Diva70

When a 42 year old woman gets pregnant that’s no accident in my book...oops excuse me that did happen to someone I knew. She said she thought she was menopausal????

Lol...parts of this seem to be based on the writers real life. Poor thing...this is her therapy.

I do agree. I wouldn’t call it abuse. She treats him that way because she can. If he had slapped her butt just once she would have either left or got her act together. Some women are like that too until the man draws back his hand and gets some hot grease on his butt, Bottomline as you said cheating is wrong. If you not satisfied speak up or leave.

To me the lawyers actions show what a wimp he is. I hate weak men. There is a man out there who could handle his wife and she would love it. His mistress is no better. She’s a 42 year old weak woman. That’s why a boy is all she can handle.

I am hoping that the docs wife will not crumble. I am hoping she has the strength to look at him with pity.,Get her daughter and walk out with her head held high and him left crumbling. He is so narcissistic I don’t think he could handle being rejected or pitied. He really feel he deserves all three women and I really think he feels his wife could not live without him. Yes she will be hurt and angry too but I want her to show him that she will not end up like her mother...that she will end up better and she will be his biggest regret. That’s the best revenge against men like him in my opinion.

I stopped watching. So sad that the writer is an older woman. Makes me think she was a mistress at some point in her life and lost out to the wife. She’s trying too hard to justify cheating. We already know the husbands and their mistresses were together for at least 10 months. No excuse. I won’t be watching Season 2.

I would say the lawyers mistress. She’s been married before and she’s older. I would hope she’d have more empathy and common sense.

They say the lawyer mistress is a popular actress in Korean so sounds like they trying to put them together. If I was the young wife I’d tell him to pack his bags and let his mistress take care of two babies. She can do much better with a real man. I hate how they are portraying the wives.

I agree...I saw the World of Marriage and it was 10X better than this mess. So was the KD A Man and A Woman. I can’t believe the Korean audience is enjoying this. It’s really making a mockery of marriage.

I have no idea what god this writer is referring to...the God I serve is nowhere in this picture. This is just smut. I would have more respect for the writer if she just owned her mess.

This is why I feel the writers are really insulting our intelligence. Does it make any difference if the mistresses are “good” people. Wrong is wrong. These are grown, intelligent women with low self-esteem and low morals. You can’t wrap a bow around poop and call it pretty. It’s still poop. Whatever happened to just say no and walk away. It’s obvious that this was just about putting money in the bank. The audience has been duped. This topic has been done much better.

Lol...I love when you said kill me. I feel your pain. That’s why I couldn’t watch any more.

I must say these are some fine actors. They must be to elicit the kind of reaction they have received thus far. Kudos to each one for hitting their marks . However, as I’ve stated before I don’t enjoy watching films about cheating and there have been plenty made. I didn’t like them as a teenager, didn’t watch them in my 20s or 30s and I still don’t. I tried watching this because I generally like kdramas but it showed me nothing I didn’t already know. It actually started out promising but around ep 7 I saw a turn in the dynamics and that really did it for me. I do enjoy reading the spoilers so I’ll wait until the finale and get your final analysis. Take care.

I keep thinking somebody involved in this drama must have cheated in the past and this is their way of seeking redemption. Either the person was a mistress or husband and wants people to see they’re just like you or me.. This is just my theory. Why else would anyone spend so much time on the cheaters and mistresses? Mess is mess. You can’t clean it up with a pretty smile and a sob story.

This should have been titled How to Cheat and Be Happy While Doing It

I’ll read the spoilers. Can’t wait to see her reaction when she finds out.

I gave it a 4. Thinking about changing it to a 2. I respect your comments but I respectfully disagree. This is nothing new. People have been lying and cheating since the beginning of time. Nothing new here. It’s been done better. I admit I’m bias. I have never liked movies/series dealing with infidelity. Enjoy.

Thank you. I’ve already dropped this series. If that’s true I definitely won’t be looking at Season 2. I have no desire to see a husband and his former mistress skipping down the yellow brick road to happiness. I know that happens in real life. I’ve seen it. I can spare myself. I don’t have to watch. There are so many other good uplifting kdramas to watch. I’m out. Enjoy.

No there are are a lot of people who are enjoying it. Even if you dislike it they did find a way to keep people watching. I watched 12 episodes but I’m done. I never have liked movies or series dealing with infidelity. I thought this one might change my mind. It didn’t.

Love your analysis. Having been with my husband for 50 years and married to him for almost 48 years before he died he would be the first to say we were two imperfect people who were perfectly fit for each other. I found this series very disheartening. Wives - don’t get an education, don’t try to maintain a good home. Don’t even try to cook, don’t have personal goals and ambitions of your own, don’t raise your kids to be happy...because in the end it won’t count anyway. Husbands- you are entitled to have your cake and eat it too. You don’t have to own your own imperfections. You are a man and you have needs and if your wife no longer meets your needs it’s ok. Just cheat on her and dump her. Everyone will understand. Mistresses - you are not responsible for fixing your own life. You need a man...just latch on to someone else’s husband. You deserve to be happy even if it’s at the expense of the wife and children. And it’s not your fault if the wife is no longer the apple of his eye. He wants you. You want him. That’s all that matters. This is what I got from this series and this saddens me because that is not what marriage is all about. I don’t know what the wedding vows are in Korea. There has been no mention or reference to the vows. The closest was from the professors daughter who was awesome. Where I come from the vows are not just words you repeat and forget. They are sacred. Maybe that’s why this show is not for me. I wish you and your husband well. May you hit the big 50 and beyond.