I'm on ep14, gotta say I LOVE the FML character, she is caring towards the ML. this quality is super rare in cdramas. I HATE FMLs of cdramas bcs they put much less in their relationships (maybe less than 15 percent) but I watch cdramas bcs the sacrifices of MLs and the effort they put in their relationships is truly beautiful. Ye Li is so precious, I hope the writers create more FMLs like her in future (another good FML like YeLi was in 'a moment but forever' I liked her too)
I'm on ep10 the character DengYi is a loophole to the story so: 1 negative point first he wants to help XiaoXun but then FML talks to him and he agrees to help then she gives him what he wants and more now he decides he need a plan B in case FML throws him out, understandable. so he again turns to XiaoXun and wants to help him escape which FML realizes and warns and even offers him a better situation. NOW THE LOOPHOLE: DY is a smart man, XiaoXun is his plan B NOT his plan A, his first plan is supporting FML which is a better option for him considering that she is constantly giving him money and power to keep him on her side. BUT no he INSIST on betaying the FML and making her his enemy. it's not logical! if you're backup plan doesn't work change it not to go ahead and f up your first plan too. Dear writer, what are you doing? is everything ok?
another thing about the drama is DengYi knows XiaoXun and the crimes he committed STILL he helps him escape because of his selfish desire, THIS act of his makes him an accomplice to every single sin of XiaoXun. BUT by the way story goes in this ep I have a strong feeling he DengYi is gonna be forgiven in the end which if it actually happens is another serious negative point in my opinion
she literally helped his mum’s business go from flopping to successful, she was there for him, comforted him,…
what is the matter with you and people who are just like you?? after all the things I said can't you really see the problem with FML? being haughty is NOT a virtue that you be so proud of it. I don't know what YOU see us but men are human. treat a man that way after everything he does for you, you lose him forever. you can throw insults at others however you like
she literally helped his mum’s business go from flopping to successful, she was there for him, comforted him,…
they call themselves modern woman, so they can justify being selfish. lots of women aren't like that (like you) and they don't like it when these so called modern women try to push their beliefs on others thank you
Chinese mentality is different from western, most Chinese men need to prove that they are worthy of the woman's…
you're right, as a man I'll tell you it's not just Chinese men, every single man wants to prove himself to the woman he loves , but what she did was a turn off to me too. this FML ruined the drama for me
she literally helped his mum’s business go from flopping to successful, she was there for him, comforted him,…
1_his mother being a failure is a loophole to the drama, it was a way for the writer to make FML feel less useless. sorry if I CAN NOT believe a woman who has been taking care and supporting a family of 3 for more than a decade under heavy debts and abusive and stupid husband, is so irresponsible and stupid that can't even calculate her own money, goes shopping and gambles her money away, HOW on earth is that possible?(ML started working for only 2 years she has been taking care of him SINCE BIRTH) 2_it was so unrealistic for him to go back to school because of their circumstance. he had a bright career without going back to school , he could go back and get his diploma much later whenever the pressure was less on his family. considering the situation they were in i wouldn't call her keep guilt tripping him to do what is not a good choice، caring for his future. instead supporting HIS decision she was just another weight on his shoulder during his toughest time 3_about deleting the contacts you're telling me the exact thing the writer told us. but I rather look at what she actually did. first deleted the contacts and literally said too reach to my level you say this is encouragement I say it's a stupid way to encourage someone there are MANY other ways to encourage him. second not ONCE did she call him to even ask how are you. third when her friend asked why didn't you call , she said quote "I have my pride" what?? pride against who and for what? when he was serving you like a master for a whole year he didn't have a pride? fourth her father told her by the way you talk even you know that you're dating down. NOW after all her actions you still think she didn't think she was too good for him and he should keep up?
his mother cared for him deeply and I believe she would support WHATEVER descion he would made she loved her boy. so did his grandmother and even his friends, FML was NOT the only one who cared for him. life is not a fairytale dreams can change during the course of life. there is not only ONE way to success.
to the women who liked this drama, it is understandable why you liked it, ML is a great guy he did everything for her. I want you to defend FML. what was her role in their relationship? what did she do for him?I mean it is obvious why she fell for ML, BUT as a man I don't understand what ML saw in her to fell for her. if she wouldn't have deleted their contact numbers and basically told him you're not good enough run after me, I wouldn't have mind their relationship in this case you can say heart wants what it wants. BUT when she does THAT you should start actually calculating and comparing these two, what he did for her and what she did for him
I had mixed feelings about the drama, one time I would smile at their sweet moments another time I would get frustrated, but in the end drama disappointed me. 1_it's another cliche cdrama where ML is a superman, hardworking_good at ANYTHING comes his way_cooks and cleans_ good in his studies_ damn it he can even knit a scarf. He is just PERFECT and FML except being a nerd is useless. at one point FMLs father tells her by the way you talk , you know that you are dating down. I seriously wanted to tell the writer what is going on in your mind exactly?? the way you designed this ML both father and daughter should truly BE HONRED that they're gonna have a son in law like him. 2_ MLs mother: the writer at first wanted to show her as someone irresponsible and a total mess who doesn't even know how much money she has or earns considering that she would spent LOTS of money on gambling and shopping when she was already deep in debt and the mess she caused during the show, the reason was to first give FML a moment to show she is not that useless, second to add drama in MLs life. this is sooo unacceptable for me because MORE than 10 years someone like her took care of that family. we CAN NOT forget that ML only started working 2 years what about before that? it was all his mother. this already shows that she is both hardworking and responsible. 3_ another horrible cliche in cdramas forgiving those who commit crime or do smt terrible to the leads, first FML forgives her bully who among other things literally sends thugs in her way so she can just score higher in an exam. and then ML forgives a criminal who stabs him TWICE and after that he threatens him that when he is done with ML he is gonna go for his sister. REALLY?? for forgiving someone like that you are either STUPID or a saint. I'm so upset that I wasted my time on this drama, big mistake. this is a fairytale.
