most people here are either shitting on the characters or shipping them, and fail to grasp the story.
This honestly, like there are tons other drama you can find for shipping, but this drama is not IT. Many fail to understand & shitting over it just because the story doesn't proceed according to what they prefer when actually it's never about it to begin with *facepalm
It's a drama with many complex psychological issue most of the characters have, where viewers were expected to see & understand from each of the character's POV, to understand where their character's is coming from, not judging them.
Like imagine if we see people with mental health issue, see their issue yet people disregard it completely & only judge them as they liked coz they just don't like him & like the other person, they fail to grasp the purpose of this drama was all about.
You know what, unless you've (or i) been in the FL's position you'll never understand why she went back to her…
This exactly, it's like people surround you won't understand why you & your ex drawn to eachother, the person who were involved are those what matters, outside people don't have a say coz they are not the one who live their life so they won't understand how precious your relationship with him. Also 2ML never know the real Eun ho's personality, so all that blabla I can accept you BS meant nothing & just an empty words without real meaning to me. Imagine like people saying all that to a stranger or person they barely knew.
Man what a TRASH father, uh no he doesn't even deserve that title, I want both him & Qiao's daughter to be disown by their own family so they'll know how would that feel to be in that position, I want them to suffer in poverty & eat dirts on the street!👎
I think the truck of doom was needed for Eun ho, to become another catalyst for her to break free from her co-dependence to Hyun Oh coz now he needed her to be strong more than anything & this time Hyun Oh can learn that he can have someone to rely too & not always have to bear everything in himself. They can learn to be eachother's strong pillar for them getting through their hardship, together!
ml has trauma, but that doesn't excuse how hes treated the fl. that doesn't mean he can't be happy, but their…
Hye Ri is so 1 dimensional as a character, not even real but scream happy3 (shallow happiness), idg why people would want such character without depth to be the main one & the only reason I could think of is just because it's the only way she could end up with JY their fav regardless how ilogical & absurd the drama would become (not even align with the original premise of the drama).
Also, watching a drama with complex psychological issue most of the characters has require understanding from each of their own's pov not from 1 pov alone.
It's like saying to real people, screw your issue you suck & doesn't deserve her just because you see all of it from her pov alone.
Ik she had a long-term relationship BUT HOW CAN U NOT LOVE JOOYEON 😭😭😭😭😭 HE'S A MILLION TIMES BETTER…
Lol, no, there are tons other ML/SML character has a better characterization than SML here, for me he doesn't belong to greenflag SML either, far from it, let alone million times better than ML, he's grey just like the rest of other characters here including ML
I think the SML just wanted the FML to feel safe. Which was something the ML didn't even know how to do.
But what does he love about her actually? When Hyeri approach him? It's not even Eun ho, it's Hyeri. You can't say you love someone & able to accept her whatever form she is without actually know her, that's superficial, it holds no meaning but sweet lies to me. It feels like saying I don't know you but I love you.
I love how the ML can actually see right through her, through her facade & stubborn side, she got her hedgehogs nickname not without a reason after all 🤭
The road for Eun Ho's healing journey started from herself, so JY term "to accept" her whoever she is has never been the answer (his word is totally BS/ sweet words without real meaning to me coz clearly what does he know about EH actually for saying all that easily). I see that only as a tool for him to get her as he doesn't even understood the weight of his words himself. & I thanked the writer to reject his words straight outloud in his face!
It's Eun Ho who shd accept herself completely. She shd accept that she is not Hye Ri, with all her flaws & all. She need to feel content with herself. Hence why ep 10 happened after she realize she can't be Hye Ri.
What Hyun Oh needs to do is just be there for her during her recovery (just like what he did all this while with patience) & be more clear with his true feelings.
Also, I need to highlight more in regards to Eun Ho's thankful words to HO During the breakup, she's been saying all hurtful words too like how he's been wasting all her time etc (when clearly he never hide his view on marriage since D1) And after they broke up, she only see HO in a darklight out of spite, like when her skirt is torn & exposed, when he gave up his position for her, etc. Everything he did is wrong in her eyes.
Eun Ho need to accept that she was wrong (his intention has never been bad) before anything, accept herself complete with all her flaw for her to start her journey to heal herself completely and love herself more.
I think the SML just wanted the FML to feel safe. Which was something the ML didn't even know how to do.
Nah, it's easier said than done, what does Ju Yeon actually know exactly about Eun Ho? Barely nothing. It's easy to speak you'll accept her completely when you know nothing about them/ just from the surface & I don't believe he even understood the weight of his word himself.
Just exactly why Ji On laughs at him, Ju Yeon barely know Eun Ho & only said that coz he want to get her. Never believe any man's sweet words easily when you know he want something from you (want to get you), instead see how he treated others, which's why I trusted HO's more than JY, who barely even show any care towards others (surrounding friends, etc)
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It's a drama with many complex psychological issue most of the characters have, where viewers were expected to see & understand from each of the character's POV, to understand where their character's is coming from, not judging them.
Like imagine if we see people with mental health issue, see their issue yet people disregard it completely & only judge them as they liked coz they just don't like him & like the other person, they fail to grasp the purpose of this drama was all about.
Also 2ML never know the real Eun ho's personality, so all that blabla I can accept you BS meant nothing & just an empty words without real meaning to me.
Imagine like people saying all that to a stranger or person they barely knew.
They can learn to be eachother's strong pillar for them getting through their hardship, together!
https://mydramalist.com/749787-love-in-the-desert
Also, watching a drama with complex psychological issue most of the characters has require understanding from each of their own's pov not from 1 pov alone.
It's like saying to real people, screw your issue you suck & doesn't deserve her just because you see all of it from her pov alone.
I see that only as a tool for him to get her as he doesn't even understood the weight of his words himself.
& I thanked the writer to reject his words straight outloud in his face!
It's Eun Ho who shd accept herself completely.
She shd accept that she is not Hye Ri, with all her flaws & all. She need to feel content with herself.
Hence why ep 10 happened after she realize she can't be Hye Ri.
What Hyun Oh needs to do is just be there for her during her recovery (just like what he did all this while with patience) & be more clear with his true feelings.
Also, I need to highlight more in regards to Eun Ho's thankful words to HO
During the breakup, she's been saying all hurtful words too like how he's been wasting all her time etc (when clearly he never hide his view on marriage since D1)
And after they broke up, she only see HO in a darklight out of spite, like when her skirt is torn & exposed, when he gave up his position for her, etc. Everything he did is wrong in her eyes.
Eun Ho need to accept that she was wrong (his intention has never been bad) before anything, accept herself complete with all her flaw for her to start her journey to heal herself completely and love herself more.
It's easy to speak you'll accept her completely when you know nothing about them/ just from the surface & I don't believe he even understood the weight of his word himself.
Just exactly why Ji On laughs at him, Ju Yeon barely know Eun Ho & only said that coz he want to get her.
Never believe any man's sweet words easily when you know he want something from you (want to get you), instead see how he treated others, which's why I trusted HO's more than JY, who barely even show any care towards others (surrounding friends, etc)