Dreamy

Face palming along with you there at the last part🤦‍♀️😂

If anything I really don't want the 4a result, JH is not some spare WK could easily throw & re-pick whenever he likes it, she's precious, gosh I wish for her happiness the most

Exactly! I was explaining from YS POV coz I see alot of people blame everything on him only to even hate & labelling him, rather hypocritical that everything shd be at his fault (when all he do at that moment was awake & avoiding her (as human instinct) after getting mad at), I just want to highlight that his reaction also came from how MK behaves towards him, vice versa, they're eachother's catalyst. It's just a matter of pov. Both are really bad in communicating & in expressing themselves thus making their dynamics rather unhealthy.
That's why I said if they want to hv a good conversation then better create a good atmosphere first, otherwise nothing good will come coz I see alot resentment from both, but MK also need to accept that she is now his ex, she has no right to control him (same goes w/ HJ, they're no longer their gf fgs 😂) unless they got reunited.
Asking respect is ok but they hv no right to tell what their ex shd do or don't.
I understand that she may need time to adapt/accept tho.

I agreed, this is actually a good idea, so both were come prepared to meet & had the time to calm their mind & think it through on what's important to say

But the same thing can be said to her as well, how can she expect him to welcome her talking when everytime she talk to him is another jab after another with her frowned face upon him? To quote: why are you being domestic? Why were you awake? Your voice annoys me, go to sleep! You'll drink again??, etc.

No other ex told their ex what to do & don't (except HJ but she even do that with her aegyo). Not even Woo Jin accept being told by his ex, he told JY off, he'll mind his own.

I think lightened up her mood before talking just basic decency to create a good atmosphere to start a conversation. Otherwise maybe she just need to stop trying & let him do the approach first.

Like I said, she need to read the room/lighten up the mood first so that YS know that they'll get to talk & not him being scolded at (from his own experience).
YS know that he'll get scolded since she give this upset face to him before leaving the room (that even give a strong reaction to the panelist) hence he refused, it's just his survival instinct.

Like would you come if you know you'll get scolded at? Even so she still forced him to come, to hear her nagging at how well he's with the other girls. He complaints coz she doesn't take his no for an answer & even use other person to make sure he gets it even at the risk being caught that they're ex-es (violates the rule). It's just a matter of time he blow up.

Like, I get her pov that she need to talk, but not this way, no one will take her hard approach well.

She is manipulating him tho, she's literally forcing him to go to the terrace to hear her complaints even using other person to force him to, she doesn't take no for an answer.
She has asked him once (in the bedroom) & he refused, why can't she just let him off. He's literally not in the mood for that.

There're differences in having a conversation & being told off what to do.
MK's way of speaking to YS tends to fall on the latter.
No ex would take that kind of approach well.

Conversation is two way street, when both people consent, to share & to hear.
But (so far) what YS get is one way street being told off to sleep coz hearing him awake at night annoys her & being forced to hear her complaints & constant displeased from his action regardless he has refused her invitation.

If she want a good talk with him I think she need to read the room & maybe lighter their mood for a lil' bit, make a better approach to be sound less demanding (doing some aegyo won't hurt, right?) and learn that she can no longer control him coz she's his ex, not his gf anm, or maybe just let him make his approach first, otherwise nothing good will come into fruitition.

Tbh I think their mind are all in a mess this week (as in they themselves don't seem to know what they want anm) 😂
But imo MK need to be less demanding & be more persuasive with YS so they can communicate more. It's not her fault to have a literal subtitle in her face tho, she's just naturally easy to read, her mood is written all over her face 😂

Yup, he seem has tendency surpressing his own feeling to avoid confrontation. While it can be good (to not led into bigger fight) but it can also led to more misunderstanding &
It also doesn't help since MK is just naturally has a subtitle in her face 😂 oh poor these two

Yes they need to communicate to know their stand more (whether to move forward with new person or reunite).

Even it's weird for me too, it came of as her tantrum for not getting along/ receive anyone's attention thus seeing her ex seem to get along with many annoys her to the core

Maybe their dynamics in the past were like this, she likes to lead & he likes to be led, but it become a mess the moment they got broke up 😅

I actually like how YS showing his discomfort from keep being told what to do by MK instead of his usual obedient way. MK indirect way in calling him (through other person) was his last straw I guess since he has refused her once but then she forced him to through other person (in which he can never refused + it came of as exposing their relation to this other person too).
These two are really bad with communication tho, idk how they can last for more than 7 years.

I disagree with how HJ & MK reacted in this ep, you can't control how your ex behave in the house, you can ask them to show you their respect by being nice to you but that's it, you are his ex, he doesn't hv any obligation to obey you, your words are not his law anm & I don't think it's right to demand them like that, feels like possessive gf than ex.

After ep 9 I have my new ship: JH couple (they hv same initial) 😂
My heart flutters seeing their date & I really like how their conversation somewhat deep & flow really well esp for a first date, I like how manly & straightforward Jae Hyung is, hopefully his ex doesn't make him waver & he can show constant attention to Ji Hyun, I honestly think they make a good couple, they hv potential.

Ep 9: I kinda feel bad for Jae Hyung being all lonely that night coz all the other cast were struggling/ busy arguing with their own ex-es 😂 really bad timing to enter the house this late to even get caught in between exes, lol

Exactly, even if they're saying mean things I can't even totally judge them as bad person coz idk how bad their break up is, for instance BH, I won't justify his harsh words coz yes they were harsh & can be said better but I can also see it came from his resentment buried deep inside his heart, we don't know their full story so it's not my place to judge/hate him & aside from it I can see he's actually nice & caring too, sometimes his random/oddity brings laughter and color to the house.
So I can dislike his mean words but can also appreciate his good side too.

We too often put facade when we meet new people but this kind situation they have, like you said, will bring the worst from us & the members here actually maybe far greater than us in surpressing their own feelings.

This people here serve us entertainment with exposing their private life, I think it'd be better if we could refrain from hating them too much or worst easily labelling them just because we don't agree with their act.

Tbh I don't get the hate for YS at all, I feel like watching a different show, lol.
Haven't watched this week's ep but the hate on him (on other platform) were nasty.
The guy even sometimes being hated for just being awake on the show or avoiding his ex (like wouldn't you if your ex making an obvious discontent face who seem ready to scold you?, it's just natural instinct to me 😂) often viewers judging everything from viewer's pov not from member's pov (members don't know things what viewers know).
Like I don't blame either of them, their behaviours are make sense & idt it's toxic enough to be hated.

I get that people who watch the show might getting too invested on the member/story, showing discontent/dislikement towards their action are fine, but idt it's wise to throw the hate on real people for it. They're human with complex feelings in an evenmore complicated situations + they stay in the show might only for couple of days/week.

Thank you♡

Finally my girl Ji Hyun is booked🥹, yeayy 💞