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Also, don’t misunderstand me. I’m not saying about this kdrama like unrealistic revenge 😅

I’m not saying you can discipline them only by words. If you really want something abusive to teach them a lesson then I think revenge is better than that.

I replied above. No, i wasn’t a teacher and I wouldn’t want to be one because I was a witness of what teachers had to go through. But I was bullied for my whole childhood and teenage years. Then i adapted ocd, cptsd, social phobia, depression, suicide attempts and more. I still hate that I must hurt and go through the therapy but they live happily and they don’t even remember my existence anymore. I was also phisically abused so I’m against violence even more. If he wanted to beat him up, he could do that masking his identity or wait until they are expelled from school. There are many ways to not beat the student among the whole school.

And in the school among other teachers and students… I was bullied for my whole childhood and teenage life. But I would have panic attack if I saw my teacher hitting boys who bullied me. I have now cptsd, ocd, i went through depression and social phobia because of bullying. But I still wouldn’t want to see it…

,,Discipline themselves’’ i know what you mean by that but it’s still the same thinking as those abusive parents think: ,,i don’t beat them. i just discipline them’’. Is abusing the only way to discipline someone? Those students monsters won’t change anyway. So it’s better to think how to make them not hurt the others anymore

I don’t know what to think. I really want to watch this drama but I felt uncomfortable seeing a teacher hitting the student. No matter what he did, he was still a teacher not a random man who could hit him. Also, I’m totally on Koreans’ side. Westerners as always critize Koreans not knowing anything about their culture or situations. Koreans put their all to cancel the webtoon. The webtoon was so misogynistic, racist and problematic that the whole Naver was canceled. This webtoon was literally a huge wave. Everyone knew it. You all say Koreans are misogynistic and racist and then its them who cancel the webtoon while you worship its live adaptation. Westerners are such hypocrites.

oh i take my words back. he’s friends with a cheater Jung Woosung

Did he rejected casting in Teach You a Lesson by himself? If that’s so, that was very feminist of him and impressing. Actors and actresses who played in this drama followed only the need of money but he followed his values.

Didn’t he show up his grooming tendencies towards Danielle from NewJeans?

Do you mean you don’t know what I’m saying? 😅 Of course as I said before, you might be less of a bad person than the people who actually did something bad but if you are still friends with them or hang out with them it means you accept that. People constantly bring up men having problematic friends and that they can’t support them because of that and no one call them men hater but when I once did that with a woman suddenly I’m a misogynist. As if my account wasn’t mostly about critizing problematic men and complimenting talented and sweet women on this app. It’s rare for me to critise woman but because of people like her I was always afraid that i’m a fake women supporter if I critise a woman. Because you can say something slightly negative about a woman and chronically online gen z people will call you a misogynist. It has nothing to do with a gender and i on purpose listed all the problematic men she supports not to blame her for it but to notice how many problematic people she supports at once and all of them are men. I do the same with men. For example Hong Kyung, Jung Haein, Lee Donghwi and more. All of those actors are friends with cheaters and racists. So I call them out too. With Jiyeon im especially disappointed because I wanted to support her due to her great acting and lovely filmography.

Yes! After my comments on men profiles someone could assume i hate all men (well… kind of because why most of them are always men?!) but there are indeed talented and unproblematic male actors people could talk about. But they always choose problematic ones with no acting skills. Then what is is that they support about him and other men like him if they have nothing to offer? No personality, no acting skills, problematic actions… they don’t even watch their productions for art. They only watch them because they act in them and then they hate on their female leads.

Man can’t act, is mysogynystic, hates his own wife, trapped her with children, controls her while doing worse things himself, is manipulative, toxic and who knows what else. I wouldn’t be surprised if he blackamailed her over something so that’s why she’s staying with him. It’s not rare to see in popular super rich couple’s relationships. There were even some dramas based on this. My favorite artists who played with him in productions aren’t friends with him so at least I know that even people who know him personally see his disgusting personality.

I just found out about it and it’s true. There is no discussion at all. But when people openly critized Lee Byunghun for MULTIPLE cheating on his wife then it was just like you just said. It’s interesting that people with values critize all cheaters: women, men, popular, unpopular.. but they defend only popular men. None of them deserve defending but you’re totally right. They don’t care about non-mainstream celebrities.

I don’t know but I know that in your country women are super male centered so..

He did something that can’t be forgiven. We have rights to hate him. But you cross the line and bring up someones private life just to defend a monster

How can i not hate someone who made the other person commit suicide?

you really go too far in the name of defending him…

damn… all for a man…

I don’t need to prove my empathy to anyone. I know what I’ve been through and that’s it. But remember that emapthetic people also aren’t always scared to say what they think about crimes.

Ok so screw my therapy because my empathy ruined my life just because a chronically online random pedo defender told me otherwise