I’ve decided I’m not going to comment on the parental struggles and fights anymore. We all have our own opinions…
HY will need to have something drastic to happen to bring her out if her delusion. Her father is 80 - maybe something happening to him will make her realize how much she has been misunderstanding him.
It is not that I like CY or anything, but JA would not want to hear the truth coming from anyone. At this point…
This will be my last post on this - as a mom I see JA's pain and frustration of not being able to find her kids for 30 years. When she last saw them, EH was 5 years old and EA was 7. As far as she knows, CY broke up their marriage - and I dont care if DG was "consoling" a friend - all night? Alone in the house with a former lover? Yeah, pretty sure that would not go over well with ANY woman about her husband. And CY knew he was married - she caused a "misunderstanding" (as she puts it or y'all do) so she knows she was wrong. DG should have called JA to go with him to see CY if she needed comforting. A married man shouldnt have gone to a former lover's house alone and stayed all night just to hold her hand. Sorry but that doesnt fly with me either. But what they did is not my point - my point is CY should not be calling JA to set up a meeting the day after JA found out her kids were alive and well and living 10 minutes from her. She's been searching for 30 years and the person that she believes broke up her marriage is the same person who has been raising her kids for 30 years - how do you think she feels at this moment? Yes, JS is the one who lie, yes, JS is the one who was also slapped and her sister has disowned now, yes, JS is still full of herself and only worried about how she now looks to everyone instead of wondering and worrying how her niece and nephew are doing...she is a spoiled woman who is immature and needs to be dealt with severely. BUT, JA's POV is the woman that stole her husband is the same woman who is now calling her one day later and saying "we need to meet to discuss the children" and "Where have you been for the last 30 years" comment was unecessary and cruel. CY knows exactly why she wasn't around for 30 years - she was just told why by her husband - she didnt need to say that.
As for EA - yes, she is an adult but she was disrespectful to her parents when she started yelling, got up up, and stomped away. I get she is mad and hurt but she should have sat her butt down and listened instead of acting like a 2 year old. She is living in her parents' home, not hers.
It's been one day for JA to find out what we, as the audience, have known for months - to ask that she feel grateful when she is still reeling from shock from what she has discovered is too much to ask imo. I am done. I wont comment again.
It is not that I like CY or anything, but JA would not want to hear the truth coming from anyone. At this point…
If JA did not think of it from the kid's POV she would have just told EH she was his mom when she ran into him. I am not saying CY wasn't a loving mom, I am saying that she came at JA with an attitude of "we need to talk about the kids" - that should have been DG calling - he could have met with JA and brought CY along - it wasn't CY's place to call JA and set up a meeting and have an attitude about it so soon after JA found her kids whereabouts.
The problem here with CY is she ADMITTED she came in between DG and JA - so yes, she bears some responsibility…
There was no need for CY to call her to tell JA they needed to talk “about the children”. She is absolutely pushing JA’s buttons. Seems like she has been doing that for longer than 30 years. She only agreed to tell them because he insisted - one of the rare times he did. And these are not two children - these are two grown adults - 35 and 37 years old. I would be asking why they lied to me all those years.
I don't think JA and CY are wrong with their reactions, both of them are fighting for their children. JA and DG…
The problem here with CY is she ADMITTED she came in between DG and JA - so yes, she bears some responsibility for the breakup of the marriage. Then she got to raise JA’s kids and THEN called her and very RUDELY said JA didn’t show up for 30 years…..maybe had CY had a bit more compassion and decorum then the “unnecessary feud” she talked about would not continue on - but she is deliberately pushing JA’s buttons. She does NOT want JA in those kid’s lives - we see that in how she didn’t want to tell them right away and how rude she was to JA then how rude she will be tomorrow. She will be a stumbling block for JA getting to know her kids. And then DG and CY made it worse by not telling EA to sit her butt down and explain to them both that it wasn’t JA’s fault that they hadn’t seen her in 30 years. They didn’t explain anything - just “oh btw, your bio mom is back”. Wow.
