While I am enjoying the Ex-Morning series, I have to question again - RE: so many series, not just this one -…
WHY are so many female characters that are written into BL series so USELESS and STUPID?//
Because they're afraid that if they give the female character an actual personality, she'll overshadow the leads or worse, turn out to be a strong rival (which is not always true). So they make her act dumb, overly loud and obnoxious and of course, the cheerleader of the male leads' relationship based on stereotypes of fujoshis or stereotypes of women in general.
Female characters with actual personalities on BLs are some of the most hated character ever by the audience. Even when they haven't done anything wrong yet, they are hated with so much passion by the viewers the moment she steps on screen. Due to this, a lot of BL fans have been conditioned to hate female characters on sight. Sadly, many of them don't realise it.
Even if you write a female character who is a parallel to one of the male leads, she'll be hated for everything she does with so much criticisms while the male lead will be cuddled and will have thousands of excuses made by the viewers in his defence.
So, many BL viewers will rather take a cartonish and loud female character like this over a well written female with her own personality.
Oh, man. They are hyping up Tam's reasons for doing what he did sooo much. I'm just worried that nothing is going…
💯💯💯 That's exactly how I feel. I fear that I'm already thinking that there's no good reason on this planet that would justify breaking up with your lover that way, and now I worry any excuse they come up with might ruin the show for me.
You and me, girl! You and me! I could never forgive such betrayal, even if he's the last person on the planet.…
Exactly and let me tell you that every single excuse I imagine is not enough for him to treat Phi that way. Idc if Tam lost a family member or something.
He better not come up with an excuse that says "I wanted the best for you or something ".... Listen, I'll flip if he says that bcos it isn't his call to make and traumatising his bf over what could have been an amiable breakup is not it at all.
Now I really understand Phi's attitude in ep 1 when Tam came back cos If I was Phi, I'll rather lose that job than work with him.
Finally, Coolheart in a role that actually suit him.. Amazing. Let's go.
Me seeing my Playboyy boys in different shows lately is giving me so much happiness. Might be support roles, but atleast, it's something bcos opportunities are really important.
This is a fictional romance and I'm up for watching them reconcile and all, yet I couldn't help but think....if this was me.....if I was Phi, how would I react to meeting this kind of Ex again? For me, it's simple really. I'll never accept him/her back. I mean, Tam knew damn well he was gonna leave Phi the next day and he never said anything...he only told him "to promise he will keep going no matter what happens".... He knew that day was important to Phi, but he didn't say a thing. All the time he was secretly making those arrangements, Phi was in the dark. You don't wake up and have your bags ready to relocate to another country without adequate preparations. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure he has his reasons, still doesn't make him less of an asshole. You never ever break up with someone you claim you love over a text unless you hate them.
Let's assume he was forced to leave Phi. Still, he should have told him.
Let's assume Tam couldn't stand to say goodbye. Still makes him an asshole, bcos if you say you can't stand goodbyes, but can stand hurting someone you love in that way, disappearing on them, breaks up with them over a text, they never got to confront you face-to-face, no closure, and leaving them wondering what the hell they did wrong to deserve that.....that's a massive asshole, and nope, there's no way I'll ever accept that kind of person back.... And of course they get to waltz back into your life again as they please bcos they have "a hero complex"...
That being said, I'm sat for the romance. Now, we wait for Tam's explanation.
its not only the bl industry. doesn't matter if it's bl or straight, I read enough straight novels to know. S.A…
💯💯 and it's appalling. I ran away from straight novels years ago due to romancitized SA which the commenter usually have no problem with. Only to stumble into BL and find out it's not much different. Surprisingly, many of those novels containing so much SA had no trigger warning and were not categorized as "dark romance". Imagine the horror I felt and the horror I feel now seeing how lightly BLs treat SA and how a lot of BL fans and even some actors don't take it seriously. I guess thoee who've never been victims of SA can't muster up any empathy for others.
But in the ending scene Tada said that he won't be just someone who watches him from a distance because he got…
Remember that Tada already appeared to save him in the middle of the road before Armin went back to the set where he shot that beautiful dying scene. Tada has already showed up for Armin (something he's never done before) and then after Armin shot that dying scene, that's when Tada watched the clip.
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Yes, true. A lot of people are more forgiving than us and that's why the single life suits me the best. Cos I can't deal with nonsense like these😂😂
Because they're afraid that if they give the female character an actual personality, she'll overshadow the leads or worse, turn out to be a strong rival (which is not always true).
So they make her act dumb, overly loud and obnoxious and of course, the cheerleader of the male leads' relationship based on stereotypes of fujoshis or stereotypes of women in general.
Female characters with actual personalities on BLs are some of the most hated character ever by the audience. Even when they haven't done anything wrong yet, they are hated with so much passion by the viewers the moment she steps on screen.
Due to this, a lot of BL fans have been conditioned to hate female characters on sight. Sadly, many of them don't realise it.
Even if you write a female character who is a parallel to one of the male leads, she'll be hated for everything she does with so much criticisms while the male lead will be cuddled and will have thousands of excuses made by the viewers in his defence.
So, many BL viewers will rather take a cartonish and loud female character like this over a well written female with her own personality.
That's exactly how I feel.
I fear that I'm already thinking that there's no good reason on this planet that would justify breaking up with your lover that way, and now I worry any excuse they come up with might ruin the show for me.
Idc if Tam lost a family member or something.
He better not come up with an excuse that says "I wanted the best for you or something ".... Listen, I'll flip if he says that bcos it isn't his call to make and traumatising his bf over what could have been an amiable breakup is not it at all.
Now I really understand Phi's attitude in ep 1 when Tam came back cos If I was Phi, I'll rather lose that job than work with him.
Me seeing my Playboyy boys in different shows lately is giving me so much happiness. Might be support roles, but atleast, it's something bcos opportunities are really important.
For me, it's simple really. I'll never accept him/her back. I mean, Tam knew damn well he was gonna leave Phi the next day and he never said anything...he only told him "to promise he will keep going no matter what happens"....
He knew that day was important to Phi, but he didn't say a thing. All the time he was secretly making those arrangements, Phi was in the dark. You don't wake up and have your bags ready to relocate to another country without adequate preparations.
Yeah, yeah, I'm sure he has his reasons, still doesn't make him less of an asshole. You never ever break up with someone you claim you love over a text unless you hate them.
Let's assume he was forced to leave Phi. Still, he should have told him.
Let's assume Tam couldn't stand to say goodbye. Still makes him an asshole, bcos if you say you can't stand goodbyes, but can stand hurting someone you love in that way, disappearing on them, breaks up with them over a text, they never got to confront you face-to-face, no closure, and leaving them wondering what the hell they did wrong to deserve that.....that's a massive asshole, and nope, there's no way I'll ever accept that kind of person back....
And of course they get to waltz back into your life again as they please bcos they have "a hero complex"...
That being said, I'm sat for the romance. Now, we wait for Tam's explanation.
Only to stumble into BL and find out it's not much different.
Surprisingly, many of those novels containing so much SA had no trigger warning and were not categorized as "dark romance".
Imagine the horror I felt and the horror I feel now seeing how lightly BLs treat SA and how a lot of BL fans and even some actors don't take it seriously.
I guess thoee who've never been victims of SA can't muster up any empathy for others.
What's with the hubby?🤦♀️🤦♀️
But then again, even if he was reborn, will he even tell his secretary? Who would believe him?😂😂 They'll think he's crazy.
Tada has already showed up for Armin (something he's never done before) and then after Armin shot that dying scene, that's when Tada watched the clip.