Little-Drama-Queen

Well, I gave it a watch and learned that there is a distinct difference from the 🚩ML intense character I tend to enjoy watching and a possessive psycho. I watched it all the way through and yes, I liked that the FL took back her power back, but not entirely onboard with marrying someone who says that if you die, they will swallow your ashes", just so they can always possess you. 😧 The drama did provide a large slice 🍰 of hot and spicy, but also shoved the whole cake in your mouth whether you wanted it or not. 🎂

Can't get past the clothing and wig of the FL....who decided that was a good look?

I am greedy and want it all....story, characters and lots of spice!

Spice factor?

Ahhh.....another Dai Gao Zheng fan. I swear that man could melt snow with his steamy gaze in the middle of a snow storm. 👀💗 I have not see this drama yet, but if it as spicy as you say, I am all in!

Chaos enthusiasts....me, me, me🖐🏼, "community theatre villain with unpaid bills and "shaky wigs"........🤣😂I giggle uncontrollably! I know I am always in for a good laugh, sharp and witty reviews. Adding to my dram a list to watch.

Added to my watch list....thank you very much!!

I also loved My Lethal Man......do you have any recommendations of similar dramas?

I am at episode 25 and am mostly staying for the chemistry between the leads, but your review has some very good points.

I was on the fence about starting this drama, as the summary reads like the FL is just one of many females in the household. But your review has made me want to give it a try. Happy ending? Any love triangles?

What moment convinced you that every sacrifice in Jiu Ling's battles was absolutely worth it? When she started banging on that drum! That was a pivotal scene in the drama and really stood for her determination to do the right thing at any cost! I really liked that drama great deal.

Excellent review and straight to the point. Thank you!

I don't usually do Xianxia dramas, as I in general find them confusing. But so far, I have watched the first three episodes of this drama and I am hooked! I get frustrated trying to find drama's that actually keep my attention, but this one is doing that. It is also ascetically pleasing , cute, funny, strong female lead and suspenseful! Your recommendations are so reliable and so much appreciated. Thank you!!!

happy ending?

"The ML was devouring her like rent was due"....so cleverly written. 🌸☺️ I was thinking about starting this drama, but my baseline is a "nice balance of angst, believable chemistry (the spicier, the better), strong women and a ML that slightly walks the line of red flag, characters you want to slap and cheer for and of course a happy ending". When you say "is the kind of drama that will ruin you"....are you saying that I will need a good supply of tissues for sobbing and shaking my hands at the heavens at the injustice of it all? Or....is the drama so impressive, that other dramas will struggle to top it?

Same title on YouTube as well

"popcorn committed"....very cleverly worded.

Just double checking with you FlowerofArmy before I start watching your recommendations.....they all have plenty of angst (the more the better), but they all all have a happy endings? I define "Happy Ending", as the main FL/ML through much adversity are able to find a way to be together as a couple while still alive. The main leads world can be an angst dumpster fire, with not a single person alive except themselves, but at the end, even if it is only for the last two minutes of the drama, the main leads are a couple....alive and well, ready to go arm in arm into a future they create themselves with perseverance, mutual support and love. Any drama on your very much appreciated list I should cross off?

OMG.....I can't believe you took the time to put this together for me....what a sweetheart! ❣️ All going to go on my "Plan to Watch " List! Thank you

I have read all the comments and everyone seems to be missing the real story about this drama. It is not about anyone except the FL and her ability to evolve from a person that believes that she is a "sticky note that should be used and thrown away" to a capable, strong woman who can go through loss and tragedy and still come out believing in herself. You Are My Destiny is about finding your own destiny, taking the good and the bad in life and blossoming in spite of the adversity.