The 1st couple is literally perfect! Especially for a BL drama couple! LiCheng & MuRen have so much chemistry, are communicating with each other and them developing feelings and realising them comes in a good pace. I think they're my fav. couple of all times.
The 2nd couple. Haaa, no. Toxic. Like conceringly toxic, not the normal drama toxic, which pretends to be normal. And no I don't mean the Step-brother issue, that I don't even mind that much tbh, but the younger guy needs therapy asap. For a couple of reasons.
So let's just focus on LiCheng & MuRen <3 ...and hope for Lu & Sun to have 2nd season! Loved them in here :)
Was it problematic? Yes. BUT WAS IT GOOD THOUGH, HELL YEAHHH. And afterwords, both couples are adorable, cute…
Though I felt we have to separate both couples. LiCheng & MuRen are everything but problematic - they are surprisingly healthy! The other two... not so much. And nope, I don't mean the step-brother thing. That I don't even mind, but the younger definitely needs therapy for lots of reasons x)
Kdramas like to do that too. Towards the end -_- so annoying
Right!? I wished they'd come up with anything slightly more original. Especially since no one is too keen of seeing lovers being "pulled apart" all the time.
Excited :D But honestly... BL's and their ever occuring issue with studying abroad, transfers, family issues that all create the "long distance relationship" plot.
In real life, it's 9 yrs. In the series, it's pretty close to that, although they never really say.
And you're still here after you dropped it almost a month ago? Maybe that actually explains quite a lot, seeing as u apparently have nothing better to do after a month.
In real life, it's 9 yrs. In the series, it's pretty close to that, although they never really say.
Well, seems you know the one way to a healthy relationship then. Spread the word. But since it's just a show and you finally got that it's a "ew" 9 year age gap you can just drop and not watch it anymore (no idea why u didn't do that before tbh). Plenty of other good shows to get invested in and not defame couples with an age gap. Thx!
In real life, it's 9 yrs. In the series, it's pretty close to that, although they never really say.
Did you even read my comment? Properly? Otherwise your answer is kinda off. AS I SAID, I was talking only about age gap per se (and in this case 'ew' would be rude!!), since that's where this whole conversation started from. NOT the show!
And also again. Age gap or no age gap, of course none of that IS a garantee that a relationship will work or not. And both can be toxic. If you disagree good luck finding someone as close to your birthday as possible :D hope it works out.
In real life, it's 9 yrs. In the series, it's pretty close to that, although they never really say.
Since age gap was the topic I answered simply regarding age gap, not the on-top "special" circumstances around the mains in this show. So, I stick to what I said. "Ew" is a bit rude regarding age gap in general (though you probably meant it while thinking of the mains situation, I see that now). So, still, 9 years age gap can work easily, since I witness it myself, but sure, it can be/become complicated or toxic as well. Sadly just like a 9 months age gap could.
In real life, it's 9 yrs. In the series, it's pretty close to that, although they never really say.
"Ew"? Come on :D 9 years is quite a bit, but also still perfectly alright. As Gottillc said. Age gaps are nothing too special to begin with. Not sure which cultures he is aiming at, but I'm from Germany and sure some ppl might be like "oh so you're 9 years apart" but not meaning anything bad by it. Just noticing. And on we'll go with our day ^^ e.g. My best friend & her husband are 11y apart and srsly the healthiest couple I know. My own parents are 9y apart and married since 36 years :) In the end, if both genuinely love each other (obviously are of age - guess that doesn't need to be said) and no one's taking advantage... so what. Live and let live. "Age is just a number. As Gender's just a word."
Well yea I agree. Usually in bl or in romance in general there are always some toxic moments if I can call it…
Jup. Also agreed. No idea why they tend to do that. Especially with non-con scenes, no matter which "level". Best example to me will always be TharnType (I mean I liked the actors but basically that was one hell of a toxic show). They brush over issues or ignore them completely and bad guys, not even the real bad ones, EVER get a proper punishment. And the bad guy in TharnType was just ...wow. Prison please. And some justice for his victims. But naaah, who can be bothered with real consequences -.-
I agree Wayu & Thanu I mean really.. Thanu was too pushy & overly possessive brush off Pha so quickly & grab Wayu…
Yes. My thoughts exactly. While watching S1 I was already like "why does everyone have the urge to push Wayu into a new relationship ASAP?" He was clearly still dealing with his past one with Pha. And he won't die if he stays single for some time. Yesyes, it's a romance drama. But we had one proper couple, one & a half confusing ones and one broken one. And it would also fit the show to present how to deal with the end of a relationship.
When gumpa and the gang were kidnapped and then saved by the people, it was based on true events. 👇🏽https://twitter.com/noolekcraze/status/1505606439515357184?s=21
What exactly happened there? And when was it (might be easier to google it if I at leats have a date).