I was just speculating to Loelha that I wonder if ES is adopted - I said it jokingly but it could be that ES and SJ both are adopted - maybe they are really bio sisters. 😂
I just finished ep 58 - as a mom, I feel that slap is well deserved. CY acted very arrogant right off the bat when she called JA and pretty much blamed her for not being around for 30 years. The poor woman just found her kids after 30 years - give her time to process it all - but CY went straight for the jugular without batting an eye and did so with an attitude. She was talking about an “unnecessary feud” but she is still pushing that button.
That's not what it looks like to me in that preview.The chicken fryer looking cocky and I don't blame JA for smacking…
Whoa, please don’t be calling people dumb because their opinion differs from yours. And I would love to see ANY mom who had her children disappear on them for 30 years NOT want to fight to get them back - especially after finding out they were raised by the woman you believe your ex-husband was cheating with. Even CY admitted she was to blame for their divorce and we all know CY dated DG before he married JA so there is history there of hard feelings between them all. I’d be pissed too if I was JA. She has lost 30 years of her kids to that woman.
Episode 59 Preview Eun-hyuk is confused when he realizes that Chun-young is not his biological mother... Jung-ae and Chun-young confront Eun-hyuk about his mother... Meanwhile, Eun-hyuk meets with Ha-young and tells her the truth about his biological mother...
I said EH would tell that witch - just wait - when she finds out who his real mom is and ES is his sister - shes gonna go blab it all to break up SW and ES.
I think there is a translation issue with the second sentence because Google Translate says they confront EA over EH’s mom -
I agree, it’s no fun to see couple get together so fast in other drama, especially when one of them gets rejected…
Has nothing to do with his looks and aura - I never said it was right for him to move next door - but i get tired of a male being bashed for doing things that a female also did - she just did hers covertly while he is open - she is also the one who was taking pictures of him every time she got a chance - helping him chase her friend? That was pretty bold too - a chance to be near him - she is a coward - he isnt. I am not saying he is right - I am saying her way of dealing with things is just terrible and she has a nasty vengeful spirit in her - he is better off without her.
Last drama I watched her in was Moonlight and it was so painful to finish. I did try to watch her in The devil fairy one with Dylan Wang but I still have not finished it because of her.
Esther Yu - her whiny baby talk voice just grates on my nerves - that’s why I can’t watch her. Great actress, but please drop that fake baby voice. Ugh.
I think when they try to hide it, it becomes a problem. They are allowing the public to dictate their lives. Just be open and honest like Allen Ren. Why hide it anyway? Janice Wu was one that married and had a child with a fellow actor - someone noticed them out with their child and took pictures - then they ended up divorcing - I don’t care if they are married - or have GFs - I like their acting and their dramas - I am not going to China to hunt them down to try and get with them. 😂 same for Korean actors and even American actors - these crazy fans that think their idols should stay single forever are just nuts.
As for EA - yes, she is an adult but she was disrespectful to her parents when she started yelling, got up up, and stomped away. I get she is mad and hurt but she should have sat her butt down and listened instead of acting like a 2 year old. She is living in her parents' home, not hers.
It's been one day for JA to find out what we, as the audience, have known for months - to ask that she feel grateful when she is still reeling from shock from what she has discovered is too much to ask imo. I am done. I wont comment again.
I was just speculating to Loelha that I wonder if ES is adopted - I said it jokingly but it could be that ES and SJ both are adopted - maybe they are really bio sisters. 😂
Eun-hyuk is confused when he realizes that Chun-young is not his biological mother... Jung-ae and Chun-young confront Eun-hyuk about his mother... Meanwhile, Eun-hyuk meets with Ha-young and tells her the truth about his biological mother...
I said EH would tell that witch - just wait - when she finds out who his real mom is and ES is his sister - shes gonna go blab it all to break up SW and ES.
I think there is a translation issue with the second sentence because Google Translate says they confront EA over EH’s mom -
TY with YH
Direct Lu with TX
DD with GH
No chemistry in the current pairings for me. The whole cast just seems off.