Alain de Botton FRSL (/də ˈbɒtən/; born 20 December 1969) is a Swiss-born British author and public speaker. His books discuss various contemporary subjects and themes, emphasizing philosophy's relevance to everyday life. He published Essays in Love (1993), which went on to sell two million copies. Other bestsellers include How Proust Can Change Your Life (1997), Status Anxiety (2004), and The Architecture of Happiness (2006).
Great podcast about love. Idea of love and relationship....expert/ researchers
Love is something that needs to be learned and not just something that's felt
He discuss how us human are unable to understand how to communicate, be honest, and conflict resolution
We assume that our partner should already know why we're upset. Etc etc
You assume that your partner should miraculously know why you're upset and see inside your wounded soul...
The host is discussing how he struggle to be honest in his relationship because he feel like it will hurt them.
Host - "Can we have true love and honesty? "
The expert says that he believes the wishes to tell somebody absolutely everything, it's absolutely beautiful and a Utopia idea in a problematic way. Because we all have in US ambivalences, doubts, and unfaithful thoughts.... etc etc
It isn't it worked of love to Rob your partner constantly up against your most troubling, disturbed part of your psych.
This is a great example that this is depicting real life emotions and that we as human being struggle with that and it's not only a plot device in storytelling.
People just see things so easily as black and white. But in real life. It isn't. It's not just a fantasy depicted in a story but people also suffer from this in real life relationship and situations
I wonder if ppl will get mad at ML when he lies and hide some truth because he doesn't want FL to get hurt...in further ep/storyline
In which FL did, because she doesn't want to hurt him even more....but she rather he hate her and she dies
"let sleeping dogs lie" means to avoid stirring up trouble or reopening a settled dispute. It advises against bringing up a sensitive topic or confronting someone about a past event because it could lead to a new conflict. The idiom uses the image of a sleeping dog, suggesting that disturbing it would be a bad idea, as it might wake up angry and aggressive.
The point is the double standards and not understanding storytelling...human nature...ect
probably many won't...because ML is always getting simp over more.
I don't hate either one...they have their reasoning....both grew up in a closed...conditional environment....we are a product of our environment
Netizens have uncovered disturbing links between Japanese doctors, CCP elites, and human organ preservation experiments.
At the same time, Mango Media’s stock is in free fall, Tian Hairong faces massive boycotts, and Yang Lanlan has vanished once again during her court hearing. 📺 Watch now on China Unfiltered.
Netflix series based off of a chinese author....
The 3 body problem
He tells/depict the violence of the culture revolution......china ofc....censor it and trash that scenes
Mao's culture revolution killed more ppl than Hitler
the tittle of this should be Lies in the Clouds ..the fl is a super liar one lesson u can get from this is honesty…
It obviously state it in the summary
Meanwhile, Ming Yi, hiding her true identity, disguised herself as a dancer to get close to Ji Bo Zai. Under their carefully crafted personas, the two engaged in a thrilling dance of deception and attraction.
How shocking there is lies and deception....oh wait...it's a xian xia drama....
She used him real well...helping him...getting hurt and risking her life for him....caring for him....using her petal life line to save him when needed ...she did well using him👏
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He is such a baby with her...too cute
Alain de Botton FRSL (/də ˈbɒtən/; born 20 December 1969) is a Swiss-born British author and public speaker. His books discuss various contemporary subjects and themes, emphasizing philosophy's relevance to everyday life. He published Essays in Love (1993), which went on to sell two million copies. Other bestsellers include How Proust Can Change Your Life (1997), Status Anxiety (2004), and The Architecture of Happiness (2006).
Great podcast about love. Idea of love and relationship....expert/ researchers
Love is something that needs to be learned and not just something that's felt
He discuss how us human are unable to understand how to communicate, be honest, and conflict resolution
We assume that our partner should already know why we're upset. Etc etc
You assume that your partner should miraculously know why you're upset and see inside your wounded soul...
The host is discussing how he struggle to be honest in his relationship because he feel like it will hurt them.
