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Thanks for sharing that—your journey from skepticism to appreciation is a great reminder that first impressions can change. And you’re right, open-mindedness matters in criticism.

But here’s the thing: I’ve noticed not a single person is calling the male lead “dumb” or tagging him with negative labels—even when he does questionable things. Yet as soon as the FL reacts emotionally or messily, she gets hit with those comments immediately.

That double standard isn’t about being oversensitive—it’s about recognizing that women’s performances and emotions are often judged under a harsher lens. Pointing it out isn’t meant to shut discussion down but to ask: can we be fair and conscious of our biases?

You keep saying she’s dumb, but I’m still waiting to hear exactly what she did that makes her dumb. Vague complaints don’t really explain much. If you want to criticize, at least give some examples.

Actually, a lot of people are praising how natural she is in this comedic role. Comedy isn’t easy, and many think she’s pulling it off really well—especially since this is a different style for her. So calling her acting “over-the-top” feels a bit unfair when most viewers find it genuine and refreshing.

Just curious, what part made you feel like she was dumb? I feel like a lot of the time, people are really quick to judge the FL without considering what she’s actually going through in the story.

That’s fair, and I get that not everyone will connect with her right away. But I do find it interesting how the FL is always the one getting labeled “unbearable” so quickly, while the ML can lie, manipulate, or literally scheme against her and still get praised or excused.

She’s navigating a fake world, confusing emotions, and people trying to use her — of course she’s going to be messy at times. That’s what makes her real. It just feels like the criticism is way harsher when it comes to female characters.

Wait what?

Omg y’all really have no patience. The drama’s barely started and people already calling the FL unbearable… it’s exhausting at this point 😮‍💨

Yes very much

They’re literally everywhere, just spreading hate.

Wow, that’s a lot of bitterness packed in one comment! But copying? Li Yitong’s charm and talent speak for themselves — no need to live in anyone’s shadow when you’re shining your own way. Meanwhile, throwing shade only shows how threatened some people are by her rising star.

Sounds like a skill issue tbh 😌 some of us made it past 18 minutes and found a gem — but it’s okay, not everything is meant for everyone. Hope your next drama doesn’t require a sense of humor ❤️

Bestieee yes!! In the script she was the other woman, just like Nan Heng was written as the villain—but we both know that’s not who they really are deep down. The real versions are breaking out and I’m living for it 😮‍💨🔥

As for that crusty, dusty, emotionally constipated Emperor?? May every cup of tea he drinks be lukewarm. May his royal robes itch. May his sleep be haunted by guilt

😂

Tell me, does the ‘crazy seductive witch’ force him to lie too or is that just his natural talent?

lol but her sister don’t seem to be bad just the script kinda bad her that way while the emperor just like that on his own will

Be serious 😭 Your “chill and innocent” bro literally tried to kill her like three times. If anything, she’s the one trying to survive while being gaslit by a prince with trust issues and a sword 😭🗡️

Song yi meng is sooo crazy she said call me daddy 😭💀https://x.com/love03150108/status/1939125216871170090?s=46

No wonder he chose to become Li Shiliu. As Nan Heng, he’s constantly surrounded by pressure, suspicion, and people treating him like he’s the villain before he even opens his mouth. No warmth, no trust—just duty and isolation.

But as Li Shiliu, he finally got a taste of peace. He could hide behind the mask, say wise things, be kind without people twisting it, and maybe, just maybe, feel like a person instead of a weapon . He could protect in silence instead of being feared. And you can tell—he liked being that version of himself.

This drama is seriously doing something to my heart and brain. The emotions, the visuals, the chemistry—it’s all too good.
After the 2 episodes I’m just sitting there like… now what?? 😭 All I can think about is this drama. It’s living in my head rent-free and I don’t even want it gone. I need more episodes ASAP 😩🔥

Let me transmigrate into the story real quick—I’ll take out the emperor, then have Nan Heng kill me so he can ascend the throne fair and square!!