Lady_Kexing

This comment section is going to be a war zone 😭🫠 Everyone says they’re ready for Lu Feng’s revenge era until Lu Feng actually starts getting revenge 😭

And yes, I think we’re finally getting the bath scene 😏

THE PREVIEWS OMG 😱😱😱 Lulu is absolutely LIVID. Can’t wait to see the episodes 😌

Before going to Lu Feng’s office he put on their ring that now is a necklace. (It’s the same one Lu Feng rips off in the trailer)

I actually see your point, and I agree that people often overlook Yi Chen’s flaws while focusing only on Lu Feng’s. I’ve always thought both of them were toxic in different ways.

That said, I still think the necklace scene felt a little manipulative. Not because I think Yi Chen was trying to hurt Lu Feng, but because it felt like he knew exactly what that necklace meant and what kind of reaction it could get from him.

At the same time, I completely understand why he did it. He was hurt, he still had feelings for him, and part of him probably wanted to know if he still mattered. That’s what makes the scene so interesting to me 😌😌

So I don’t really see it as malicious manipulation, but I also don’t see it as a completely innocent gesture. It felt like a very human reaction from someone who was still emotionally attached and hoping for a response

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Exactly

I think that’s exactly what he expected.

The problem is that Lu Feng loved him so unconditionally for so long that YC started taking that love for granted. Deep down, I think he genuinely believed that no matter how much time had passed, no matter how much pain he had caused, Lu Feng would still be there waiting for him.
And honestly? The fact that he showed up wearing the ring necklace and even took off his glasses before going into the office made it feel like he already knew exactly which emotional buttons to push.

He was pretty manipulative in my opinion

Exactly!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

This is what frustrates me the most.
People keep talking as if Lulu's choice was somehow easier because his father was abusive, as if being cut off by your family, losing your name, your inheritance, and everything you've ever known isn't terrifying.
Do they think Lulu wasn't scared? Do they think he didn't love his family at all? Did we all collectively forget the scene where he cried after his father's death?

And it frustrates me terribly that people often talk as if the only thing Yi Chen did was agree to the marriage.

But that’s not what happened.

Lulu was willing to lose everything for Yi Chen. Even after finding out about the marriage, he was still ready to be disowned because, for him, nothing mattered more than being with Yi Chen. His sister literally had to force him to think rationally.

Meanwhile, Yi Chen didn’t just end the relationship. He blocked Lulu’s number, threw away his SIM card, disappeared for five years, and continued a marriage he never wanted long after his mother’s death.

People reduce the discussion to “he was forced to get married,” but the marriage was only the beginning. The years that followed were also a series of choices, and those choices had consequences for everyone involved.

Yeah the company was forced to cancel the event because people got hurt 😔

The amount of people defending Yi Chen’s mother is honestly concerning.

You can sympathize with Yi Chen without pretending his mother’s request was reasonable.
A parent asking their gay child to leave the person they love, marry someone else, and become “normal” is not an act of love. It’s homophobia.
You can tell to yourself what you want to sleep good at night but it’s still homophobia.

Also there is a reason why viewers compare Yi Chen and Lulu in the first place.

And it might be a shock, but It’s not because they hate Yi Chen.
It’s because the story gives us a direct comparison: both men were asked to give up the person they loved for their families. Lulu refused. Yi Chen didn’t.

That doesn’t make Yi Chen a bad person. It doesn’t mean he didn’t love Lulu. It means that he chose to act in that way. And people are allowed to have an opinion about that.

But please stop acting as if Lulu’s sacrifice was somehow easier, or as if Yi Chen’s mother was justified because she was dying.

A deathbed wish doesn’t automatically become morally right.

Hopefully with what happened at Zhang Linghe’s event this news will be overshadowed by that one. (But in both cases it’s awful what happened and China should really do something about saesangs)

The airport videos are genuinely concerning. I was feeling sick while watching them 😭😭

I don’t think anyone is saying Yi Chen should have abandoned his mother while she was dying.

What many of us struggle with is the idea that his only option was to agree to her demands.

He could have stayed by her side, cared for her, supported her, and still refused to give up his relationship and his identity.
Maybe some of you don’t fully realize how serious it is to ask a gay son to stop being gay, and to use a deathbed wish as moral pressure to make him comply. That’s not a small request. That’s asking someone to sacrifice a fundamental part of who they are.
A dying parent deserves compassion. That doesn’t mean they are entitled to ask their child to spend years pretending to be someone they’re not.

I can understand why Yi Chen felt trapped. What I can’t agree with is treating his mother’s request as reasonable just because she was dying.

Yeah he was on a mission 😎

Well if it was destiny it’s even better 😂

Preach bestie 🙌🏻🙌🏻

I would’ve spent every single dollar of that inheritance living my best life 💅🏼

They are watching another series, because saying that Lulu doesn’t love Yi Chen is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard 😂

THIS! 👏🏻👏🏻

What pains me the most is that he was surely dying inside but he was strong enough to face him 😭

I don’t understand why some people act like it’s mandatory to hate Lu Feng.

Or like having a negative opinion of Yi Chen’s choices automatically means you’re missing the point.

Be honest for a second. If you gave up your family name, your inheritance, your future and your relationship with your family for someone, and they still chose to leave you to appease their mother, would you really be this understanding?

Because I don’t believe most people would.

If we actually put ourselves in Lu Feng’s shoes, a lot more people would understand why he’s angry.

Has he reacted badly at times? Sure.

But let’s look at what happened to him.

He was beaten. Sent away. Threatened. Forced to hide. He lost his father. He spent years being treated like a problem that needed fixing.

And even now, he’s once again being painted as the villain because he’s gay.

That’s literally the accusation being thrown at him. That he “corrupted” Yi Chen. That his homosexuality ruined Yi Chen’s life.

Meanwhile Yi Chen’s brother went from being openly homophobic to openly dating a man and flirting with him in front of his mother, and somehow nobody seems nearly as concerned.

Because the burden of being “normal” in that family has always fallen on Yi Chen.

So yes, I think it’s completely understandable that people don’t approve of what happened.

And let’s not forget the five years that were thrown away. Five years of separation. Five years of loneliness. Five years of a marriage that wasn’t even a real marriage.

Five years.

I’m not saying Yi Chen is evil. I’m saying I don’t understand why sympathy is extended to everyone except Lu Feng.