Nashita Nusaibah

This whole "wanting her to hate him and hurting her to achieve that" is what doesn't sit right with me and majority here. I assure you if it was Qing Mu, he would have handled it better. He is the ML, so of course there are expectations from him to handle his love life in a more stable way. Xianxia dramas are popular for stabbing scenes. And him being stabbed by houchi is the only stabbing scene of leads that made me go like "ah, deserved!"

He went back again, it was not like she had to be constantlybe around him. Most of the poeple deal with it like that when close friends propose them. He just asked to be friends. She could easily deny it, which she did but much later. I am not defending him but i get where he was coming from. His parents' divorce made him commitment-phobic. They both had their own share of flaws but nothing too great to be hated in such a way. And i would rather watch a flawed love story than an unrealistic perfect one.

Ah, yes! She remains pathetic till the end! 😑

Surprising I didn’t hate him either. Was just too frustrated. But I would never understand his reasoning! This kinda noble idiocy has always been one of the most irritating plot device for me. The way she was humiliated and her immortal tie was severed yet he did nothing, will always anger me. And you are right, the ml of TMOPB was worse.

Will the female lead remain pathetic till the end? As a woman it is unbearable to watch!

Yeah

Years will pass but Si Feng will remain the bestest ML & greenest flag in the world of Cdrama!

Nah, i am too disappointed at the ML in epi 41. This is TMOPB all over again. MLs hurting their women to death to pRoTEcT them has to be one of the most ridiculous plot device. Especially when the FLs are pregnant. This is straight up sadistic!

Same! She's really getting on my nerves. I hate to see girl without self-respect like her! This is annoying! Does she get better?

Some senses are underdeveloped & some are completely lost. She can hear but not that well, can see but only black-white, can’t taste or smell things, can’t feel things when she touches them, can’t acknowledge or distinguish emotions!

Same!!

Don't trust people here. It's actually not that bad! A 8.5/10 drama. It's just that you might have the urge to slap Moon Ga Young & Kim Min Jae's characters time to time!

Some popular opinions about this drama which I don't agree with-
1. "The leads don't have chemistry" - a complete LIE. The leads have great chemistry. (One of the best chemistrys in kdramaland) The angst was chef's kiss!!
2. "The FL can't act." - Not true. There was nothing extraordinary about her acting but it wasn't bad either. (The controversial scene where viewers wanted her to cry but she didn't, actually has a logic. If you think from the FL's POV, you'll get why she didn't cry)
3. "The friends shouldn't have turned against each other." - Lmao! That was the most toxic friend group, i have ever seen. It was good that the ML finally got rid of those two toxic friends."
4. "Moon Ga Young's character should have been the FL" - NO. Absolute No. The urge to just go inside the screen & slap her character was real. She was the one who created the whole problem and then acted like a victim. Her personal problems cannot justify her evil doings. (Nothing against the actress. I LOVED her as Ju Kyung in True Beauty)

I watched this drama back when I used to dislike Chinese dramas (I used to find them boring for various reasons). BUT this drama was really good. It I remember regretting not watching it before while I was watching this. If you can look past the cliches, you will like this drama. I dare say this is the best contrast marriage cdrama out there. No baby voiced stupid FL, no super toxic unbearable jerk ML. They both have flaws of their own but nothing unbearable. LOVE how they handled the whole marriage and never belittled each other or the marriage in front of others. They cleverly avoided some well known misunderstanding tropes, which surprised me. Most importantly, there was gradual growth in their relationship. They didn’t suddenly fall for each other. It took time and looked believable!

When the couple get back together?

This is my problem too with Cdramas. They fall in love too early and it doesn’t even show the gradual development of their feelings! “When the FL said that she would protect him” I legit said “why”. The sudden change of heart was that ridiculous!

Finally finished it! But the way our intelligent leads needed 38 episodes to know YWY’s identity is very weird. Also, when he went missing for 5 years after ep 38, the leads already knew his identity. Then why didn’t they try to alert HC or start preparing for the face-off that’s bound to happen in the future?

Can somebody tell me about the romance part in this drama? How is it?

I recently watched “Ten Miles Of Peach Blossom” and I loved Dijun & Feng Jiu’s love story more than the leads’ love story. So I was planning to watch this one. But someone said that their story changed in this drama! Is it true? If yes then is their story as good as that in TMOPB?

No, it’s his innocent love, supportive nature, loving patience, valuing her safety and well-being over anything else that made him one of the best MLs.

Do you just throw around the word “Abuse” like that? Xuanji was not capable of loving (you know why) still, she told him to teach her how to love, wanted a forever with him, stood by him several times when people misunderstood him, fought for him, went against her family and people for him, used to go bat shit crazy whenever someone tried to hurt him, was willing to trust him even after the biggest lie. She committed 1 big mistake and suffered for 3 years for that. She did all that inspite of being unable to love. So, yeah there were some toxicity but not of the level of this one and they never made me question “do they even love each other” instead in almost every episode I was like “oh they’re so in love. Let them be together, writer!” So, it remains my ultimate favourite!

This one is so so underrated. The leads have beautiful chemistry. The ML did reject her because of this trauma but his character develops and he is the one who puts more efforts in the entire drama (from ep 4-11) They are still one of my favourite couples.