I'm on ep15, I feel like this is another cdrama where FML is basically useless. i DON'T mean financially, I don't care about that, what I really liked her to do, was to give emotional support to ML. but then again this cdrama walks the same road as the rest of Cdramas. one way street of emotional support of ML to FML. ML in this drama has a LOT on his shoulders but whenever FML is in trouble he is there no questions ask. but when he has a problem she is more like a burden.
I really liked that it was in a forest. It hid the small numbers of extras so it felt more realistic and not distractingly…
nah don't get me started on those bloods😂😂 honestly I don't think it's that hard to show someone is hurt or his injuries are severe. but Cdramas and their throwing up blood ... you know we laugh about this but this is actually a negative point for entire cdrama, they just can't do these type of things right
WHAT is FML doing? the things she does to ML are HORRIBLE. what is this show? after everything she does why is SHE the one who must forgive? why exactly? from the first moment the show starts ML is trying to save FML countless times. gives her plenty money protects her from any harm. and in the he gets a 'I don't trust men' and I won't forgive you for trying to protect me and saving my brother without telling me I don't blame actors, it's the writer, he is a delusional idiot. stop wasting money and time you moron
I think what makes it stand out is because ci sha has martial arts background. his every whip and slash feel very…
he is good you're right but not just that, the whole felt real. the danger from everywhere. suddenly attacking from nowhere. one second someone saves you one minute later you see that person dead these are the things that make a battle look real. have you seen that battle bastards in GOT? THAT is the most perfect battle that I've seen.
I rarely complement a drama on MDL and I have some serious problems with this drama BUT one thing this drama has that NO OTHER ROMANCE CDRAMA has ever had is that the battle scene is so real. this drama has the most realistic battle scenes in cdrama history(romance dramas), it is still not perfect I know, but it is the best in cdramas. the rest are fake and a waste of time I usually skip them just to see the result of those battles.
I do believe that FL is not innocent, but SML alone was obsessive and stubborn and wouldn't take no for an answer…
wow, I'm speechless. every single word you said is exactly what went through my mind and is exactly some of my problems with the world of cdrama. it's reassuring to know there's another person who shares your thoughts and to realize you're not alone in how you think
I do believe that FL is not innocent, but SML alone was obsessive and stubborn and wouldn't take no for an answer…
you are right and that is the exact reason why I hated YeXian, but FML knew even that. she knew he is a dangerous man, a man who is the sole heir to a big family and has mental problems
I'm on ep 26, there is one thing I hated Ye Xian in many ways (except when he is cooperating with CYY) I really couldn't stand him UNTIL I saw him broke down when he heard the news of FML getting engaged. and by the reaction of GJZ I understood she was using and asking him for favors ALL this time KNOWING he is in love with her. usually writers to say the woman isn't at fault pretend because the man didn't confess his feeling that woman had ABSOLUTELY no idea(which is big fat lie, a man isn't idle to go out of his way to help a woman she doesn't like) ok if the scenario was a man doing this EXACT same thing to a woman he would be hated but this is a woman and this a C_drama then it's ok I think it's no big a deal
is this another self obsessed FML with a helpless romantic ML?
I HATE FMLs of cdramas bcs they put much less in their relationships (maybe less than 15 percent) but I watch cdramas bcs the sacrifices of MLs and the effort they put in their relationships is truly beautiful.
Ye Li is so precious, I hope the writers create more FMLs like her in future
(another good FML like YeLi was in 'a moment but forever' I liked her too)
the character DengYi is a loophole to the story so: 1 negative point
first he wants to help XiaoXun but then FML talks to him and he agrees to help then she gives him what he wants and more
now he decides he need a plan B in case FML throws him out, understandable. so he again turns to XiaoXun and wants to help him escape which FML realizes and warns and even offers him a better situation.
NOW THE LOOPHOLE:
DY is a smart man, XiaoXun is his plan B NOT his plan A, his first plan is supporting FML which is a better option for him considering that she is constantly giving him money and power to keep him on her side. BUT no he INSIST on betaying the FML and making her his enemy. it's not logical!
if you're backup plan doesn't work change it not to go ahead and f up your first plan too.
