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Replying to IanuaCoeli 4 days ago
Title Mystic Nine
Laogou has yet to marry and have kids, so he'll come out of it
Of course! He's WuXie's grandpa.
But he and the other Old Mystic Nine won't have a fun ride at all.
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Replying to ErisFerris3 4 days ago
Put the spoiler tag. Please.It's obvious what has happened from reading your comment.Spoiling a drama that has…
Thank you for apologizing.

No problem about the spoiler; you put the tag now, and it was a mistake. I assure you that I did not assume that you had bad intentions. I am sorry that my original wording hurt you, though. Even if it was not my intention, I will be more careful from now on.

Hope you'll enjoy the drama, and that the last two episodes will be great :)

(I'll put spoiler tags on my previous long comments so that our exchange doesn't take too much space in the drama comment section. ^^' )
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Replying to ErisFerris3 5 days ago
Put the spoiler tag. Please.It's obvious what has happened from reading your comment.Spoiling a drama that has…
I agree we are going to stop here. What a fascinating discussion.

"You see me as refusing to take responsibility, while I see you as refusing to acknowledge how your wording could reasonably be interpreted. "

What's interesting is that you're trying to make me understand how my wording can be perceived by others. To be honest, I already know about the basics of communication. I would have gladly, GLADLY, exchanged about it with you in any other circumstance.

A spoiler is not the end of the world. I would never have been this annoyed if it weren't for everything that followed.

You want me to acknowledge that my wording could reasonably be interpreted in different ways. Of course it can. Anyone can interpret anything differently depending on their education, language, culture, age, gender, personal experiences, circumstances... and the same applies to me. I can acknowledge that a million times over.

But for me, that conversation only comes after basic respect has been observed.

I will repeat myself. I am not trying to convince you here. And I don't even care if you take accountability or not. I am annoyed, though, that you are somehow trying to teach me some kind of lesson about communication when you don't respect the fundamentals of it.

I am talking about facts here: you never apologised.

Instead, you immediately acknowledged that you had made a mistake (which is fine), explained that it was an accident (which happens), and pointed out that my wording was ambiguous (which is understandable).

Since you suggested I reread my own comments, I'll quote your below because I don't think you've reread them.

"I'd appreciate it if people would stop jumping to conclusions and at least ask before making assumptions. This was actually my first time ever commenting, I usually just read the comments, but I decided to share how I was feeling. I'd already hit "Post" before I noticed the spoiler tag, and I added it as soon as I saw it. Unfortunately, it might have been too late, but it wasn't intentional."

1st comment. This is primarily an explanation and clarification, with an expression of regret. It is not an apology.

"I genuinely appreciate constructive criticism, and I have no problem being corrected when I'm wrong. In this case, I understand that I should have added the spoiler tag, and I did as soon as I realized it. I accept that.

What I don't agree with is the assumption that I intentionally posted a spoiler without caring. You jumped to that conclusion without asking what happened. Did it ever occur to you that for some people, it might be their first time commenting? This was actually my first time commenting. I usually just read the comments, and I'd already hit "Post" before I noticed the spoiler tag. I added it immediately, but it may have been too late because of the network.

So yes, I made a mistake, but it wasn't deliberate. A simple "Please add a spoiler tag" would have been enough. Instead, you assumed the worst without knowing the full story.

This isn't about whether anyone insulted me or not. It's about acknowledging that making assumptions without first asking is also wrong. Just because I accept my mistake doesn't mean your assumption was justified. Accountability goes both ways. I can acknowledge my mistake, and I think it's only fair that you acknowledge yours too. A little understanding before judgment goes a long way."

2nd comment... Again, this is an acknowledgment of responsibility combined with a defence of your intentions. In other words: "I accept responsibility for my mistake, but I don't accept your assumption that I acted maliciously." It is still not an apology.

"Maybe read your comment again from another person's perspective.

You said, "Spoiling a drama that has finished airing is already bad, but spoiling an ongoing one is really over the top." Whether you intended it or not, that comes across as if you assumed I did it on purpose.

If you had simply said, "Please add the spoiler tag," I would have had no issue with it. In fact, I added it as soon as I realized. But your comment went beyond a reminder and made an assumption about my intentions.

I'm not saying you meant any harm, but it's worth recognizing how your words came across. It was my first time commenting, I'd already hit "Post" before I noticed the spoiler tag, and I corrected it as soon as I could. That's why I said you jumped to conclusions. Not every mistake is intentional."

