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Replying to monkeylover 3 days ago
it's not really toxic at the end, they learn to love each other with positivity. He had experienced trauma, so…
I wish I could see it that way. I just can't stand the let me stab you with no communication and lie consistently. It is an extreme lack of miscommunication leading to someone suffering.

The fact they did this incredibly early I can already see it happening again in the future but more drastically. Then the show will say it was for her own good or he had to, all to justify his actions. It is such a classic trope I can't handle it as it glorifies abusive relationships.

The whole lying to your partner by harming them and then being a character with a tragic backstory justifying it is just both lazy writing and toxic and I am a bit burned out on it happening in Cdramas.
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Replying to KartikRai 3 days ago
The AI edited video which Kusanagi shows to 'Q' that 'J' is killed by Jin Man
As someone who really dislikes ai generated stuff is this a narrative device where someone is trying to trick someone and is using is as technology? I am just curious as I am pretty much avoiding works that use it like Agent Kim did for a long action scene.
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On My Dearest 7 days ago
Title My Dearest
Just finished episode 6 and while I loved the war time stuff the romance is really grating for me with such a lack of communication it isn't funny. I might continue but I am super on the fence. It does such amazing things and then makes me want to explode from anger and frustration and not the good kind. It uses the exact tropes that most romance shows use and they are the exact ones I hate. Such a shame.
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Replying to Lizzy 8 days ago
I think a lot of the older xianxia dramas have this theme. As the other commenter said- “Moonlight Mystique”…
Yeah for some reason Xianxias love this theme.
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Replying to Theladytamara 9 days ago
no it did not, I think you're projecting the mediocrity of the other cdramas youre watching. They delivered exactly…
No worries sometimes text can be hard to understand. Sorry if I ever came across poorly either. We all enjoy what we enjoy and honestly, I am just a picky soul.
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Replying to monkeylover 10 days ago
it's not really toxic at the end, they learn to love each other with positivity. He had experienced trauma, so…
Yes, like those. It is a constant in these Idol dramas to do this and ask the viewer to just ignore logic. Some handle it way worse than others, but I have just been burnt out on it happening.
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Replying to Theladytamara 10 days ago
no it did not, I think you're projecting the mediocrity of the other cdramas youre watching. They delivered exactly…
If you are not willing to be civil and respectful it isn't worth having a discussion. Relax a little bit and understand not everyone shares the same viewpoint.
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Replying to Smart Mouse 12 days ago
Title Bloody Smart
is it good?
Just watched 2 episodes and I would say so far so good. Give it a shot.
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Replying to Theladytamara 12 days ago
no it did not, I think you're projecting the mediocrity of the other cdramas youre watching. They delivered exactly…
I think you might be taking my opinion above a bit to personally and seriously. If you truly enjoyed it, I am glad for you and I won't try to take that from you by starting some terrible debate that would go in circles.
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Replying to monkeylover 14 days ago
it's not really toxic at the end, they learn to love each other with positivity. He had experienced trauma, so…
All of his constant lying and then the show just going oh it is his trauma is just too annoying for me in most of these type of shows. It lets usually the male (but can be female) lead get excused of their actions by making the other feel sorry for them. Which makes the relationship feel manipulative and weird. Some dramas do it even worse than this one, but I have been so burnt on this trope that when I see it I kind of peace out. There are times it can work but more often than not it just frustrates me.
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Replying to monkeylover 15 days ago
it's not really toxic at the end, they learn to love each other with positivity. He had experienced trauma, so…
The problem is when something starts so toxic for me it is difficult to root for them to get together.
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Replying to Lizzy 18 days ago
I think a lot of the older xianxia dramas have this theme. As the other commenter said- “Moonlight Mystique”…
Yeah, it is a really common theme for sure. Thanks for the recs and do tell me about your thoughts on Love and Destiny more I am now curious.
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Replying to Salwa Nice 18 days ago
You might like "Moonlight Mystique" (2025)
I randomly stopped watching that a long time ago but I did enjoy it fairly well. Are there any more like it?
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On Love and Destiny 20 days ago
One day I will find a Xianxia that doesn't involve a male lead lying to the female lead for their own "good"
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On Immortal Samsara: Part 1 25 days ago
I guess I just dislike Xianxias. I can't stand the horrible miscommunication leading to fake drama and angst. Maybe I just need to quit Cdramas or am I just unlucky.
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On A Dream within a Dream Jul 11, 2026
She keeps progressing more and more to a passive side character. What started as an interesting satire turned into the thing it was satirizing. Misunderstandings lies abuse you name it. Should have started that way and continued to peel the layers as the characters evolved but instead if just kept going deeper until it fell into the pitfalls of cdramas.
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On The Red Sleeve Jun 27, 2026
People need to understand this this drama isn't really a romance. It is a tale of abuse and a woman being trapped by a genuinely much crueler king than people think. Look up some of the real history this story is about. Sadly, the drama portrays the king more sympathetically than what even happens in real life.
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Replying to Yao muxi Jun 19, 2026
Title Fated Hearts
Exactly the point,,female lead character wasnt necesary & yet at the begging they show us that there mysteries…
Yeah just is how a lot of Cdramas are. They tend to gravitate towards one character and leave the other behind.
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