Host - "Can we have true love and honesty? "
The expert says that he believes the wishes to tell somebody absolutely everything, it's absolutely beautiful and a Utopia idea in a problematic way. Because we all have in US ambivalences, doubts, and unfaithful thoughts.... etc etc
It isn't it worked of love to Rob your partner constantly up against your most troubling, disturbed part of your psych.
This is a great example that this is depicting real life emotions and that we as human being struggle with that and it's not only a plot device in storytelling.
People just see things so easily as black and white. But in real life. It isn't. It's not just a fantasy depicted in a story but people also suffer from this in real life relationship and situations
All character will suffer the consequences.
Sml - he is doing the same thing as FL...he rather hurt his love and have her hate him...
The usual trope of noble idiocy
But we need to consider their background and how they are conditioned by their environment
ML feelings get hurt...because he almost 100% trust her....she didn't want to shattered him even more, but it does a anyways
ML will do pretty much do a similar thing because he doesn't want to add more wound to her trauma.
Many time...even in real life...us human rather suffer the pain than let the person we love suffer
There is consequences for our actions...
Many time...even in real life...us human rather suffer the pain than let the person we love suffer
There is consequences for our actions...
I'm not excusing the behavior
But i understand why it is hard.
It was cute what both actor posted about their character bond
Ppl don't understand objective truth and to evaluate the story
Critical thinking....character driven..plot ...storytelling
They don't teach literature anymore....the classic
Greek methodology...grims brothers...ect..
It's all shorts on Social Media...it is not black and white...
Those in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones
https://youtu.be/Jz3sz7dyvEA?si=5e2UKFAn-U4TyDHs
https://youtu.be/dk8PCilHCOo?si=EdNvbiDN3FIZduFc
In the trailer he pulled her in for a kiss
In which FL did, because she doesn't want to hurt him even more....but she rather he hate her and she dies
"let sleeping dogs lie" means to avoid stirring up trouble or reopening a settled dispute. It advises against bringing up a sensitive topic or confronting someone about a past event because it could lead to a new conflict. The idiom uses the image of a sleeping dog, suggesting that disturbing it would be a bad idea, as it might wake up angry and aggressive.
The point is the double standards and not understanding storytelling...human nature...ect
probably many won't...because ML is always getting simp over more.
I don't hate either one...they have their reasoning....both grew up in a closed...conditional environment....we are a product of our environment
I suggest we bring back read classic books ....
As long as it entertains us and bring us joy
Those in glass houses. Shouldn't throw stones
Netizens have uncovered disturbing links between Japanese doctors, CCP elites, and human organ preservation experiments.
At the same time, Mango Media’s stock is in free fall, Tian Hairong faces massive boycotts, and Yang Lanlan has vanished once again during her court hearing.
📺 Watch now on China Unfiltered.
Netflix series based off of a chinese author....
The 3 body problem
He tells/depict the violence of the culture revolution......china ofc....censor it and trash that scenes
Mao's culture revolution killed more ppl than Hitler
They always hate on the FL...and ML always get gloss over because they are simping
Always Double standards
Also, if you hate it...why watch....that is sick in the head to linger where you hate
Ppl don't understand story telling because ppl don't really read anymore....it short clips on SM
If they followed the novel....they'll still hate on FL even though ML was worse.
Watch it and enjoy....or don't watch it...
Always tit for tat.
I understand both perspectives and have stated cases for both
Meanwhile, Ming Yi, hiding her true identity, disguised herself as a dancer to get close to Ji Bo Zai. Under their carefully crafted personas, the two engaged in a thrilling dance of deception and attraction.
How shocking there is lies and deception....oh wait...it's a xian xia drama....
She used him real well...helping him...getting hurt and risking her life for him....caring for him....using her petal life line to save him when needed
...she did well using him👏
https://www.instagram.com/p/DP_vYHukTk2/?img_index=1&igsh=MW9uMWFyejgzeW51ag==
Congrats to the whole team
The vdo leak is horrific
Many actor has died in a similar way ....there is a lot of real evidence out there
It is only allowed because of the in fighting of the ccp.
They also censor and arrest ppl for their speech...says it all