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Sand said he had a roomate because he indeed have a roomate in his home, therefore, Boeing cannot go to his home. He didn't need to say he had a boyfriend, because Boeing had just met his boyfriend and spoke to him about the said Boyfriend but even that was not enough to dissuade him. Sand has a boyfriend and a roomate. That is two different reasons he gave Boeing.

While I understand that he shouldn't have sent Ray away, but he had told Ray about his ex being around already. Ray can feel bad about being Sent away, and it's allowed but inviting Boeing over to his home is a NO NO.

So I have finally watched the whole ep 11.
So where is the hate for Sand coming from? Sand never introduced Ray as his friend. It was Boeing who mentioned the word "friend", but Ray corrected him by using "boyfriend" and Sand never denied it.

Secondly, WTH was that? Why would Ray invite Boeing home when Sand was dealing with the situation already? Sand was already establishing boundaries with Boeing and gently turning him down, (although if it were me, I wouldn't give an ex my time), still I don't see what Sand did that's so wrong? Sand did not want Ray to witness things get messy with Boeing as he did not know what Boeing wanted to speak to him about.
Maybe not send Ray away when Boeing arrived, possibly, but old emotions yet to be laid to rest must have resurfaced. Honestly, Ray overstepped. They just started a new relationship and prior to this, Ray consistently messed up.. He needs to trust Sand.

P.S: Ray inviting Boeing to his house was like De ja vu, cos Mew did the exact same thing, except that Mew's move was tagged as revenge and he was once again crucified.

As for Cheum and Atom, while I have never disliked Cheum because they barely show her, I am deeply unsatisfied with that scene. So "my wicked little brother " and she proceeds to hug him? Fine and good, but I was expecting her to strangle him next and go off on him for daring to accuse someone of SA and taking of nude photos without consent. How dare they make light of that situation? Being accused of SA when the person is innocent is really terrible, because situations like this makes real victims get ignored and the accused who actually did it gets away with it, while the falsely accused goes to jail or end up stigmatised.
Are they trying to push her reaction to ep 12? That ruins that arc for me and by ep 12, it's a reaction and apology much too late.

Boeing started out as hot and interesting to flat, in like 5mins. Jumping around like a housefly, reeks of desperation cos it seem like he just wanna attach himself to something.

I know. They quickly forgave him and made Mew the villain. It seems like every other character is allowed to mess up time and tims again but not Mew. The unnecessary hate on him, who is chearly struggling internally.
That sudden redemption arc was just crap because instead of giving Mew space and time to process, deal with and heal, Mew was presented with a sudden "good" guy who kerps showing up and applying pressure on him. I don't know how people did not see that it was wrong.

Every other shitty character mess up time and time again but gets forgiven and "understood ". Nah, people are too biased.

Lol. I know. And because Mew is not giving Top what he wants, Mew is seen in a bad light.
What about the struggles Mew is experiencing? Honestly, trust is harder to regain than love. I relate so much with Mew because I went through something similar. I hated how he kept showing up invited asking for forgiveness, even though i had made it clear i will never accept him back. He brought his friends and persuaded my neighbours to plead with. I was scared of going home cos I wasn't certain he won't suddenly show up. For months...

So i don't like how Top ignores Mew's healing, thinking he's the balm to Mew's soul. Top should be ready to accept the new Mew because the naive one is gone. Look at him thinking Mew will sleep with Boeing. I knew Mew won't do that and i also know Mew did not get close to Boeing to revenge on Top. He simply got closer to the enemy to know what he wanted inorder to beat him.at his own game.
Imagine Top showing up at Mew's house without informing him and then giving him attitude claiming that "it won't work between them", then why the heck did you show up?. I just wanted Mew to tell him to F off. Showing up repeatedly like a righteous Knight, playing the victim and making Mew look mean.
On that note, I don't like Mew's parents. Sorry. Ignoring Mew's obvious discomfort with Top repeatedly and even inviting Top behind Mew's back, when they don't know what went wrong between them.
I actually hope more parents pay attention to their children's verbal and nonverbal communication. This is how children who are being bullied and abuse by someone really close to family, and are scared to speak up gets ignored.

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You echoed my thoughts.
I guess Mew was supposed to just develop Amnesia and forget the whole thing happened. Is it so easy to forgive and then forget?
Honestly, the reason why I still don't accept Top's redemption was the way he never backed off nor give Mew some space to actually process and heal.
It's like he hurt someone, suddenly turned 360 degrees and became the good guy, and the person he hurt is supposed to just accept the new him and take him back? How about the pain, love, conflict and confusion Mew is dealing with inside?

Yes, we should and throw in a 2weeks vacation just to relax and let go. Some nice weather, sunshine and healing...

Exactly. I didn't see what Mew did by bringing Boeing closer to himself as revenge. Like me, I'll like to keep the enemy close and beat them at their own game.
Well, if Top cannot accept the new Mew, he can F off (I wish I wrote the script😆). The okd naive and innocent Mew is gone.
Forgiving is one thing, forgetting is another.
As if it's so easy to overcome a betrayl of that magnitude.

How can I like this a thousand times?
This is the first time since I started this series that I feel like crying.
The fact that you captured Mew exactly how he is and how he's feeling, when he's so misunderstood.
I had wish I could put everything in words the way you do.

All of these. Then throw in Perth's intense stare.
I'm hooked until the end🤧

Lol. Finally someone echo my sentiments. I got so pissed off that I stopped watching. I will continue when I'm calmer.
So he doesn't think it can work but he shows up at Mew's house univited after refusing to pick Mew's calls. Like dude, wtf do u want? Can Mew just tell this guy to piss off?
I guess overcoming betrayal is done overnight since drama-world are usually pitch perfect.
Kudos to those with "such" forgiving spirit that can forget things overnight and move on. Cannot be me. I'm petty asf.

That intense stare that Perth has going on deserves it's own episode.🤧.

Welcome to wonderland

I know....😒

🤣🤣. How did you come up with this?

Boeing might make a play for everyone of us😭

Team Mew again today, for all the haters who loves to hate on him for absolutely nothing 🤧

Add me to the crew and throwaway Boeing🤧

Me neither🤣

Don't worry. A lot of people are waiting to binge watch. The comment section will get even more interesting then.

Thanks for responding 😊