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On Men in Love May 7, 2024
Title Men in Love
Looks like Fl has smacked ML enough and he won't stalk/harass her anymore. I know people will complain about her not wanting to date ML but his behaviour has recently degraded into borderline creep.
on the serious note seeing SML "again and again" will delay her healing, so I kinda understand her rationale for not dating ML and removing herself from the toxic situation. That being said, she rejected ML under her own free will. So later in the drama, if she finds out he has moved on with his ex and kid or any other woman. She has no right to feel angry, jealous or anything about the situation.
Looks like after 14 episodes of nonsense drama has started moving towards healing era !
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Replying to Enigma05 May 7, 2024
Title Men in Love
I will actually have to disagree with pretty much the majority of you guys; I actually like this drama, the comedy…
1) I don't think majority of people complaining here has any animosity with FL cuz she knows, she has not moved on and asked for the time and even if she outright refused ML, its her life and right to decide.
The real "SIMP" here is ML and what he is doing is called borderline harassment, people are angry cuz within 5 episodes FL have told him 3 times to back-off and let her live her life but nope. Now look from another prospective, ML is supposed to be well-respected editor/writer here, had contact with multiple top class models, has car, home, six feet, 34 (seriously considering settling down) and good/reliable source of income.
He is what woman consider top 1-2% guy and in real life (sry for using rude slang) he would be swimming in P@ssy but they make him absolute simp here. Its completely ludicrous and unbelievable, I am not trying to make it gender war but you can check. Majority of people vocally angry about his behaviour are men cuz its completely spineless and would never work in real life.
2)The problem people have with FL is, she may lack love experience but she has common sense and her crush not only treat her like a fool, he uses her and now is in crazy love with another person. I would have give her leeway is she was teenage, but she is a grown 29-year-old woman with half of her life experience under her belt. If she wants to move-on why does she keep giving him chances and interact with him to get hurt.

That's we advocate, for ML to behave less like a creep and more like 34-year-old person and stop this non-sense, it will give FL time to get her shit together and move on her own and after that. If she feels like ML is good option, she can reconnect.
I was asking for ML ex to return cuz lets be real here, ML gives speeches to FL on daily basis but he has actually not moved on from his own Ex. Taking to her and listening to her side of story will give him closure and,
I personally believe FL don't love SML at all, she likes the idea of loving him and her crush is more like a temporary obsession.
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I called it, that piece of incest-loving-shit has officially declared that he will go after his sister. You saved her life and she saved your life now, she paid her debt to shen family but that Satanic trash SML decided to commit incest.
The ep16 has been utter trash so far !
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Replying to Kinara May 7, 2024
Title Men in Love
Agree with you. How can the ML trust the FL knowing that it was his friend that she loved before. It really is…
I left out the Lawyer guy cuz he was treating her fairly before she decided to visit his Mother-in-law and interfere in his life and I don't blame the guy for not wanting to date 24-year-old girl as a 34+ dude. He probably saw her grow up in front of his eyes and it would be really difficult for any men to go after his bro's little sister....who use to call him brother !
I would never do it and will probably tell my friend about her wired behaviour, you never go after your best friend little sister. The day he brought his little sister and introduce her to the friend group, that's the day she becomes your full-blood sister.
Its one of the reason, Zhao Lusi fanatic fans have cancelled me cuz I was speaking trash about this trope in "Hidden Love".
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Replying to Dr Ghost May 7, 2024
Title Men in Love
Brother this drama was written to "Full-fill" woman fantasy but the writer went bit overboard with it and made…
That's what producer say, they make these dramas for but now we have confirmation. It doesn't even full-fill that role properly and these dramas are big problem in china. I saw a youtube video where Chinese men were complaining about "unrealistic expectation" woman had due to these ideal dramas.
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Replying to Dr Ghost May 7, 2024
Title Men in Love
Brother this drama was written to "Full-fill" woman fantasy but the writer went bit overboard with it and made…
He won't !
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On Men in Love May 6, 2024
Title Men in Love
I just don't get it, What ML is thinking even if you got FL to be your girlfriend?
You are friend with SML and they will interact, how can you ever trust them to be together in future?
SML is your friend and they will interact and so how can you sleep at night knowing when the opportunity arrives, she will either dump you or cheat on you with SML. Even if not by malicious intent, who knows they get drunk together and decided to act on their impulses. Its like a continuous "mental torture" he has to endure.
Nobody will respect you, if you don't respect yourself !
SFL treats SML like trash cuz she takes him for granted and knew he is a cuck/simp, SML does to FL due to similar reason and FL in-turn does that to the ML. If Ml ever wants to have a "Piece of mind" he has to take a stand for himself.
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Replying to Fakerz May 6, 2024
Title Men in Love
And she rejects ML again in episode 14😑 what a simp why did ML act like 2ML, like he was third wheeling between…
Brother this drama was written to "Full-fill" woman fantasy but the writer went bit overboard with it and made it utterly un-believable. No self-respecting man I know in my life is going to put up with it and the ones that may went to that level belong to "Pump and Dump" category.
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On Men in Love May 6, 2024
Title Men in Love
I have already said enough about ML and the ensuing stupidity and will only watch it once, it does something other than being a copy of only for love 2.0. and guys "What if (2024)" has dropped !
