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To be honest, it's the FL's fault, and she admitted as much. Knowing how crazy her assassin friend is, FL should've given clear directives for the assassination.

I haven't read Si Jin, so I can't compare. But Are You The One pissed me off. They ruined a perfectly great love story. My only issue with the novel is the final act.

You’re right. Don’t get me wrong, I understand her decision. And I don’t hate her character. But I can’t whitewash what she did.

This is such a weak excuse. When the assassin, who is an excellent fighter and more than capable of completing her task, EXPLICITELY suggested the assassination, FL didn't stop her. Directly or not, FL approved. When the assassin asked the FL if she did something wrong in the aftermath, she said no because she knew that the assassination attempt that almost killed a man for doing his job was her decision. She went along with her explicit suggestion and didn't object. Whether in the service of a friend or to escape the law, murder is murder. I can't believe anyone is defending this. Her decision was pure evil.

That happened to me with "Are You the One." I hated what the drama did with the story and characters. Absolute trash.

Yeah, most novel to drama adaptations often use the source material as a loose framework to tell a worse story. lol

That's interesting. So we might have a rare occasion where the drama improves on the novel.

"That act, while perhaps morally wrong, was driven by sheer survival, and I found it incredibly compelling."

She sent an assassin to kill a man for simply doing his job. While I understand her decision, it was definitely morally wrong. To make matters worse, when she later reflected on the potential human collateral damage caused by her decision, she only saw the little girl as worth saving. In reality, no one in that house—least of all her primary target—deserved to be burned alive.

I can understand the reason for killing her foster parents. But killing a man and his entire family for doing his duty, is straight-up evil. I can appreciate these kinds of grey and dark characters. But I don't want a show to whitewash what they are.

I've learned my lesson. NEVER watch a drama of a novel that you like because 9 out of 10 times, the novel is so much better.

We don't fully know how she killed the adoptive father. I'm betting that she 100% had some help. I also suspect that ML has been keeping tabs on her for a long time, even before she came back to home.

The twist about the mother was obvious, but I’m glad the confusion was resolved quickly. I don’t like the trope where someone hurts another to "protect" them. Still, six episodes in, this drama is good. The pacing is great, and I appreciate knowing the male lead’s intentions early on. Best of all, every scene between the male and female leads is captivating. Their relationship mixes a mentor-student dynamic—he’s helping and teaching her to improve and be more efficient in her methods—with an enemies-to-lovers twist since she once tried to have him killed.

Your interpretation is reasonable. But that’s not what I'm arguing against. I believe that whether he said the first or second line, her participation, and competence would still be necessary. We know this is the case because we saw the ML test her competence. So whether he said the first or revised dialogue, his expectation of her wouldn't change. Yet, it seems many fans favor the second dialogue, arguing that the first one diminishes her by suggesting she can’t achieve the highest nobility without the ML.

For them, FL should be a Mary Sue type, capable of using any stepping stone to rise to the top, regardless of the ML. An X user wrote: "Zhuang Hanyan can get help from others to become a person with the same qualities as a noble lady but it is not up to others to decide whether she can become one."

That perspective undermines the ML, as he’s not just any stepping stone. He’s an outlier—highly resourceful, skilled, and remarkably knowledgeable about her. So, in my opinion, to become the most noble, she’d need the aid of someone extraordinary. And such individuals are incredibly rare.

Finding someone like that would be almost impossible, and getting their assistance would be even more challenging. So without the ML's willingness to help her, I doubt that she could become the most noble.

Sure, but fiction still needs to have some basis in reality. The idea that someone who is consumed with revenge (as is often the case with revenge seekers) is positively nourishing their soul and humanity doesn't ring true to me. What typically happens is that vengeance slowly rots away at their humanity. It's not realistic to make vengeance the core of your identity and keep your humanity, and by extension your soul, intact. But we'll agree to disagree.

"Because this line made it seem like Zhuang Hanyan won't be able to become the most noble lady without the help of the male lead. But that is definitely not the case. Zhuang Hanyan can get help from others to become a person with the same qualities as a noble lady but it is not up to others to decide whether she can become one."

It's a silly change. We don't know who else in the capital has the abilities (martial arts, strategic, political skills, etc..) that the ML has. So, in terms of capabilities, ML is an outlier because highly capable individuals are extremely rare.

Also, the ML seems to know the FL and at least part of her motivations better than anyone at this point. So we don't know if it's DEFINITELY the case that the FL can do it with just anyone. This director needs to think for himself instead of letting his work be influenced by fans who don't seem to have any critical insight.

"Revenge. It's good for the Soul. "

I disagree. I think revenge, no matter how just, can crush a part of one's soul because it often requires revenge seekers to go to extreme lengths to complete their revenge. In many cases, those who seek revenge because exactly like the people they're punishing.

I hate it when evil gets a redemption arc. I much prefer stories where the evil people get punished and the good people win.

The novels are almost always better than their drama counterparts.

Gives The Double vibes. It's great so far.

Ok, this is a good drama.

1. Cold and calculating FL out for revenge. She orders the ML assassinated for doing his job. Let's be clear: that's a villainous act. However, the FL lead learns early that her vengeance, no matter how justified, carries a heavy cost.

2. Cool, competent, and aloof ML. (I hate simps with a passion)

3. Enemies to lovers trope (The best romance trope). I love the cat-and-mouse game between the ML and FL.

4. Great cinematography and beautifully choreographed fights. That fight scene in episode 4 was terrific.

5. Interesting plot.

ML's getting a 2 for 1 for his Imperial Wedding and he's complaining. lmao