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So I noticed that HR said she had become very close friends with SJ when they were younger and went on to say if she wanted to do something she had to do it no matter what and she was self-centered. So since that was said I wonder if she thinks she will march right in and take JD out of the only home she’s ever know. And as of now I hope YJ gets a taste of JH real self for making an excuse so she could get coffee with him and letting her niece meet a freaking stranger alone. 🤬🤬🤬

Interesting!

So getting a cup of coffee was was more important than making sure your niece was safe meeting a stranger. OMG!

I’m hoping KS when he gets wind of it loves her enough to sit her down. I think he’s the only one she might listen to. He could at least reveal the girlfriend, some physical abuse that would have been more had he not stepped in, and the fact that not only did he grab him by the collar he was the one who busted his mouth open. But as quickly as they are moving it along by the time anyone would give her some advice she will be too far gone to listen or care. Been there, done that, wish I’d have listened. 😂

True that!

Cool!

I think I’m just in a really bad Debby Downer mood today. 😬😂

I guess I don’t pay attention to age differences in the dramas I watch because it’s interesting and I’m too busy enjoying watching. To me the age gap in My Dearest isn’t that noticeable because I don’t think Namgoon Min looks his age. But in regards to the drama, imho, it’s going to take a man more mature and world wise to handle Gil Chae. The noble gentleman scholars that Gil Chae has only had ever contact with until she meets Jang Hyun, I doubt, would be able to accept her for who she is and handle whatever situation she gets in to.

The more I think about SJ coming back the more I don’t understand the writer’s reasoning. The adults can all take care of and protect themselves but if this woman is the real SJ or not, when she is either caught in the lie or goes back to US after finding out JD isn’t a bone marrow match for her American kid this will be the 4th time JD will have been devastated by her “mother”. The first time when she was 5 when SJ abandoned her, 2nd time when she thought she had found SJ in the dementia patients home, 3rd time when a suicide letter was given to them and she had to realize she would never see her “mother” again, and now this showing up out of the blue which is #4. The emotional and mental damage these writers are doing to this poor child character are just mind blowing. Would they like for their real life children to deal with that many devastating blows in 10 short years? It blows my mind that they are this careless and uncaring about her character. I’m going to quit typing because the more I think on it the madder I get. 😤

And as easily as that passport was pulled out and made to look like it accidentally slid out of her purse wouldn’t you think she’d be a little bit more careful of the bag she is carrying to ensure that the passport isn’t really accidentally dropped or lost if she was really traveling?

I know I keep harping on not believing it’s the real SJ but as I think about it why would she be smart enough to fake her death, even leaving a suicide note, but stupid enough to still use her same name? If she was that desperate to leave her SK life behind and no one ever be able to find her she would have found someone to forge documents for her in another name. She would know the only way she could guarantee no one ever finds her would be to change her identity. That passport looked brand spanking new from the couple of seconds we caught a glimpse of it. I just think there aren’t enough episodes left to deal with the fallout of KS no longer being a widow but a divorcée because that is going to open up a whole new can of problems to be dealt with in just the 19 episodes we have left, if it ends at 120 episodes. Gosh, I really hate the writers didn’t leave her dead so we could move on with all the other secrets that have yet to be told and all the storylines that need to be finished in such a short amount of time. Of course, maybe KS will find out their marriage was never registered and he no longer is a widower or divorcée. 🤷‍♀️

And both her sisters have confirmed that too!

This is my thought IF she is the real SJ. Her child back home needs a bone marrow transplant and so mommy dearest decides to return from the grave and seduce JD by buying her designer clothes, the newest cell phone, and any other thing that JD’s heart desires not because she loves her but because she needs to test her bone marrow to see if she is a match and when she isn’t old gnarly feet SJ will drop JD like a hot potato and book her way back to the US faster than the speed of light.

I am going to be unpopular but I really hate the fact that the writers are letting YJ fall in love with JH without knowing his history. While engaged to MR he spent more time engaging the services of his hooker girlfriend than he did at work. Since she is/was a hooker escort engaging with other men not just JH what kind of nasty diseases could he pass on to YJ? He has the tendency to be physical with a woman if she doesn’t go along with what he wants. He also manipulated MR all the times he told her if she wouldn’t do something they would have to break up. And I don’t believe this “Leave It To Beaver” wholesome looking character they have turned JH in to overnight.

But I am not totally against the relationship between the two either. I would be perfectly fine with it if she was going into it with her eyes wide open and knew his background because then it is her choice to accept that he possibly might do the same to her. There are millions of wolves in sheeps clothing (male and female) out there that no one who knows them will be honest and tell you and you don’t find out the ugly truth until it’s too late. Not everyone is lucky enough to have someone concerned about them seeing someone they know that has some issues but there are plenty in YJ’s life who can share but won’t so far. 😔 Sorry to be Debby Downer this morning.

She probably gains a big bonus payout from big D when she destroys MR/KS relationship.

I’m not a outside the US traveler but if she holds an American passport doesn’t that mean she has become an American citizen? Wouldn’t a SK citizen still have a SK passport along with an American work or school visa? I know it’s trivial but if she is SJ’s doppelganger then big D may have found her in the States or had a fake passport made.

Sadly she won’t tell KS because I’m sure the B will tell JD that it’s their secret…just like an abuser tells their victim.

Maybe I’m wrong here but if you had no heart and walked out on a 5 year old child 10 years ago shouldn’t you be happy when you see your daughter happy and has a maternal influence? What gives her the right to be jealous? I hate this woman and I may have to quit watching until she leaves because I want to punch her.

I thought I saw an American flag but can’t swear to it.

Isn’t it amazing JD goes to leave and the old klutzie ballet dancer moves her arm and sweeps her drink and purse off the table so she has to dry out JD’s dress and while standing there JD sees the only thing that spilled out of the woman’s purse which just happened to be what looked like an American passport so she picked it up and saw her mom’s name? Something is screaming scam to me. And if SJ says she loves KS then no doubt she is being paid off by Big D. Why do we get the excitement of seeing KS possibly proposing to MR and then the whole show is ruined by that freaking evil real or look alike witch.