Flora is the villain in this story. 😂🤣🙄😔I don’t like how they made her the undiscerning one. Luke…
we should stop coddling women too.. she was 28 at this point of story..full adult.. if she thought that relationship was that bad as those 3 labels..she could have walked have anytime.. it takes 2 hands to clap.....and yes.. ML had immense growth..didnt see personal growth in her with respect to their relationship..other wise she was super aggressive in career
Yes lets blame victims why they were in a Toxic relationship than why that guy was toxic. Same like you people…
DONT COMPARE APPLES AND ORANGES. it seemed to me she always thought of their relationship that way.. dirty , disgusting and ugly... my question is where did her agency go..she could have walked away anytime in those 6 years.. in the drama , ML showed immense growth, to the point his personality changed immensely..she didnt seem to have observed his change nor acknowleging it... but she is still stuck at those 3 labels of the relationship in her mind.. she is an adult now after 6 years..28yrs old...from 22 to 28 years she is still not that naive innocent person..she is showing agressive progress at work... what victim... can she be victimised..she chose to stay with him.. irrespective of what she thought of him and relationship...let her also take ownership of her mistake.. we dont have to mollycoddle her
ok , to label a relationship that one has been for 6 years as dirty , ugly and disgusting --- so why sould she be in such a relationship for such a long time
EP :ML got one last chance from the girl ..if he messes up this time...he is done for... but he seems to have changed quite a bit... also seems to enjoy being referred to as her husband.. so what is next reason for misunderstanding????
Did she propose marriage or share the future she wanted?
do you do this randomly??? unless you have the intension and wish...you dont randomly ask about wanting to settledown... she was weaving a story of bucket list to bring up the topic of marriage... she uses the same bucket list technique to get north west china project... her insecurities and low feelings at that point is not allowing her to confess her true feelings ..she could have just confessed her love..and talked of marriage... she loves him and wants forever life with him...is she in a condition to raise it straight with him... she keeps using terms like i dont want to trouble u...here too she is raising topic in that i dont want to trouble u fashion...
Did she propose marriage or share the future she wanted?
yes , it is a proposal....reread her lines again.. she said if she meets the right person she wants to get married .. and she goes on to ask if they can make their relationship public ..and take it forward ...then children and so on.... its her way of asking for marriage... for someone who feels inferior (cause of their whole problems ...inaddition to HIS whole alpha male routine..) ... this is the best she could propose marriage to him,... not the best...or honest straight forward..with all her fears and insecurities , this is the best she could ask for marriage
.instead of saying bucketlist she should have said she loved him..which is the truth...but i dont think she is bold or courageous enough to say she loved him.... in relationships, people say one should communicate ..even the most vocal people in this comment section when facing similar issues wont be able to articulate ... your insecurities , your pride , your fears .. worries of loosing the relationship or fear of other losses....make you accept a half baked relationship and live the trauma life ... and sometimes , like in her case you dont feel equal... esp when there is gap in maturity and life experiences... you feel less, dont seek equality ..dont fight for equality... if she felt equal she would have demanded many things from this relationship , which she deserves ... and him too.... but she engages from a point of powelessness , which even after 4 years of relationship doesnt bridge the gaps she perceive.... this is more true when you are in a relationship with people who you look up to..powerful and capable people...even if they are same age .. you feel intense gap, they look down your inadequacies ...they may like something in you and hence in relationship...but if they are too aware of their capabilities and your inadequacies that relationship can never be blissful...
she shouldnt have proposed marriage till she felt equal ...or that gap bridged .. or if she wanted it inspite , she should have started with confessing her love
It's because in her mind they're never really a 'couple'. Initially, they were FWB, but because she was never…
i dont think she is bold or courageous enough to say she loved him... in relationships, people say one should communicate ..even the most vocal people in this comment section when facing similar issues wont be able to articulate ... your insecurities , your pride , your fears .. worries of loosing the relationship or fear of other loses....make you accept a half baked relationship and live the trauma life ... and sometimes , like in her care you dont feel equal... esp when there is gap in maturity and life experiences... you feel less, dont seek equality ..dont fight for equality... if she felt equal she would have demanded many things from this relationship , which she deserves ... and him too.... but she engages from a point of powelessness , which even after 4 years of relationship doesnt bridge the gaps she perceive....
It's because in her mind they're never really a 'couple'. Initially, they were FWB, but because she was never…
Thats exactly the reason i feel why she never calls him when in trouble. she feels the gap more intensely and ML is so clueless and doesnt realise how she is exactly feeling about the relationship. he calls her his GF but she never does it confidenty .. even to that only friend.flatmate who knows about them..and always says , i know you are busy and dont want to trouble you. so what exactly she is gaining from their relationship.. nothing...she is not even gaining protection... she doesnt have confidence to demand anything from him.. a
The girl has been saying she doesnt want to loose job , or get fired, or be considered as someone who took shortcut .. ML is still pushing her.. really clue less and insensitive ..just to satisfy his .... probably because he grew up in a rich family , he doesnt understand what job meant for her ... and loosing reputation in professional setting can make you lose your earning means and can leave you poor financially , marked for ridicule forever ,...and end up in a survival issue
Girl has no independent thoughts about love and relationships or what she is seeking out of one. She keeps ruminating what the 3 girls around her say about love and relationships and carrying on the relationship with ML. Its their life, their experiences and their theories..what is yours, lady... as she is just starting out , she should listen to herself more...and not what ladies from different location/ experiences/life stage /age say
Was it mean to throw his card? Yes.But you have to look at it from his perspective.His first impression of her…
I already said his behavior may have been because he was harassed many times (its probably correct from his side!)... am speaking from her perspective only. it looks very bad , humiliating and cruel too... and yes he isnt wront to scrap that program - which also i said... but again from her side that hit her bad... so from her side he isnt someone she should cater to when he feel she is worthy enough to pay attention , or scurry when he thinks she is dirt....
what ML done to her by throwing his card at her is really cruel.... i understand he must have been harassed frequently by ladies interested in him...but for a CEO that attitude is bad..its deeply humiliating... thats on one side...and by scarapping the pilot program..though correct from his side..it has deeply put her in financial trouble...selling off ones home..great that she succeeded....if she had to drop for any reason imagine the blow to her life... CEO liked her for succeeding ...would he have given her any attention or liking or love if she failed... he cant expect her to like him back..he hated her when down ..and liking her when she is doing well... not acceptable... he deserves to be illtreated by her...as he did to her
The caring gestures of Flora's male flat mate do not even blip on her radar! No, Flora is not in the market for…
so true. her room mate is nice, good looking , very helpful. and very caring.. and likes her too..she isnt even aware of it..or understands herself or what she needs....she is attracted to ML like a moth gets attracts to a candle
Both leads are correct choice for their parts ... he is devastatingly handsome ...can look sweet and can look crazy crazy cold...she appears to be the part she is playing... both are killing it
this is more true when you are in a relationship with people who you look up to..powerful and capable people...even if they are same age .. you feel intense gap, they look down your inadequacies ...they may like something in you and hence in relationship...but if they are too aware of their capabilities and your inadequacies that relationship can never be blissful...
she shouldnt have proposed marriage till she felt equal ...or that gap bridged .. or if she wanted it inspite , she should have started with confessing her love