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Replying to Eli26 Aug 30, 2025
I knew fans would get defensive. Imo you're actually right. The "acting gay" is obvious and it comes across as…
This is very well said. Thank you. I agree completely. The dated stereotypical fem gay affectations across so many characters is a major put-off.
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Replying to Pincolino Aug 30, 2025
I'm giving up now. Horrible series. You can't trust MDL ratings anymore.
Yeah, the lead actor sucks in both acting craft and looks.
The absurd conceit that every man in sight was dropping at his feet because of his hotness and charm is one of the main reasons the show is a FAIL.

I'm guessing one of the biggest, juiciest, untold stories behind the scenes of this series' production is that since no major-name actor in wildly homophobic Korea would come within a mile of this role, somehow this third-tier dude ended up getting cast.

That said, it's bizarre to me that there are Korean movies as much as 20 years old, featuring future big stars in gay roles, so it's obvious doing so did not hurt their careers. If you check the bio page of SITBC's lead though, you will see that he is going nowhere fast. He's not talented.
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Replying to Lana Aug 30, 2025
U jobless? U have no life? U came all the way after seeing a BL on FB to comment on how much u hate this? Get…
I don't think he's the only one who's triggered here, Lana.
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Replying to StraightArrow Aug 30, 2025
hate these kind of dramas.. the decline, the descent, the ruination of a society thus begins*edit* someone told…
lol to your edit. We're no more tolerant, peace-loving, and bubbly than straight people, unfortunately.
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Replying to Venom30 Aug 30, 2025
I feel your comment. I cried for days after finishing this show and couldn't get it out of my head for weeks.…
I cried too!
For the awfulness of the show and the hours of my life I'll never get back.
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Replying to Luis G Aug 30, 2025
This isn’t just a typical BL drama; it’s genuinely made for gay audiences, not for those who fetishize homosexual…
"fetishize" lol
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Replying to Akhilesh Dandge Aug 30, 2025
A bunch of funding came through public funding, and appears it was meant for both gays and mainstream media to…
lol
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Replying to Akhilesh Dandge Aug 29, 2025
The bad reviews are from the people who are used to the typical plot based fictional yaoi characters, unlike here…
Untrue.
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Replying to Akhilesh Dandge Aug 29, 2025
The bad reviews are from the people who are used to the typical plot based fictional yaoi characters, unlike here…
He does not grow or change, from beginning to end. He repeats his various neuroses over and over. Sad.
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Replying to Sov Aug 29, 2025
As a gay man myself, Love in the Big City is the BL (or queer drama, whatever you call it) with the most realistic…
Obviously, you haven't watched many BLs. Or you don't pay attention. There is loads of the f**ked up misery you want to see among BLs.

That you consider the sad, messed up life of this show's MC as "the most realistic depiction" you've seen of gay life is what's really f**ked up.
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Replying to yoooonnn Aug 29, 2025
you're way too used to the cutesy bls lol this one shows the reality of queer people that bls dont show
THIS
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Replying to rinn Aug 29, 2025
unfortunately, when it comes to queer cinema, bls especially are being really fetishized. that's why, when it…
You think that all "actual" gay people's lives are as f**ked up as this loser's? Your outlook is tragic.
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Replying to joy Aug 29, 2025
B*tch a*s bl fans who loves fluffy, cute and fairytale-ish bls complaining about a queer drama based on a queer…
Why are you pushing the offensive term "QUEER" so hard? It's the gay equivalent of N****R and I don't see or hear Black folks raving about "N****R" shows.
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Replying to lillanlee Aug 29, 2025
because straight people don't like things that are made ONLY for queer people
I'm gay af and I don't like this series. And it wasn't made "ONLY" for gay people.
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Replying to Tttopspot Aug 29, 2025
Hate to break it to the bl fans, but as a lesbian: Our life is SHIT. Shittier in some places than others. And…
8.4 isn't high enough for you?
I'm a gay man. This series is boring garbage.
Also, lots of gay people have lives that are more happy than sad. Stop thinking in black/white terms. Life is not either "sunshine and rainbows" OR thunderstorms and lightning. Life is BOTH.
Furthermore, the MC in this series is the source of his own misery, over and over again. The character learns nothing and never grows. From one awful relationship to another.
Terrible casting too. A plain-looking, annoying fellow such as this does NOT have men falling at his feet, one after the other.
Absurd.
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Replying to etoks21 Aug 28, 2025
Your perspective on sex is sadly twisted.Is there some reason a couple can't grow emotionally, develop their characters,…
Hi. I already dropped Fahlanruk.
I was amused by much of it, but 30 minutes in, I could tell it was not for me. I found the guy playing Sherbet to be entirely ridiculous from a casting perspective, and was not willing to invest 8 hours in watching the show.

It seems I've completely outgrown that sort of Thai BL, along with most other Thai BLs. There's just so much wrong and annoying about the acting/writing/direction in Fahlanruk. If you're interested, I left a brief comment on the show's MDL page explaining why I was dropping it and giving it a rating.
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On Fahlanruk Aug 28, 2025
Title Fahlanruk
Oh well...

I gave this a try on the recommendation of a fellow MDLer. Thirty minutes in, I know it's not for me, but it was kind of fun to watch even that much of this show's old-school BL vibe, especially leads who are clearly what MDL Church Ladies like to call "toxic" and "red flags" and all the other terms they think are negatives, but which the rest of us know as "fun, fucked-up bad guys who make lame plots watchable."

That said, even excellently toxic lead characters won't be saving this one for me. Whoever cast that James dude as Sherbet, who is supposedly hot af, a total and very successful player, who all gay men and straight, and trans, women too! obsess over and are in love with, should be shot. Dude is not hot, he has a string-bean bod, and an annoying affect. It's excruciating to watch an actor who is not a devastatingly attractive, romantic lead, try to convince us with each expression and gesture that he is just that.

Tanklao as Fahlan seems to have that leading man vibe potentially, but I'll not be sticking around to find out.

Got a kick out of seeing the Thai BL Uni ratio of two trans women for every one cis woman among the student body. And that queeny gossip in the early lunchtime scene was a stitch. :) Those weird, chopped-bangs Thai haircuts! What is up with that? :)

Dropped. I'm out of here.
1/10
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