You haven't really watched it, have you? I honestly can't wait to see you eating up all those words after you…
Well, fair enough, might be, you commented a lot, defending a lot...for whatever reason. But humor me and spare me scrolling to my death if you did indeed answered that specific question somewhere - I did not find whatever you view as a proper answer to this question... So again... what does change this main issue a lot of people have if they continue watching? Bc I have a feeling you simply can or chose to ignore this issue (in that case good for you - honest, I mean it), then again it also seems that you yourself seem to have a problem with accepting that not everyone views it the way you do - hence your somewhat vague answers every now and then. We all love EarthMix, but it's just a bit harder to enjoy their scenes this time (bc Win IS in Lin's body during it all - no matter any arguments) and to not be too comfortable with it is a totally valid feeling. Yours is too in a way. If you want to accept it or not...
And don't get me wrong. I for one will continue watching for now. I was just genuinely wondering what you could mean since you're defending it so fiercly.
You haven't really watched it, have you? I honestly can't wait to see you eating up all those words after you…
Haven't watched it either (well at least not the whole 9 ep that are out yet), but... ultimately, which bothers me the most... everything that happens between them happens via Lin's body...doesn't it!? Srsly, doesn't it!? You keep hightlighting "but you haven't watched it yet" under every critical comment. So what do you mean will happen to this specific problematic issure ppl have with it - how will continuing watching change that? Yes, I'm still at the beginning, but I'm more than sure I can't ignore nor forget that "little" fact. Don't even think I should - even though it would be convenient... It's just awkward remembering it's his sisters body. Simply bc it's not ok.
Yeah exactly, when is between the siblings it's extremely weird because they have different genitals and unfortunately…
Completely understandable. If not for EarthMix, I would've stopped paying attention to this show the second I'd seen the tag "body swap". Like "aaaand goodbye".
The 2nd couple. Haaa, no. Toxic. Like conceringly toxic, not the normal drama toxic, which pretends to be normal. And no I don't mean the Step-brother issue, that I don't even mind that much tbh, but the younger guy needs therapy asap. For a couple of reasons.
So let's just focus on LiCheng & MuRen <3
...and hope for Lu & Sun to have 2nd season! Loved them in here :)
The other two... not so much. And nope, I don't mean the step-brother thing. That I don't even mind, but the younger definitely needs therapy for lots of reasons x)
But since it's just a show and you finally got that it's a "ew" 9 year age gap you can just drop and not watch it anymore (no idea why u didn't do that before tbh). Plenty of other good shows to get invested in and not defame couples with an age gap. Thx!
AS I SAID, I was talking only about age gap per se (and in this case 'ew' would be rude!!), since that's where this whole conversation started from. NOT the show!
And also again. Age gap or no age gap, of course none of that IS a garantee that a relationship will work or not. And both can be toxic.
If you disagree good luck finding someone as close to your birthday as possible :D hope it works out.
So, I stick to what I said. "Ew" is a bit rude regarding age gap in general (though you probably meant it while thinking of the mains situation, I see that now).
So, still, 9 years age gap can work easily, since I witness it myself, but sure, it can be/become complicated or toxic as well. Sadly just like a 9 months age gap could.
As Gottillc said. Age gaps are nothing too special to begin with. Not sure which cultures he is aiming at, but I'm from Germany and sure some ppl might be like "oh so you're 9 years apart" but not meaning anything bad by it. Just noticing. And on we'll go with our day ^^
e.g. My best friend & her husband are 11y apart and srsly the healthiest couple I know. My own parents are 9y apart and married since 36 years :)
In the end, if both genuinely love each other (obviously are of age - guess that doesn't need to be said) and no one's taking advantage... so what. Live and let live.
"Age is just a number. As Gender's just a word."
So again... what does change this main issue a lot of people have if they continue watching? Bc I have a feeling you simply can or chose to ignore this issue (in that case good for you - honest, I mean it), then again it also seems that you yourself seem to have a problem with accepting that not everyone views it the way you do - hence your somewhat vague answers every now and then.
We all love EarthMix, but it's just a bit harder to enjoy their scenes this time (bc Win IS in Lin's body during it all - no matter any arguments) and to not be too comfortable with it is a totally valid feeling. Yours is too in a way. If you want to accept it or not...
And don't get me wrong. I for one will continue watching for now. I was just genuinely wondering what you could mean since you're defending it so fiercly.
Yes, I'm still at the beginning, but I'm more than sure I can't ignore nor forget that "little" fact. Don't even think I should - even though it would be convenient... It's just awkward remembering it's his sisters body. Simply bc it's not ok.