sadly he is the product of grooming & that's why what the "tutor" did to him was so despicable, cause…
Thank U!!! my sentiments exactly - as the adult in the equation he should've known better. but he just saw someone who would be easy to manipulate & use, while projecting Akira's brother "image" onto him - despicable & gross. always thankful to encounter like minded people - in some circumstances there is only black & white, there no justifying sh*t - there people that will say he was over X, but as the age of consent in japan is 13 so it's not a issue, or that it's just a drama & not real life... frustrating exscuses IMO.
can anyone tell me what is Khun's mission? did i miss the explanation cause every encounter with Rattikan, i don't really get what is being said - as in it's very vague. there is no "...u gotta do X, Y, Z. so u can go back to ur own body..." 🤷♀️
Bro… If you think you hate the pedo enough you are dead wrong. I should not have watched the preview for episode…
sadly he is the product of grooming & that's why what the "tutor" did to him was so despicable, cause he didn't just exploit him sexually, but f*cked him up mentally. this is why i don't get anyone trying to excuse the groomer, by saying he also had it tough cause the J-society isn't accepting of gays, so he too is a victim - as if that justifies him targeting a vulnerable teen 🤷♀️🤦♀️
as much as i was looking forward to the 2nd couple, i don't like Guang Ming, dude shady & being a cop - that makes him scary as he targeted Chu San cause he saw him with Liu Yi, this means he will go through anyone, just to get his target. like i said scary - i just hope this BL doesn't have a sad/depressing ending & that the main couple doesn't leave me heartbroken. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
just started watching this & have one main observation; i really don't get why mention addiction or rehab when the guys who supposedly r addicted & went to rehab, continue to consume the "drug of choice" that sent them there, as if any amount after rehab is ok/safe/healthy.
when ur addicted u don't just go to rehab & everything gets fixed afterwards, it's for life(!) u have to keep away from that vice & keep vigilant that u don't fall off the wagon, cause u will either end up back in rehab or worse = 💀. but here addiction is treated like a cold or the flue, u get treatment & ur good as new 🤷♀️WTF.
The next couple are Norths friends, so id be shocked if hes not shown. And with Jo also quitting, maybe we ll…
yeah u r right, forgot that they were bff's with North - so i guess we will see him. maybe it's just too late & my brain isn't working 😅🤦♀️thanks for reminding me 😁🖐
North is the MVP of this series, he is hilarious & i just love him popping up making every scene fun & funny. idk who is gonna stay on for the next romance ( Tiger & Nao's story) just hope, i keep getting more of North ✌
It’s a good night kiss. It’s a see you tomorrow kiss. It’s not a I’m horny and Want to have sex with you…
that was a touching of lips, not even a kiss. that's what i meant & NO i didn't mean i wanted to see them eating each others mouths off but even a goodnight kiss can be more than what we got - that's what i meant.
i am sorry, but i don't give two shits that "...Kanda is also a victim..." he - as the adult - didn't…
didn't say it's wrong. just to me it comes off as a justification, a excuse, a get out free card & that's something i don't think Kanada & his ilk deserve. yeah he might have suffered, but being the adult, he knew what he was doing. he didn't just target someone vulnerable, but also someone impressionable & he turned himself into his only life-line. he has brainwashed him to such a degree - Akira is terrified of ending things even when offered an out, cause he thinks Kanada is the only one that will accept him for who/what he is. so trying to psychoanalyze Kanada is great, for understanding the man, but his actions?? yeah, nope i could care less how much he suffered. i would rather analyze the outcome of his grooming & how it is affecting his victim. the fact there BL's dealing with this subject, this isn't bad - but i can't be detached in my approach to this or any subject that r a red line for me. & grooming of any kinda make me see red.
anyway am sorry if u felt i was attacking u personally, there points where i agree with u, but on a whole cause of this subject i was heated. nothing personal ✌
not these days - have u watched the Pornographer? that's wild (any of the drama's & short movies in that series)…
idk about wild, but i guess there r BL's that can go there (& movies for sure). but on a whole most of the BL r like the ones on ur list - "meaningful" or more PG.
that kiss at the end was kinda underwhelming to say the least, lol (when u compare it to the flashback scenes) but Sakutaro was moved - so i guess it felt more impassioned them it looked 😅🖐
p.s. is Sakutaro brother-in-law interested in him? idk why from the 1s ep there is something in how he looks at Sakutaro, that makes me wonder. but maybe i am reading too much into a look 🤷♀️
Li ming probably just playing the playboy part with girls
i hope he doesn't, but it can also be Ouyang Han's heart that gets broken twice. cause, just cause they sleep together doesn't mean Li Ming will be ready to be with him, as an official couple 🤷♀️
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always thankful to encounter like minded people - in some circumstances there is only black & white, there no justifying sh*t - there people that will say he was over X, but as the age of consent in japan is 13 so it's not a issue, or that it's just a drama & not real life... frustrating exscuses IMO.
this is why i don't get anyone trying to excuse the groomer, by saying he also had it tough cause the J-society isn't accepting of gays, so he too is a victim - as if that justifies him targeting a vulnerable teen 🤷♀️🤦♀️
i just hope this BL doesn't have a sad/depressing ending & that the main couple doesn't leave me heartbroken. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
btw just 2 more eps left 😲
when ur addicted u don't just go to rehab & everything gets fixed afterwards, it's for life(!) u have to keep away from that vice & keep vigilant that u don't fall off the wagon, cause u will either end up back in rehab or worse = 💀. but here addiction is treated like a cold or the flue, u get treatment & ur good as new 🤷♀️WTF.
but even a goodnight kiss can be more than what we got - that's what i meant.
yeah he might have suffered, but being the adult, he knew what he was doing. he didn't just target someone vulnerable, but also someone impressionable & he turned himself into his only life-line. he has brainwashed him to such a degree - Akira is terrified of ending things even when offered an out, cause he thinks Kanada is the only one that will accept him for who/what he is.
so trying to psychoanalyze Kanada is great, for understanding the man, but his actions?? yeah, nope i could care less how much he suffered. i would rather analyze the outcome of his grooming & how it is affecting his victim.
the fact there BL's dealing with this subject, this isn't bad - but i can't be detached in my approach to this or any subject that r a red line for me. & grooming of any kinda make me see red.
anyway am sorry if u felt i was attacking u personally, there points where i agree with u, but on a whole cause of this subject i was heated. nothing personal ✌
p.s. is Sakutaro brother-in-law interested in him? idk why from the 1s ep there is something in how he looks at Sakutaro, that makes me wonder. but maybe i am reading too much into a look 🤷♀️