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Replying to Cho Na May 6, 2024
Marriage in Chinese ancient traditions are official after the bride and groom performed the “three bows”.…
Wait I thought the couple has to complete all 6 steps of weeding to be officially married and any marriage with any of the following steps missing won't hold in court,
1.The Proposal
2 & 3. Name and Birthday Matching
4. Gift Giving (betrothal gifts and bride price)
5. Choosing the Wedding Date
6. The Wedding Ceremony and consummation
but that being said, concubines don't have to complete these steps and I just HATE IT, when SML makes move on FL insinuating incest. It would have made sense if she didn't have his sister face but they were full siblings and he is still doing it.
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Replying to Dr Ghost May 6, 2024
Title Men in Love
"F" off and the one ruining the entire friend group is the Xu Jia cheng for his "Princess attitude", dude is always…
Did you read my other comments?
I explained the reason in detail and you can read them.
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Replying to Dr Ghost May 5, 2024
Title Men in Love
We tend to hate it cuz man-bashing has gotten bit to extreme....a very successful, attractive and well-connected…
I hope she pops up now and do some good (by making FL jealous) but I know "cringy" director is saving her for later part of the series to ruin the leads relationship.
This new C-drama cliche of "very-successful, Ultra Virgin" ML have started to get to me. Why they can't make it balanced?
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Replying to deepakk May 5, 2024
Title Men in Love
I don't think she will suffer, as we know he is a SIMP so I'm sure he will continue to pursue her, BTW after giving…
Firstly, I was blaming the ML in the whole situation and secondly, it was a crush and not a relationship. There is a huge difference between the two, and I wouldn't waste my time on somebody who is not reciprocating my feelings. I will court her with full tenacity and eventually ask her out but once I got my answer, like she did I would move on and never look back again cuz there is no point in it.
FL stood no chance when SML was single but now its next to impossible, she is ruining her friendship with her female friend and she may ruin friendship between the ML and SML due to behaviour. Lets say leads start dating and SML again asks her to come out, behave like this (like he is doing now) and forces her to deal with his relationship problems.
It would cause a huge rift between the friends cuz FL will obviously pick SML side.....
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Replying to Yrfuiugf May 5, 2024
Title Men in Love
I love this drama sooo much. The chemistry is🔥🔥. I don't get why people are criticising the series. 10/10
We tend to hate it cuz man-bashing has gotten bit to extreme....a very successful, attractive and well-connected guy with stable job and alot of clout in industry can't seem to find any woman to date. Its really ludicrous and completely un-believable...man a lot of models like and know by name can't find a damnnn woman and he has to bow down to a schoolteacher like that.
To top that off, they made him a complete simp...like she rejected him two times now, why can't he just move on?
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Replying to deepakk May 5, 2024
Title Men in Love
I don't think she will suffer, as we know he is a SIMP so I'm sure he will continue to pursue her, BTW after giving…
I also have similar feelings about it but currently have nothing to watch, so I am putting up with it for the time being....moment next big production drops, I will be out !
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On Men in Love May 5, 2024
Title Men in Love Spoiler
FL is stuck in limbo but her critical time of making a decision is running out fast cuz its quite possible, that SML with "princess attitude" will turn back and ask her to date him. So, its on her to decide what she wants !
as for ML, I feel absolutely no sympathy for him at all and I would explain it with example. If a normal person on the street ends up falling into pit full of spikes and gets hurt cuz of it, I will feel bad for the guy cuz he has to endure that pain.....but if the same guy walks the same path again, knowing very well there is a pit full of spikes and hurt it will cause....falls into the same pit again and feels the encrusting pain.
Its his freaking fault and his alone, you can't blame the spikes (FL) for being point cuz the revealed their true nature, its the person (ML) that lacks the self-control and decided to walk towards the sun. I know y'all will pull it "LOVEEEEEE" B.S but its a conscious decision he had, knowing very well the results may not be in his favour.
He had his answer in the ep 8, FL rudely denied his confession, but he went to apologize for her mistakes like a fucking SIMP and now is suffering from consequences. As FL, everybody times comes and Universe/GOD gives everybody a chance/opportunity, but only a few people man up and decide to avail it.
She had her chance in the form of ML and the amount of hurt and suffering, she will endure after this will be "her fault and her fault alone".
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On Jeremy Xu May 5, 2024
Person Jeremy Xu
Happy Birthday and I know you are hitting 40 next year but please reconsider your decision regarding the retirement.
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Replying to Dr Ghost May 4, 2024
Title Men in Love
Do you have any idea, when next big historical drama will drop?as for this one it looks like, we will have 40…
I get it (I am Asian) but my sister is around 5.7 and we don't look ridiculous like main C.P in this one. It legitimately made me feel insecure about my height, so I googled his profile and it turned out to be 6.1 (exactly like me) Both Liang Jie and Zhang Jing Ye are around 5.6 like my sister but why.......
I think its a camera trick or some editing mambo jambo that made him look like 7 feet hulk towering over everybody !
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Replying to JulesL May 4, 2024
Title Men in Love
Here for HYT and Liu Chang. After two episodes, I’m enjoying the bromance and hope that the romance don’t…
Do you have any idea, when next big historical drama will drop?
as for this one it looks like, we will have 40 long-bloody-gruelling episodes of angst, so I am planning it to put it on hold and watch it after it has completed airing. The way HYT was towering over Fl's in recent C-dramas I thought he would be like 6.9 or something but he is just 1.88m (just like me).
I never realised FL's are like shorties !
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