yeah but this is not really a case of survivors guilt. He felt guilty coz he was in fact partially responsible…
But it was the people close to the victim (Torfon) who forgave him first, so how am I overlooking everyone else? ... Her aunt clearly didn't give a damn so I don't know, it seems the only people that truly cared for Torfon (her true family) forgave Tian, rightfully so... Like okay let me ask this.... What would be a satisfactory consequence for his involvement in Torfuns death?... Like really...
Edit.. I just reread your comment above.. so basically what you want is the acknowledgement of Tians wrong doing, not necessarily his punishment?
yeah but this is not really a case of survivors guilt. He felt guilty coz he was in fact partially responsible…
am not trying to belittle someone dying but he. Was. Not. Behind. The. Wheel. also mind you am judging this from a biased prospective because I care about Tian as a character and because of that am more inclined to favor him being forgiven... So no, I don't think we should let offenders go because they feel guilty. I love tian and don't want to see him in anymore pain than what his gone through already... I truly am ecstatic that they forgave him.. I mean My God, the guy moved to a village in the middle of nowhere, where there is no electricity and was practically living in a shade rather than the houses his used to...and he truly cares about the villagers, it's not an act and it's not for show.. his heart shines through, I can't help but recognize his change and judge him based on the person he is now than the person he was then...I would be devastated if the writers made him go through something worse..
yeah but this is not really a case of survivors guilt. He felt guilty coz he was in fact partially responsible…
Okay yeah, Its not survivors guilt. But Tian already feels guilty for what he had instigated ...
at the end of the day, he regrets it and has tried in his own way to make amends, he's already tortured mentally, what good would it be if he suffered more ? And that's why Phupha told him he was forgiven, at the end of the day he really didn't kill Torfun, he might have instigated the whole thing (since he thought he was dying and was not thinking straight and panicked after he lost the watch) but he was not behind the wheel and neither was it his intention to murder anyone.... He paid his dues , he knows he was wrong and that's what matters.
I love that this story is about Tian and his journey dealing with survivors guilt and learning to accept that it's okay to be happy after being given such a huge gift at a pricey cost... And this is my opinion but I think it's more realistic that they separated in ep 9, I would have been a little disappointed if Tian left his life as a student in bangkok to live with Phupha in the village, he needs to go back and sort his life out first before committing to a man at such a young age, this is why I also applaud Phuphas resilience in pushing him away, it's just...Logical. But one thing I don't understand is why they are acting as if it's the end of the road... I mean the village is still in Thailand not in the north pole, why are they acting as if Tian can't come and visit? I guess this is the part I remind myself that it's not real, that's it's just a show.
Why are people sad about it not being BL....to the point of advising others not to watch cause it's not BL. I mean I understand those that didn't like the show cause of the story, acting, chemistry and or ending but viciously judging a show cause it's not "BL" seems kinda over the top.
I cried... I literally cried with episode 9.. my heart still hurts.. My goodness... How am I supposed to live until Friday? I haven't cried watching anything in soo long... They really out did themselves, the cast the production team, everyone, (༎ຶ ෴ ༎ຶ)
I am not ready to let go...Tian's farewell seemed like a farewell to finally say goodbye to this series...and…
We gotta make way for fish upon a sky hun.... Then there is bad buddy and like other BLs (and non BLs too) .. Soo don't worry, you might be falling from the high but at least youll fall on fluffy cushions....
What I don't understand is why you are comparing them here, under WOH comment section.....you obviously are in…
Okay that's fine,. but can you just throw a rec next time... Calling the the plot of WOH dull especially in comparison to another drama is just ...like this comment is better suited on the other page cause now die hard fans of WOH might be less interested in checking out the other drama so in the long run, you achieved the opposite...
What I don't understand is why you are comparing them here, under WOH comment section.....you obviously are in the minority and favor the other drama so why not go sing it's praises there?
I liked him too, arg am on episode 10 right now and I just...hope that the rumors are false otherwise id have to blacklist him and I know people say that we should disassociate the actor from the character but in this case UC is a show that deals explicitly with the issue of bullying and to have our main lead be a bully in real life just takes me out of the trance am usually in when I watch the show LOL.
What evidence though, sorry maybe am dumb cause I can't find any mentions of evidence when I google him, just the multiple claims of bullying and his denial of them.... I really like the show but will be crushed if the guy really did bully pple,. So please help me understand....what evidence?
Wait what? So it's not new content? I was so excited for this now am 'meh' about it. Will watch anyway cause it's 2gther and I need to pay respects to my First BL drama...:)
I saw all the positive comments and continued watching from episode three to four and...I am in the minority.…
It's not great but it's entertaining, I personally like it but i don't think I'd ever watch it again or think about the show and I think that's a better idea to binge watch than watch 1 ep per week. I don't like gene actor too...
It's a form of magic lol... don't try explaining this to urself using logic XD
Lol someone said that this type of Chinese drama does not have any type of magic, that ii was a wuxia and those don't have magic or any fantasy elements... So was Abit confused. Anyway. Thanks!
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Edit.. I just reread your comment above.. so basically what you want is the acknowledgement of Tians wrong doing, not necessarily his punishment?
at the end of the day, he regrets it and has tried in his own way to make amends, he's already tortured mentally, what good would it be if he suffered more ? And that's why Phupha told him he was forgiven, at the end of the day he really didn't kill Torfun, he might have instigated the whole thing (since he thought he was dying and was not thinking straight and panicked after he lost the watch) but he was not behind the wheel and neither was it his intention to murder anyone.... He paid his dues , he knows he was wrong and that's what matters.