3rd comment. This one is not an apology as well.
It's a again the same request for me to reconsider my wording and an explanation of your perspective.

Saying "I made a mistake" or "I accept that" is acknowledging responsibility, not apologizing.

I sincerely hope that the next time you make a mistake (and you will, because everyone does, myself included) you'll apologise to the other person first before moving on to explanations or discussions about communication. I think you'll find that conversations tend to go much more smoothly that way.

And I hope you'll enjoy the rest of the drama as well.
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Replying to ErisFerris3 5 days ago
Put the spoiler tag. Please.It's obvious what has happened from reading your comment.Spoiling a drama that has…
I really don't understand what you are talking about.

"Spoiling a drama that has finished airing is already bad, but spoiling an ongoing one is really over the top."
That is self-explanatory? Spoiling an ongoing drama is really not nice? What is this thing about me saying you did it on purpose?
Even if I'm "reading my comment again from another person's perspective," I still don't see it as some kind of hidden assumption about your intentions.
I didn't even think about your intentions!
Most people spoil things because they made a mistake, or just didn't think it through before commenting, or Idk what. What kind of "intentions" are you talking about? I was just asking you to put a tag and saying that's really not cool to spoil !? Why are you searching for some kind of hidden meaning in my words??

Wow...

Wow! What is this situation, seriously... I get spoiled on a drama I really enjoy watching, call out the spoiler saying it's really not cool, and here I am getting some kind of lesson on my wording. WOW!

Now, let's try to get you into my shoes, so that you may, maybe, understand why I am a little hot-headed, right now :

Imagine I bump into you while you were minding your own business, and you get hurt.
When you call me out, saying it's really not nice, I decide to scold you for your reaction, because it was just an accident and I didn't do it on purpose. Nothing else.
When you call me out again for not apologizing, I insist again that you should have worded things differently. I then add that you should really try seeing the situation from my point of view.

Is that... okay? Is it normal that your first and only response to getting called out for a mistake is to make a comment on the other person's wording?

Anyway, you put a spoiler tag on your comment; that's all I wanted. Still got spoiled by you BY MISTAKE, but that's not important after all. What's important is that I should be more careful next time, so that I don't put mysterious hidden accusations behind my wording.
I will be very careful not to accidentally hurt the feelings of the person who just made a mistake that impacted me when I call them out. Even when they don't apologise, I should put myself in their shoes.
We really learn something everyday!
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Replying to Bramantyo 5 days ago
Title Mystic Nine Spoiler
Why Wu Tie killed by Zhang Qishan? In Time raiders all of his family dead in Dart Mountain.
I think he lost his two elder brothers and father in Dart Mountain, but he had remaining family members who were still alive in WuXie's time. The executed guy could be one of them.

A family member who's like a brother, maybe a cousin? Or simply, he had another brother.
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On Mystic Nine 5 days ago
Title Mystic Nine
I'm kind of scared because we do know Wu LaoGou's story from WuXie's adventures... And it's dark. Maybe I'll just wait for the drama to end to see what they decide to follow or not with this adaptation.
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Replying to WSXAB 5 days ago
Title Mystic Nine Spoiler
I know they're setting up a romance for Huo Xian Gu and Wu Lao Gu but I'm wondering if his actual wife will make…
The details of their story were never revealed in the novels, but WuXie assumed they dated and that his grandpa cheated on her with his grandma during his exile after the Purge, and they married.

Which made her hate him even through WuXie's generation. Wonder how it'll play in the drama.
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Replying to ErisFerris3 5 days ago
Put the spoiler tag. Please.It's obvious what has happened from reading your comment.Spoiling a drama that has…
Jumping to conclusions?
I see a comment spoiling (you did not say what exactly happened, but as I said, reading your comment, anybody can immediately guess what it is about); I asked you to put a spoiler. How is that jumping to conclusions?

If I said, "I know you did it on purpose to ruin things for other people. You spoiled ep 14 to me, *add insult* ". That would be wrong, and maybe jumping to conclusions about your intentions. I did not. I asked you to put a spoiler tag and added that it was really wrong to spoil it for other people.

You made a mistake; that's okay. People tell you about your mistake and how to correct it because they got spoiled. That should be okay as well; it's not like anybody insulted you or anything.

