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accept it if you know you're a back up for someone or he has another one to replace you if you reject him it wouldn't feel good, would it? I'm not saying in reality people don't have it I'm saying they shouldn't.
I don't know if she wanted to go full at that time or not, what I do know is those time they were a couple and at one time she just enjoyed Chen Yis jealousy bcs of Cen Ye and at another time she used Cen Ye to pick Chen Yis Jealousy to get to what she wants, this is manipulation. if she does this when they have a problem in their relationship one time, who says she wouldn't do it a second or third time? couples quarrel all the time, don't they?
if she doesn't want Chen Yi to be around a woman who is into him and has plans for him she should at least respect him enough to keep her distance from a man like that too

he wasn't committed to her? are you serious? the only thing he was commited in his entire life was her and her safety. she was angry at him bcs he would put all the pressure and burdens on himself instead of facing it together. you call that not committing to her? if that is so we have a very different definition of relationship :)
when did she made it clear to Cen Ye? in ep 30 if I'm not mistaken, when it was all over anyway. they were in a relationship way before that, I think it started around ep20 before that trip even they referred to themselves as BF and GF. the relationship had difficulties, yes. BUT they were IN IT.
on contrary I don't think she wanted to have back ups like you think. she loved Chen Yi and she came back just for him to get him out of there. I told you I loved her character bcs she was caring and genuine towards Chen Yi. and now you say she wanted to have 'back up'? :) that is messed up even in real life.

I agree with you she is. so?

miao jings relationship with cen ye is weird, he is her ex and her boss, he clearly is still in love with her and if he finds a chance he tries to get on Chen Yis nerves, despite knowing all this MJ doesn't keep her distance with him or defend CY at all.
why has this become so normal that in a drama a ML can't have a female friend but a FML can have a male friend (in this case even an ex)
I'm not saying both should have, I'm just saying if it's not ok to have such a friend then it should be for both of them, not just one
btw, I love MJs character in this drama she is warm, smart and caring qualities that I rarely see in FMLs. the only thing that I can't make sense of is what mentioned earlier

ok, this time what you said made me feel better about the situation. I'll watch it, thank you.

you said it so poetic, it was interesting:)
I explained to someone else but I'll tell you too.
I have a problem with two words you said: tenaciously and shamelessly. it shows (correct me if I'm I haven't watched the show yet) he follows her everywhere, asks her or makes her in situations where she is clearly uncomfortable. this scenario has become his the only mission in life like there is no tomorrow unless I get the girl. see? these these are plots for every single cdramas I have seen. this is stalking and it's disgusting. I am genuinely tired to see writers show men this much shameful. it is disrespectful and an insult to us. can you understand?

how many times did she reject her? one time? two or three times? if it's more than that and he still going after her he doesn't respect her, that's obsession. look after watching so many cdramas I have to come to understand something, when FMLs reject ML a lot they REALLY don't want to be with him at that moment. but then they show this situation suddenly becomes the sole purpose of his existence to convince FML otherwise. he follows her everywhere, continues to ask her when she is genuinely uncomfortable with this situation, they wanna show it as ohh that man is such a romantic person but the fact is he is STALKING her. as a man this is truly shameful for me when I see they throw a man's dignity in trash just like that.

every single movie and drama you have watched, it was to your liking? bcs she didn't like it, is she not allowed to continue watch it or not allowed state her opinion? what exactly do you mean?

me too, it's frustrating to watch

I really wanted to watch the drama untill I saw a clip
is this another drama which FML rejects ML on a daily basis but ML is obsessed?

I think your comment has some problems you mixed up somethings, I'm confused.
by her character was unforgivable you mean JLF? look at your text if it needs editing send it again.

you wanna complicate things and talk generally? ok generally when someone says something like that it's their own opinion they didn't bother themselves to put a "IT IS MY OPINION" sign in their text and it doesn't matter anyway bcs everyone knows what they mean, it's not like she can force everyone to rate it the way they want
if you don't agree with her ask her why she thinks that way , reject her opinion and state your own.

you're right👍

I didn't know that, so there is hope
thank you

pure waste of time
I CAN'T forgive myself that lots of other dramas are airing at the same time and I watched this one.
where did my time go?

what was exactly forced upon you? :)
did she threatened you or something else?
she said her own opinion if you don't like it say why and reject it
other will judge on their own whose opinion is more logical

you know what's laughable is that in beginning of the drama she claimed she had a magic ability that she can sense if someone has ill intentions towards her.
just wanna say she can't even tell a good person from a bad one like a three year old child, let alone posses such magical ability

no she did not cheat on him they weren't officially in a relationship, but after 30 LONG EPISODES we watched the drama. she still doubted the ML to some point hated him and ignored him. personally for me these are hard to digest.

Finally my torture is over, I finished this drama
I'm officially a hater of this drama
Specially since many other dramas are airing right now and I wasted time and watched this one
My opinions about this drama:
1_the main problem I have with this drama is that the plot is weak and full of loopholes
2_the characters are badly written, ML is obsessed with FML and literally clings to her and stalks her ALL the time. FML is ignorant and sorry to say this but she is stupid.
3_the plot has moral issues (ML trying to kill an innocent to save his friend_ ML obsessing with FML even though she rejects him on a daily basis)
4_ I can't believe that I'm saying this considering i choose this drama to watch because of the main leads but the acting is bad. SWL character is too shallow I can not blame him too much but still I'm disappointed. And about JJY let's just say after watching "veil of shadows" I had high expectations from her in this drama she showd me I shouldn't.
From now on I am very careful if I want to watch a drama directed by this director and a plot written by this writer
One more thing if a man pursues a woman like ML does, if the woman doesn't reciprocate his feelings and he still INSISTS this is STALKING, STOP showing this in cdramas. STOP throwing dignity of men under bus for getting more views.

why is there a romance tag on this drama?😂
I'm on ep29 I can say maybe about more than 20 eps JLF hated or ignored LXY so far, even now she is like that too funny thing is their friends think he is naturally good and he deserves chance and she is doubtfull decpite everything he has done
oh god why did i start this drama