Kinara

What she said to her mom probably showed that she was not ready to marry him subconsciously. They dragged it for 4 years . Why is buying a house such a huge priority?

And you are right - he did not lie. Only withheld information. What she did behind his back was worse than what he did. She treated both her relationships/BFs horribly- was very ambivalent about them . It’s just that HT loved her enough to forgive her -not the other way round . The credit for the sustainability of this relationship only goes to HT. She did not do a damn thing from beginning to end

He was basically fighting a business war with his cousin and they were all coming at him for the special treatment he was giving the FL. there is this misguided feminist moment, that thinks that you have to forgive the woman no matter How wrong she is. They even justified it as if a man does this then we would all be OK with it. So basically a woman Needs to compare herself to a man even with this . This is screwed up logic not feminism

Was ZD doing the right things? I never looked at it that way . Plus I never thought love was was transactional but I think that is what JX saw HT ‘s love was when she broke up with him and that is why I can’t justify what she did . People place too much blame on HT .

Yep that was bizarre for a smart woman who knows exactly what ZD was up to

Yeah she expected him to put her first in his business decisions . I did not like that at all because there were so many other factors at play. I am not sure if you can can call him ruthless even. I think it is too strong a word

24 i believe

Very well put. The biggest mistakes she made were Listening to some outsider and believing it, stealing those documents when he did not tell her, selling the shares to his enemy and running away the way she did by shutting him out completely . Others my cell these things are justified but I really don’t and cannot. It shows a huge lack of judgement, integrity and maturity . I am not saying one should be perfect and cannotake mistakes at all. But the gravity of these mistakes can have serious consequences. I did forgive her later when she finally understood a few things but I always felt that it was one sided love from Han Ting’s side . There was not much effort from her side

No one tells anyone everything . Everyone keeps secret and what he kept was a trade secret. And she wanted as someone put it ‘Disney magic ‘- all unicorns and rainbows but was not ready to work for it or even try to understand him . Yes she got the realistic answer about love abs could not take it

Yeah I want him to play a dark character - I think he will be good in that

lol - love the Disney magic comment. Yes her her character is sort of a paradox with many contradictions

You are absolutely right. It’s been my point of contention with this drama even though I enjoyed it

Agreed

Yes that apology from Ji Xing was much needed. Would hav made a huge difference

You are right on both counts

YES! I am looking forward to that!

Figuring out their relationship and their motivations is like finding a needle in a haystack That is all I can say

Definitely added to it but if you watch carefully there were other factors at play because PWX. Was also Li China’s advisor /PM. We really cannot rule out the part the political struggles played in their relationship Because it was a huge part of their life. And that includes SRQ machinations. It was a huge catalyst to how their relationship played out and the FL’s character. I wish they had done a better job of getting that message across.

Yep, he was good in Maiden Holmes , his first drama but gray characters like in SOKP are still my favorites for him

Yes that the one. The synopsis looks interesting and I feel like he will be good in that role