No, she thought her lover abandoned her and thought that all men were like that, so she didn't want her daughter…
That exactly my point though. Just because something "happened" to you does not mean it will happen to someone else. She wants her daughter not to "suffer" the same fate as her and in order to do that she is willing to force a loyal and good general to die and to divorce his wife. Her good intentions do not justify her actions.
Not suffer but they shouldn't depend solely on love.
True, but that wasn't why she was about to sentence them to death at one point. She felt because her lover "failed" her that everyone else's love was pointless. That's selfish and weird. I'm also not buying her pretense of wanting what's best for her daughter because how could she think her daughter being in a loveless marriage by force would result in anything good?
I posted a link to the trailers in the discussion section. Go to the "Where to go to find trailers" thread and click the link. There should be a trailer for ep 19.
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Ngl, I was not expecting that. The trailers did not prepare me for how she died. I thought the fog we saw in the trailers was what killed her 😭
https://twitter.com/orenji_xz_lyn/status/1702271970963005611?s=46