I dont even understand what chemistry is LOL There's only been 3 times so far where my heart rate went up during a sex scene. For me, it's all about building up the plot and my attachment to the characters. Fingers crossed Golden Blood makes number. 4 LOL
I cant speak for asexual people, but for me it's more about sexual attraction/desire doesn't develop until I have an emotional attachment to the person.
What people look like are purely an aesthetic thing for me. I can appreciate Joss's beauty but I have no sexual feelings looking at his body. I might as well be looking at a wall. In BL's, most of the time, the sex scenes do literally nothing to me, I'm just watching another scene. In other occasions, when the sex is fast and graphic, like Love Sea, I even feel a bit sick and skip through the scene.
In contrast, the ones that do have me feeling flustered would be the sex scenes in Cutie Pie and The Sign, where there's an emotional build up, there's sensual elements of caressing, lighting, romantic music etc etc.
Just think of it as, the sex switch in our brains, mine just takes a little more work and commitment LOL
it means my libido doesn't work unless I'm in my feels lol I thought I was just old fashioned but I learned last year that the new era of lgbt has a name for it lol it's considered to be part of the ace category but not fully so, I guess that's why it's called 'demi' sexual as opposed to completely ace/asexual.
Being confronted with someone's genitalia in any situation is going to create some kind of strong emotion, but it'll differ from person to person. Everyone's reaction is valid as intimate body parts are called 'private' for a reason.
So either 1 - Are you young/underage? It's just a penis or the bulge of the penis. It's really nothing special honestly. Can't lie, Vaginas are much prettier LMAO And in this scenario, it's on t.v, no one will know LOL
2 - Do you find Joss physically appealing? Because shyness would be a very valid and normal response to that kind of stimuli
3 - If you fall under an ace sexuality. I'm demi sexual, so there are plenty of times, esp BL's when sexual content makes me feel very uncomfortable or is just cringe inducing. In this scenario, it's a deliberate choice to show off Joss's body to emphasis the sex appeal of Mark, and we'll probably have Tong feeling embarrassed too LOL
So either way, don't feel that there's something wrong with you and no one here would be thinking it either.
My dear summer's child, the camera panned up from foot to face, with Joss in a slow motion walk, with his boys cupped gently in that blue spandex LMAO xD There was nowhere else to look. That's the 'showing of the body' shot, whether man or woman LOL
Man's body has seen a lot of time and investment, and the wardrobe department put him in those blue speedos on purpose LOL I feel like we're supposed to be looking. I'm demi and even I'm appreciating the physique lol
I was peacefully eating my egg muffin and youtube recommended me this video, and I had to come and share because it's going to playing in my head on Wednesday LOL Dont worry, it's cute https://www.youtube.com/shorts/rFiRzJtxP54?feature=share
Greek sculptures loved a chiselled male body so you are correct. Michaelangelo would have loved him 😂 So feel free to imagine him in place of Adonis LOL I think he'd make a great replica 😊
I half expected the next episode to be - Persuasion and Mark's Speedo Reign LOL
The good ladies and gentlemen in attendance collectively gasped, their monocles fogging up, their fans waving up another tomato mist storm. Mark, oblivious to the chaos, adjusts his breeches and simply asks, “Do they grow tomatoes here?”
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Is this an innuendo or am I just childish because I cackled a little LOL
What people look like are purely an aesthetic thing for me. I can appreciate Joss's beauty but I have no sexual feelings looking at his body. I might as well be looking at a wall. In BL's, most of the time, the sex scenes do literally nothing to me, I'm just watching another scene. In other occasions, when the sex is fast and graphic, like Love Sea, I even feel a bit sick and skip through the scene.
In contrast, the ones that do have me feeling flustered would be the sex scenes in Cutie Pie and The Sign, where there's an emotional build up, there's sensual elements of caressing, lighting, romantic music etc etc.
Just think of it as, the sex switch in our brains, mine just takes a little more work and commitment LOL
So either 1 - Are you young/underage? It's just a penis or the bulge of the penis. It's really nothing special honestly. Can't lie, Vaginas are much prettier LMAO And in this scenario, it's on t.v, no one will know LOL
2 - Do you find Joss physically appealing? Because shyness would be a very valid and normal response to that kind of stimuli
3 - If you fall under an ace sexuality. I'm demi sexual, so there are plenty of times, esp BL's when sexual content makes me feel very uncomfortable or is just cringe inducing. In this scenario, it's a deliberate choice to show off Joss's body to emphasis the sex appeal of Mark, and we'll probably have Tong feeling embarrassed too LOL
So either way, don't feel that there's something wrong with you and no one here would be thinking it either.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/rFiRzJtxP54?feature=share
Mark, oblivious to the chaos, adjusts his breeches and simply asks, “Do they grow tomatoes here?”
hahahaha