Dear writer, what are you doing? is everything ok?
another thing about the drama is DengYi knows XiaoXun and the crimes he committed STILL he helps him escape because of his selfish desire, THIS act of his makes him an accomplice to every single sin of XiaoXun. BUT by the way story goes in this ep I have a strong feeling he DengYi is gonna be forgiven in the end which if it actually happens is another serious negative point in my opinion
I don't know what YOU see us but men are human. treat a man that way after everything he does for you, you lose him forever.
you can throw insults at others however you like
thank you
2_it was so unrealistic for him to go back to school because of their circumstance. he had a bright career without going back to school , he could go back and get his diploma much later whenever the pressure was less on his family. considering the situation they were in i wouldn't call her keep guilt tripping him to do what is not a good choice، caring for his future. instead supporting HIS decision she was just another weight on his shoulder during his toughest time
3_about deleting the contacts you're telling me the exact thing the writer told us. but I rather look at what she actually did. first deleted the contacts and literally said too reach to my level you say this is encouragement I say it's a stupid way to encourage someone there are MANY other ways to encourage him. second not ONCE did she call him to even ask how are you. third when her friend asked why didn't you call , she said quote "I have my pride" what?? pride against who and for what? when he was serving you like a master for a whole year he didn't have a pride?
fourth her father told her by the way you talk even you know that you're dating down.
NOW after all her actions you still think she didn't think she was too good for him and he should keep up?
his mother cared for him deeply and I believe she would support WHATEVER descion he would made she loved her boy. so did his grandmother and even his friends, FML was NOT the only one who cared for him.
life is not a fairytale dreams can change during the course of life.
there is not only ONE way to success.
if she wouldn't have deleted their contact numbers and basically told him you're not good enough run after me, I wouldn't have mind their relationship in this case you can say heart wants what it wants. BUT when she does THAT you should start actually calculating and comparing these two, what he did for her and what she did for him
1_it's another cliche cdrama where ML is a superman, hardworking_good at ANYTHING comes his way_cooks and cleans_ good in his studies_ damn it he can even knit a scarf. He is just PERFECT and FML except being a nerd is useless.
at one point FMLs father tells her by the way you talk , you know that you are dating down. I seriously wanted to tell the writer what is going on in your mind exactly?? the way you designed this ML both father and daughter should truly BE HONRED that they're gonna have a son in law like him.
2_ MLs mother: the writer at first wanted to show her as someone irresponsible and a total mess who doesn't even know how much money she has or earns considering that she would spent LOTS of money on gambling and shopping when she was already deep in debt and the mess she caused during the show, the reason was to first give FML a moment to show she is not that useless, second to add drama in MLs life. this is sooo unacceptable for me because MORE than 10 years someone like her took care of that family. we CAN NOT forget that ML only started working 2 years what about before that? it was all his mother.
this already shows that she is both hardworking and responsible.
3_ another horrible cliche in cdramas forgiving those who commit crime or do smt terrible to the leads,
first FML forgives her bully who among other things literally sends thugs in her way so she can just score higher in an exam. and then ML forgives a criminal who stabs him TWICE and after that he threatens him that when he is done with ML he is gonna go for his sister. REALLY?? for forgiving someone like that you are either STUPID or a saint.
I'm so upset that I wasted my time on this drama, big mistake. this is a fairytale.
i DON'T mean financially, I don't care about that, what I really liked her to do, was to give emotional support to ML. but then again this cdrama walks the same road as the rest of Cdramas. one way street of emotional support of ML to FML.
ML in this drama has a LOT on his shoulders but whenever FML is in trouble he is there no questions ask. but when he has a problem she is more like a burden.
honestly I don't think it's that hard to show someone is hurt or his injuries are severe. but Cdramas and their throwing up blood ...
you know we laugh about this but this is actually a negative point for entire cdrama, they just can't do these type of things right
the things she does to ML are HORRIBLE. what is this show?
after everything she does why is SHE the one who must forgive? why exactly?
from the first moment the show starts ML is trying to save FML countless times. gives her plenty money protects her from any harm. and in the he gets a 'I don't trust men' and I won't forgive you for trying to protect me and saving my brother without telling me
I don't blame actors, it's the writer, he is a delusional idiot. stop wasting money and time you moron
suddenly attacking from nowhere. one second someone saves you one minute later you see that person dead these are the things that make a battle look real.
have you seen that battle bastards in GOT? THAT is the most perfect battle that I've seen.
every single word you said is exactly what went through my mind and is exactly some of my problems with the world of cdrama.
it's reassuring to know there's another person who shares your thoughts and to realize you're not alone in how you think
she knew he is a dangerous man, a man who is the sole heir to a big family and has mental problems
there is one thing I hated Ye Xian in many ways (except when he is cooperating with CYY) I really couldn't stand him UNTIL I saw him broke down when he heard the news of FML getting engaged. and by the reaction of GJZ I understood she was using and asking him for favors ALL this time KNOWING he is in love with her.
usually writers to say the woman isn't at fault pretend because the man didn't confess his feeling that woman had ABSOLUTELY no idea(which is big fat lie, a man isn't idle to go out of his way to help a woman she doesn't like)
ok if the scenario was a man doing this EXACT same thing to a woman he would be hated but this is a woman and this a C_drama then it's ok I think it's no big a deal