It’s crazy how we got 4 straight episodes to build the relationship between the SML and FL yet they didn’t…
They didn't want you to root for him. They used those four episodes to draw a contrast later between the FL's relationship with the SML and her relationship with ML. Still, they spent way too much time on that relationship at the beginning.
CASUALCD You're exaggerating a bit, probably due to your personal experiences. Here we have a young man who had…
The moral of the story is that if you're an indecisive man with an inferiority complex, you will lose the girl. The 2ml is a loser. This is no exaggeration, just reality.
what a great woman to fall for 😅😂😅😅🤡 another simp ml I guess falling for a woman that running after…
"You’re saying she still hasn’t moved on or resolved her feelings for the SML, and the ML is chasing her. So what is that called if not simping?"
The ML doesn't know the FL's history with 2ml. Only we, the audience, are in her head. The only thing the ML knows is that the FL is the woman he fell in love with at first sight, and he's pursuing her. That's not simping. That's being a man.
"Now he has to make even more effort to help her forget the SML, then make her fall for him, while waiting for her to choose him."
In the ML's mind, he's not in competition with the 2ml for the FL's affection. He's pursuing her because he likes her. As I said, it will become simping if the ML puts his life on pause to pursue a woman that he knows is in love with another man. We aren't there yet.
ML was being cold to FL due to a miscommunication error. Yet, SML liked the FL from beginning. He helped her land…
" He just didn’t know how to confess, because his mom wanted was playing matchmaker. His mom told him that Rong and him are childhood friends therefore they should be married."
Here you've explained precisely why he's a beta male who doesn't deserve the FL. Men like that don't deserve to have wives.
what a great woman to fall for 😅😂😅😅🤡 another simp ml I guess falling for a woman that running after…
You're just wrong. The fl's unresolved feelings for the 2ml has nothing to do with the ml. The ml fell for the fl at first sight and is now pursuing her. That's not simping. That's a man who knows what he wants. If the fl later shows that she can't get over the 2ml and the ml is still hopelessly pursuing her, then he would be a simp.
I understand that some people feel sympathy for the 2ml (perhaps due to his good looks), but he's the absolute worst. He doesn't deserve your sympathy. Indecisiveness in a man is a fatal character flaw. Society wasn't built on the back of indecivine men. Notice how the FL immediately started admiring the ML when he took decisive action against his rival. And I've seen someone call the ML a SIMP. No, he's not a simp. He's a man pursuing a woman with conviction.
I understand why the second lead, Zhuang Xu, behaves this way. He's always thought he wasn't good enough for the…
I don't feel sorry for him at all. Indecisive men like him are the absolute worst, and women should avoid them at all cost. It takes a lot of courage for a woman to confess her feelings to a man first. Yet instead of appreciating her courage and be direct with her, he acted like an insecure coward.
An indecisive man who expects a woman to wait for him to sort out his feelings is the worst. Either return her feelings or don't. I hope that after the events of the next 2 episodes, the FL stops dwelling on this loser. If she continues to be hung up on him, I'm gonna start hating the FL.
I actually think that’s kind of the point the show is trying to make. Her attachment to the 2ML isn’t meant…
You make a very good point about the show contrasting between her one-sided irrational crush on the 2ML and the true love she'll eventually have with the ML. I guess watching her struggle to get over that idiot pisses me off a little. lol
The show really failed to sell why the fml was so hung up on the 2ml. They never dated, never slept together, and barely shared any meaningful moments that could build a real emotional connection. All she had was a one-sided crush, while he straight-up rejected her, confused her, and acted like she was beneath him. Yet the story keeps pushing this idea that she's struggling to move on from a guy she has no real history with.
average at best , nothing great about it .I think ML was obsessed with first love . There were not much chemistry…
".the way Husband was being cuck in this drama was disgusting to see . She needs to respect their relationship and her husband .over all two Simp fighting for a mid FL."
The ML doesn't know the FL's history with 2ml. Only we, the audience, are in her head. The only thing the ML knows is that the FL is the woman he fell in love with at first sight, and he's pursuing her. That's not simping. That's being a man.
"Now he has to make even more effort to help her forget the SML, then make her fall for him, while waiting for her to choose him."
In the ML's mind, he's not in competition with the 2ml for the FL's affection. He's pursuing her because he likes her. As I said, it will become simping if the ML puts his life on pause to pursue a woman that he knows is in love with another man. We aren't there yet.
Here you've explained precisely why he's a beta male who doesn't deserve the FL. Men like that don't deserve to have wives.
Well said!