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but she liked JP and spent so much time with him, ...

dream on buddy LOL You really cannot see that JH is treating YR as her ... subordinate who always caters to her? and tried to steal JP and even told YR to help her? and this competition - is what ... ?

wow you still think JH is a nice person???

I was on drama beans recently and noticed that their rating are more realistic and seem to be consistent, from true art lovers , objective.
Viki seems to have rating from "fans" so even lower quality dramas can have high rating

Tracking back... how were we gaslit? Bc of the drama desription!!!! it sets it up so that we all got lulled into thinking we know who the good guys are!!!! That's the only reason I never suspected him!!!! and I never rely on descriptions but here I did ... wow what a fool LOL I was deceived...

the policeman is a great twist

wooow if this is ep 8 what can happen till 12?? this is a twisty thriller and of course since it is so much $$$$$
i wonder what will happen to her daughter
James and Eun So crossed the lines caused so much harm to others they are gonzo

Wow your view is toxic. JH has no right to assume that. JH has to ASK YR what YR thinks and feels, FIRST.
JH saw them having fun so she has to ASK YR FIRST where YR stands.
And JH just assuming that YR will continue to be JH's doormat is super selfishly trashy. JH is NOT a good friend. Their friendship depends on YR catering to JH

Wow that is soooo blind to say this. YR added a lot to Daddy Long Legs life... He has access to her family and is well taken care of, and he has access to YR who is DELIGHTFUL TO HIM.... he likes her, he enjoys her... BECAUSE YR IS VERY UNIQUE, SHE IS A VERY CARING AND KIND PERSON, IT IS A GIFT TO BE AROUND HER. And it is a gift to be allowed to be visiting her family and be friends with her bother, who is also an exemplary individual, very honest and kind. Also, to enjoy YR's mom's cooking.

He is a guest in their family so he has to be super careful. He never hit on her. Until now when she is independent.
He showed his gratitude for the family treating him well by taking care of YR

Yeah YR said she will fight for JP but if that player JP does nothing, or even worse, goes with JH, he is OUT OUT OUT.

And, YR is free to try another guy, why not, Daddy seems a promising candidate.

Oh I see. When I reread it, I see your point. OK then, I revoke my post.

I am not sure what I would answer o that post then
Yes usually love triangles with 2 guys on 1 girl are different, men typically honor the other guy's rights and do not intervene, Women are more likely to go after another woman's guy.

Hm where is your evidence hat YR is doing the same thing to Daddy Long Legs???
When did YR go on dates with the Daddy? When did she interact with him going places - then dumping him? When did she flirt with him? When did she seek him out? When did she recruit a friend to help her seduce Daddy?
It is sad that my post looked funny to you. With that lack of insight for ppl, you will end up as JP if make or, if you are female, in 1950s marriage with frozen meat or in a side chick modern situation. Be more discerning.

JH never really cared for YR, it is all shallow and based on YR being the "lesser" friend who always caters to JH,

I totally agree with you.
JH is selfish and calous. Something is weak / wrong in her where she cannot care for others.

Sure they were friends, ALso, in some cultures, you bring your friends home and it is not a big deal.

But on the scale from 0 to 10 they were friends at say 7. They collaborated and took care of each other but never were really close. They never were 100% honest. As soon as it got rough, the friendship is GONE, JH is after YR.

Their friendship depended on YR catering to JH. If that element weren't there, they wouldnt be friends. YR was JH's "satellite"

But this dude is for real, there are tons of guys like that. It is epidemic LOL So I am curious how the show will resolve it, what is their take on how this can be transformed

Same here, I dislike one sided conversation, So we are done, Just block me. Farawell

Oh I forgot to add: FL in Queens HOuse also indirectly caused dementia in her mother bc she caused involvement in murder for her mother and brother, and rift with her family, AND herself on the street as a homeless without a penny. A naive, blind, doormat who does not listen and does not communicate.... That woman was smart.

Lucia is dumb. Literally dumb.

Thank you. I think the people in the discussion for this drama said that too. Lucia is an "indirect villain" or "enabler" someone so ... incompetent who provokes and enables evil to keep flourishing.
FL in Queens House also was ignorantly blind clutz like that and led to death of her own son, her own father, and ML's sister. The difference is that she self reflected later. Not enough but at least tried...
Most ppl do not want to be held accountable for their messes LOL so drama writers try to appease the audience, but...

@dayidream your comment helped me understand the drama better
and now I realize your post helped me understand my mother who is ... clinically a narcissist, imo,
and all from her desire to be loved, and demanding it then by manipulation, esp by demanding self pity
She demands love and attention and if she cannot get it, manipylates via self pity

JP has 3 episodes left to defrost and grow his balls to COMPLETELY rehaul himself, to COMPLETELY transform, realize he loves YR, confess, and show his love in very clear expressive ways ALL THE TIME, PERMANENTLY,

One thing that might start cracking JP THE ICEBERG is his dad - JP finally admitted to him why boxing.

But JP is soooo frozen that this might be impossible. I am afraid of his crocodile tears in trying to keep YR as his personal servant, or his f;eeting insignt that he needs YR, wihout real change and easy going back to old behaviors,

FOR JP TO TOTALLY TRANSFORM IS .... A VERY LOW PROBABILITY EVENT, Still everything is possible but ... rare things happen rarely :) and it is dumb to keep waitong for it..

The doormat insecure character of YR is revealed bc she likes JP and DOTES ON HIM FOR 7 YRS just bc he showed little crumbs of attention and care for her,,,