Who is "we"? Are you trying to start a band? Looking for friends to join your crusade?
To let you know, I am not the one who created the stereotypes and representations about gay people. It is the gay people who made their own stereotypes in a way to assume and live their homosexuality. So if they are hurt because of these stereotypes, they should be angry at themselves first. To say someone looks gay has nothing hostile against gay people. It is just assessing a person based on the stereotypes the gay people created themselves.
I will call a cat a cat and a gay a gay. There is nothing wrong in this as it does not mean I am prejudiced against cats or gays.
As for the SJWs who want to make a trial of intent against my comments, it just makes me laugh.
I don't care about your judgment on my views. I am stating them as I have the right to. If you don't like them it is your problem. Not mine.
I suppose for people like you, someone who say "this person looks gay" is de facto an homophobic person. If someone says "this person looks a transexual" you would believe she hates transexuals. Or if she says "this person looks disabled " , then it means she hates disabled people.
The problem with the SJWs, is that they want so badly to look great fighting injustice on internet, they don't even care to know if their fight is well placed or misplaced. It is just laughable.
Again, my cousin looked gay. At age 19 he never had boy friends. He was always more comfortable with girls as a teen. When his brother and cousins talked about girlfriends, he never participated in the discussion. He never went to invite a girl to dance during weddings or parties. He made sometimes weird gestures with his arms and hands when he talked, like a precious person. Not all gay persons behave like that. most of them probably not but his behavior and antics were characteristics. Yeah he looked gay like in the cliché and when he made his coming out, his mom cried. Not because she did not notice he was looking gay, but because she knew it meant the end of the life she, as his mother, always wanted for him.
Sorry to tell you this but when you do things, when you speaks, the way you behave in a certain way, you send signals to other people who will interpret these signals and form their own opinion about you. They will think and say you look gay, or stupid, or cute... that's their opinion and they have the right to express it. The fact that their opinion is right or wrong is their problem. The fact that you like it or not is your problem.
My cousin is gay. I knew it only by looking at how he behaved. For some time, I was afraid to say anything to him that would make him know I know. Now everyone in his family knows, They all said "I knew it". Do you find this offending?
I am stating my opinion based on what I see and what I hear from the character Ji Wan. Again Ji Wan does not behave nor speaks like she is in love with Sol. She seems jealous and doesn't want to share her best friend but that's not an exclusive sign of Love. In friendship also you don't want to share your best friend and you can be jealous of her being with other people male or female.
You can question your own sexuality but when you are in love with someone, you know you are in love. Sol knows she is in Love with Ji Wan this is why she looks pained and conflicted and tries to avoid her before she confessed. Ji Wan just looks like a kid who doesn't want to share her favorite toy. She doesn't look in love and trying to question or fight that love at all.
Maybe in the last ep she will do her coming out but so far, it is my opinion to say that she is doesn't look gay like Sol looks totally gay.
Thanks for your clarification. Yes she doesn't seem gay based on what I see and hear from her but I guess even this "seem" can be attacked by SJWs as it is their favorite activity.
Based on what I have seen, Ji Wan does not know about her own sexual orientation. Not like Sol who said she likes Ji Wan like "she loves" her. Ji Wan just looks like someone who is afraid to loose someone important to her. She does not look like someone in love at all.
does ep 9 end with a cliff hanger or some kind of suspense? I'm trying to decide whether to watch it now or wait…
It ends up with a surprising light on Jae Eon. I too was thinking I should wait and binge watch the last 3 eps but I failed. It is not a cliffhanger but it should be a turning point.
What I love about this drama is that it portrays Seon-ho's adoptive family as real and loving, which is relatively…
I also like the relationship between the father and his two sons and the brotherhood between the two boys. I am curious to see how the two brothers will do after finishing the police university and the Military service. I hope they don't become rivals.
I love how Sosuke is clearly having feelings for her and not so much for Risa. That whole scene that ended with…
Risa is supposed to be his first love and he has a nostalgia for that period of his life. To me, he looks like he is forcing himself to have a good connection with her (like when they are playing freesbee). He looks more naturally "moved" by Ai qualities... and flaws.
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To let you know, I am not the one who created the stereotypes and representations about gay people. It is the gay people who made their own stereotypes in a way to assume and live their homosexuality. So if they are hurt because of these stereotypes, they should be angry at themselves first. To say someone looks gay has nothing hostile against gay people. It is just assessing a person based on the stereotypes the gay people created themselves.
I will call a cat a cat and a gay a gay. There is nothing wrong in this as it does not mean I am prejudiced against cats or gays.
As for the SJWs who want to make a trial of intent against my comments, it just makes me laugh.
I suppose for people like you, someone who say "this person looks gay" is de facto an homophobic person. If someone says "this person looks a transexual" you would believe she hates transexuals. Or if she says "this person looks disabled " , then it means she hates disabled people.
The problem with the SJWs, is that they want so badly to look great fighting injustice on internet, they don't even care to know if their fight is well placed or misplaced. It is just laughable.
Again, my cousin looked gay. At age 19 he never had boy friends. He was always more comfortable with girls as a teen. When his brother and cousins talked about girlfriends, he never participated in the discussion. He never went to invite a girl to dance during weddings or parties. He made sometimes weird gestures with his arms and hands when he talked, like a precious person. Not all gay persons behave like that. most of them probably not but his behavior and antics were characteristics. Yeah he looked gay like in the cliché and when he made his coming out, his mom cried. Not because she did not notice he was looking gay, but because she knew it meant the end of the life she, as his mother, always wanted for him.
My cousin is gay. I knew it only by looking at how he behaved. For some time, I was afraid to say anything to him that would make him know I know. Now everyone in his family knows, They all said "I knew it". Do you find this offending?
You can question your own sexuality but when you are in love with someone, you know you are in love. Sol knows she is in Love with Ji Wan this is why she looks pained and conflicted and tries to avoid her before she confessed. Ji Wan just looks like a kid who doesn't want to share her favorite toy. She doesn't look in love and trying to question or fight that love at all.
Maybe in the last ep she will do her coming out but so far, it is my opinion to say that she is doesn't look gay like Sol looks totally gay.