RURU

I forgot to ask before watching, is the novel HE or Open ending? also since it's time traveling starting from this life, how does she know the other lives are hers since they'll be new memories for her ( meaning it was never amnesia so does she know she needs to go back cz those lives are her future)

But why would the previous life vanish if the second one vanished tho? She had to go back to kill him to have the current life but what was bad about the previous one that they couldn’t just stay together (I’m guessing the ml would ask that too) I get she wanted the current one to stay but there is no reason to end the previous one (same ppl anyways)
Now that it happened, does she remember the past then goes back in time? Or are her memories of the past gone but she still goes back to keep the current life intact?

wait why tho? is she not the same person but another life? if she is then she could've lived with him peacefully as ningan and the whole xiaoyao life wouldn't have needed to happen (why the heartbreak?) or did he need to go through this pain as some sort of destined tribulation so the death had to happen anyways?

I haven't watched yet cz I'm waiting for a bit of the plot to move forward since she has no memories but I wanted to know what led her to kill him (wasn't even sealing or anything just united killing) but she also kills herself? then what's the point? it makes even less sense

Are there spoilers for why the betrayal happened? It’s death so there really is no excuse from the fl’s side even if she cried after killing him. I’m guessing she wasn’t fully onboard or a misunderstanding cz she lost her memories (is human now) so someone’s behind it

I don't get it. she's mature, smart, beautiful, and vibing so well with the ml so smoothly. the guy makes her smile without even trying and she stops crying around him. she even said she wished she met him first cz of how well they work and yet she's stuck on that 2nd lead? I get it's hard to let go of crushes but if the attraction itself makes no sense to me then the residual feelings she still has make less sense. the ml's friend was right, "what are ur standards if Lin yusen doesn't make the cut?" 2nd lead is half the man this green forest of a creature in front of u !!! I get the initial hesitation but if the previews are right then the tension between her and the 2nd lead is still long from gone which annoys me. his interaction with her infront of the restroom was proving my point more and enough tears were shed for this guy!

ugh why is her heart still fluttering for that guy? she's still so affected by him and I don't get why. she saw how a real gentleman should act through the ml the previous day and still stares at the 2ml during the wedding? I would get it if they dated or if he was good at least once to her but the red flag was blazing hot u can't miss the signs (especially the wine dumping at the end of ep 11 (he won't apologise but silently standing as the rest go to her) I need this guy's arc to be done already

Wow wait the dad’s involved? Wasn’t it just the girl asking for a date with the ml? He had an accident which was unfortunate but it wasn’t her fault (her only issue is saying she’s the dad’s daughter) but still for the dad to reject their relationship? Why? There was no real hate or crime involved

considering they get together after he finds out the truth (second confession) does he let her know why he misunderstood and everything is out before they get together or will she know further in the relationship

it's the amount of shares, her family's more tho it's really the dad and she's not into generational benefits so she most probably won't be the future boss at least not for him if he leaves the field to dabble with medicine again

considering he's having a hard time just playing games (totally realistic) and is using glasses to drive then no he most probably was allowed in the OR to check on a patient (still licensed) or has a related desk job (he consulted in the recent eps so it could be similar to that)

I consider both as second leads cz the basement guy is showing signs already and the prosecutor guy shows signs of a misunderstanding (he wasn't the bully but the guy who said "it stinks" while being pissed off at the whole situation-not the whole thing was shown so usually it means there's another side to the story- most probably it was his way of stopping the bully albeit by acting passive aggressively. so the usual misunderstood 2nd lead setting.

true, his trauma might interfere but her actions so far should show sincerity and not obsession so despite the initial disgust, he might come around when he finds out about their first meeting (by the river) so it'll be like "oh the girl I saved was u " and so on.

same. it depends on ur relationship with ur parents but love life? no way would I talk with them cz it'd feel awkward unless it's marriage talks and they met the guy. but friends are in the same age group and know the ppl u're talking about so u don't need to explain alot. also this is seen so much more amongst girls cz it's gossip/tea so nothing unusual about it. honestly it's what's saving her from misunderstandings (if they didn't know the details as the story went on, what would've stopped them from assuming she's in an illicit affair?) silence breeds rumours.

ikr I was smiling throughout the whole interaction. the guy was so far off smiling without realising he was just digging himself a grave. I was like dude u just lost 2nd lead status big time. he's not an awful person but this is why situational awareness and EQ are important in a relationship and this guy has none (added with an inferiority complex for being poor- tho he only assumed she was rich for having rich parents but never asked about her childhood or why she wasn't acting spoiled- his fault for assuming when she didn't even give off that vibe)

loving this but totally disliking the potential 2leads, if there's a romantic line for either one with the 2fl then I hope it's done soon cz the friend is already interfering based on the preview. the ml needs major healing and the fl seems to be perfect for job (sincerely liking the man and not idolising him in her brain so the switch from fan to lovers won't be weird) she seems to just respect him for now and is a fan so any romantic thoughts are still long from now but I'm sure living together and the following closeness will change that

so how does the ml find out the truth behind the date pre accident? it can't be from her cz she wasn't involved and if it's his friend then he could've found out a long time ago so it has to be that impersonator right? I hope this comes up not too late cz the confession is after it right? tho it seems she'll initially reject him cz that 2ml (still can't see why she's attached to the guy but his looks, his actions are such a turnoff but I guess first crush is hard to let go) can't wait for their start!

Can you share whether he finds out the truth and starts treating her better or it’ll be that he sees her sincerity and falls for her actions so he forgives her (and find out later on)?

why is it always the kind allies that die? I was hoping it was the asshole bandmate, atleast there would be a motive (their hate) but the cutie friend whyyyyy hasn't he been through enough

what kind of security does he have for stalkers to frequent his house and get his number? the standards idols need to have are just not worth the fame honestly. they have more PTSD than war survivors at this point. I don't even get why the treatment is different to normal singers/bands or why ppl would be idols instead of singers/bands to avoid that treatment