it's not a good thing when it's fl who cooking for them!? I was reading it's green flag for ml to do so while gl don't even how to boil an egg and it's not even a bad thing but now it's bad because it's ml who don't do anything about the cooking π ππππ
he deserved to date another girl, our fl is just toxic
if any another man after what she did he will never think about her and live his life but we know in cdrama mls have no dignity or self respect and I bet he still dream about her every night while she don't even think about how she hurts him, and again they will make him. the one who chase after her and do effort to forgive him and be insecure about her with her senior π πππ
in my opinion, i think its well within xixiaos rights to be angry at wanwan but i hate the 'repay me w your body'…
you will be disappointed it's a cdrama so don't wait for fl to do that she's independent strong woman she would never do that for a simp that will chase after her when he saw her close to her senior and feel jealous and know she just break up with him because of his grandfather not because she's weak and don't think about him or know anything about communication πππ , so an advice don't wait for her to act as simps mls do when they do something like this and beg for forgiveness, I bet he will be the one chasing after her and apologizing and she play hard to get, and if they make him do something stupid he will get a slap also and apologize after also ππππ
I hope zw apologize to lxx at least once and please lxx try to have some self respect, don't you dare chaser her,…
it's a cdrama mls just simps without any dignity, we see him crying and dreaming about her while she don't care just some tears and that's it and she focus on her job as nothing happens and here she's meeting her senior while ml again still dreaming about her and I bet with anyone here that she would not do any effort to win him back, but she will even play hard to get π π ππ
sooo real, and he literally asked zhou wan to sleep with him after the time skip bc he wanted to get back at her…
a sorry so fl in the drama also bad as ml in the novel!? or he's only the bad one and fl in the drama is just traumatized!? and young so she has reason to be like that, but ml is just scumbag without any excuses!?
watched e14 again and the laundry scene. it just breaks my heart. there;s no way she would've thrown all those…
and she wants to get married and have a house!? and she can't even know this!? and act as she didn't do anything wrong!? how she was living before!? why cdrama writer's think this is show she's independent or more badass or it's not important to know this!? especially ruined clothes of someone don't have that much money to buy others!? stupidity at best
sooo real, and he literally asked zhou wan to sleep with him after the time skip bc he wanted to get back at her…
because many don't read the novel and it's talk about the drama not novel, and if she's bad in drama it's not okay because ml was bad also in novel what logic is this!?
I'm hoping after her rejection (finally!), he learns and grows.
Yes, I know she will be like this. It's crazy that some people say FLs have boundaries while doing this, especially toward obsessed SMLs in C-dramas π they take rejection as love, and FLs still accept their gifts, stay friends with them, let them into her apartment , go to theirs, and she don't say no to anything they say or do πππ. Whatβs even crazier is that when they break up with MLs, they stop even breathing the same air, and go to another country for years, but with SMLs they become besties with them as smls π. C-drama writers need to understand this is making fl look bad and weak.
The difference between MLs and FLs in these situations is that MLs usually apologize, beg for forgiveness, suffer to win the FL back, get jealous, and even act silly because they're desperate to fix the relationship.
FLs, on the other hand, are often written as cold. They don't seem to care much about the ML's feelings, rarely think about apologizing, and almost never make any real effort to win him back. Instead, they stay "strong," keep the SML as a friend, and seem to have a wonderful life without the ML.
Meanwhile, the ML is shown drinking, unable to sleep, dreaming about her day and night, and suffering constantly because he loves her so deeply. The FL might cry alone once or twice, but then she's back to acting strong and playing hard to get. The story focuses almost entirely on the ML's suffering, which makes it feel like he's the only one who truly love her and can't live without the relationship. while focus on fl being the boss and independent strong have a senior and she's the one in her work and I bet she will save ml work also and be the hero, it's a common cliche π π
I know C-dramas have been using this same clichΓ© for years, so I don't need to watch every drama to know what will happen or what already happened it's not rocket science . π
And yes, I comment especially about this double standard between MLs and FLs, and how most of the time MLs are just simps, even when FLs break up with them, they have no dignity or backbone, and act they will die singles because one woman break their heart so no woman near them . π π
Last time I checked, it's free to criticize the stupid things I don't like, especially the double standard between MLs and FLs, and it's free app, if it's only if I'm talking about same thing, I'm sure most of you also talking about same thing just we are different you praise this plots and I'm not because I had enough with it, and let's respect each other taste.
I can name tens of dramas with this clichΓ© plot, but I know most viewers are woman , so they like this double standard and MLs as simps, whom they call "green flags." They have no dignity after they fall in love with the FL. They do everything for her and suffer a little and be getting jealous when she's with her friend who in friendzone or, in this drama, with her senior, and how he love her deeply after all this year's 10+,
I said it I bet he would be the one chasing after her, even after he said he would make her beg him for forgiveness or whatever he said during the breakup call. ππ