The normal follow-up would be to apologise, explain it was a mistake as it was your first time posting, and that would be the end. Not to ask the person you just spoiled to "stop jumping to conclusions and at least ask before making assumptions".
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Replying to qwqea 5 days ago
Did they bring back the body or they just burned the shoe? and he was clicking photos for Weshu... all of the…
I think QT left a clean shoe for his family to get something back "clean". Not his body, because he knew he would get ... by animals. He wanted to go back to nature, but still knew it would be traumatizing for his family to get only that.
He k*lled himself. It was no accident. That's what CY didn't want QL to know.
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Replying to ErisFerris3 5 days ago
DON'T GO TO THE COMMENTS !! People are just spoiling everything. And not the good fun type of spoiler that makes…
I feel heartbroken, but it also feels ... right. Like it's exactly what happens in real life when someone takes such a decision. Often there are no warning signs; sometimes you even feel like they suddenly got better...

My heart. Seriously. T^T

I do feel like finally exploding and talking to his brother was good for him. And learning that he also had feelings for WS... I don't think he was lying. I wonder when he realised WS's feelings... Maybe from the beginning, maybe he was playing dumb to be loyal to his boyfriend...

The poor boy. Even with a loving family and a new love, sometimes it is just not enough to heal.
I can't stop crying.
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Replying to TaiwoKenny 5 days ago
WHY Why why 😭😭😭😭😭 Qing Tain !!!!!!!!!!!! Noooooooooo my heart is broken 💔 i wish he did not…
Put the spoiler tag. Please.
It's obvious what has happened from reading your comment.

Spoiling a drama that has finished airing is already bad, but spoiling an ongoing one is really over the top.
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On Legal Beat: Gyakuten no Hotei 6 days ago
It does feel a little different from the usual legal drama. Not in a groundbreaking or revolutionary way, but I really like the dynamic between the main trio.

It's very common in Japanese dramas for the "unconventional" protagonist to join a team and gradually change everyone around them for the better. They're usually met with skepticism or outright hostility at first, and then, episode by episode, they transform a dysfunctional workplace into a supportive one.

What's different here is that the "unconventional" protagonist joins a team and... they simply work together. They have different perspectives and working styles, but they discuss those differences like professional adults.

That's what makes this drama feel refreshing.

The male lead is "different," and he's struggled to find a place where he belongs. But the place he eventually finds isn't a group of secretly talented failures he helps rediscover their confidence, or a band of misfits he rescues from injustice, or a team that initially dismisses him because of his "difference" before eventually recognizing his brilliance.

Instead, he was recruited precisely because of his abilities. His speech impediment wasn't overlooked—it was known from the beginning and taken into account. He was accepted as he is. He ends up working alongside two experienced professionals who treat him as what he is: a talented rookie. They challenge him, exchange ideas with him, and respect him without making his "difference" the defining feature of every interaction.

And that's what I like so much.

Yes, his speech impediment is a significant part of his character, but I honestly feel this team would have functioned the same way whether he had it or not. His first real conflict with his senior isn't about his speech at all—it's about his overly passionate rookie mindset. He reflects on it, they talk it through, and they resolve it like... normal adults.

I'm not saying this is an ultra-realistic drama; the synopsis makes it clear that it isn't aiming for that. But I appreciate that, for once, it's a story about a genuinely good person who has been rejected by others, and the team that finally accepts him is simply... a team of good people.

Not because of some coincidence or lucky accident. It makes perfect sense. After being repeatedly rejected because of his speech impediment, the people who finally welcome him are open-minded enough not to judge him for it, and smart enough to recognize his talent without letting his difference get in the way.

I'm so used to dramas where the team has to "discover" that the protagonist is actually amazing despite—or because of—their quirk or difference. Somehow, every new group they meet has to go through the exact same realization.

Here, that part has already happened before the story even begins. The people who hired him already know he's brilliant. The drama isn't about proving his worth to his colleagues—it's about watching competent people work together. And, surprisingly, that feels much more refreshing than the usual formula.
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On GTO 17 days ago
Title GTO
Very GTO first episode.

If you liked the previous ones, you'll probably like this one. I certainly did.

Please skip if you don't want to read a long rant about a not-so-important thing :

It's just... I know high school dramas often cast young, inexperienced actors, and I genuinely enjoy that. I'm not lying, I love school dramas partly because it's fun to watch newcomers grow.

But what is this?

Surely there were auditions for the students' roles. Or at least some coaching on set. Seriously, what happened here? The line delivery from the main student is horrifyingly bad (the enunciation!). Every line is delivered with almost no facial expression or emotion.

I've completed 616 Japanese dramas and movies according to MDL, so I've seen my fair share of rough acting. But it's been a long time since I've seen a performance this soulless.

I would never leave a comment on Twitter, or anywhere this young actor might see it. He's a child. He was cast for a reason and did the job he was asked to do. The performance didn't work, but I don't think the responsibility lies with him. The adults on set (the director and the rest of the production team) should have been there to guide him. Coach him, do another take, try a different approach... something.

Every scene he's in feels off. It's like Sorimachi Takashi is acting opposite an audience member who was randomly invited on stage during an improv show. It genuinely looks like the intentionally bad acting you see in a comedy sketch.

What I'm struggling to understand is how the production was happy to release this. This is the first episode of a new entry in the hugely successful GTO franchise. What were the director and the team thinking?

I watch all kinds of trashy J-dramas with questionable acting, but this is the first time I've actually felt angry. I honestly don't know how it ended up like this. Was there no coaching? No direction? No one who looked at the footage and thought, "We need another take"?

It almost gives the impression that everyone simply accepted it because it's GTO and people would watch anyway. Of course, I have no idea what happened behind the scenes, but that's unfortunately how it comes across as a viewer.

I'm genuinely disappointed. One weak performance isn't going to ruin the drama for me, and I'll definitely keep watching. But I'm disappointed in the direction and the production team, because they're the ones responsible for supporting a young cast and helping them deliver the best performance they can.
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On Your Summer, My Storm 22 days ago
It's surprising. Based on the synopsis, I expected a messy romance, but the colorful poster convinced me to give it a try.

It actually seems really wholesome and cute. I'll wait for the next episodes before drawing any conclusions, but I have a feeling that people expecting a typical "BL" might be disappointed. It's definitely queer, and the boy's feelings for the teacher seem like they'll be the main storyline, but I get the impression that the romance will only be one part of the overall story.

The first episode introduces way too many characters for them not to play important roles. Somehow, I feel like this is going to be more of a family and coming-of-age story than a romance, even though there will obviously be a gay romance.

Maybe I'm just biased because I love queer stories (or stories with queer main characters) that don't revolve entirely around the romance. ^^'

I also adore coming-of-age J-dramas because romantic relationships are usually just one part of the bigger picture. I'd be really happy if this drama ended up treating its queer story the same way a straight coming-of-age J-drama would.

That said, I'm probably getting way ahead of myself after just one episode and a trailer. x)
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Replying to Rudravarman 22 days ago
Two hetero guys fall in love? That sounds Classical BL. The Japanese are masters in that, so I am sure this will…
Are they straight, though?
We don't know anything about the boyfriend (hetero, bi, or deep in the closet). And the whole point of the high schooler character seems to be that he doesn't know himself at all (what he likes, who he likes, what he wants to do, etc.).
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On Blossoms of Power 24 days ago
Currently on episode 4, and it's been really entertaining so far.

I like the characters, and even though the main actress is pretty stiff, she's so gorgeous that I don't really mind. It also kind of fits the character she's playing. At this point, though, she's definitely the weakest actor in the main cast.

The ML is great, especially his comedic chemistry with his aide. The two brother princes (the ones with the same mother) also have a really good, tragic dynamic.

The last two princes are pretty forgettable, but those four guys are doing most of the heavy lifting acting-wise right now.

Story-wise, it's just a lot of fun. Nothing groundbreaking, but the overpowered FL and the fun ML make it work. It's completely over the top and basically one big, satisfying slap festival. Don't go in expecting anything particularly subtle.

As pure entertainment, though, it's doing exactly what it sets out to do, so I'd say it's a success.
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Replying to Nowaa Oct 7, 2025
The story is so complicated, the ending totally confused me! So, all of them are dead?
Oh wow .... Did you just spoil me the entire show in two lines?

There's a magic little box with "spoiler" written next to it. When you click on it, it hide the content of your very spoiling comment. It help the people who want to go to the comment to see spoiler-free opinions before watching a new show.

Technology is amazing like that. I hope you learned something today.

Yes, I'm going full satirical. Because I'm very annoyed right now. But I'm polite and all, so please edit your comment in spoiler mode. Thank you.

(and pls no "when you go to the comment section, you need to prepare for spoilers". No I do not. Not when the site has a spoiler fonction especially for it.)
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