Details

  • Last Online: 1 hour ago
  • Gender: Male
  • Location: USA - The half of it that hates Donald Trump as much as you do.
  • Contribution Points: 3 LV1
  • Roles:
  • Join Date: June 2, 2023
  • Awards Received: Flower Award1 Coin Gift Award1

etoks21

USA - The half of it that hates Donald Trump as much as you do.
Replying to chillingindoors Mar 23, 2024
You are free to like / dislike a movie, but if you watched the film entirely, you'd realise that your impression…
You lost me at "racist..." I don't read replies past lazy, stupid, offensive accusations like that, so you wasted your time writing the rest of it.

Did you know cultural affectations and traditions are NOT passed along via DNA? Did you know Japanese, Korean, and Han Chinese people share 99,9% of their DNA? So Chinese and Korean women are the same "race" as Japanese women and yet, for some reason, gosh, I can't imagine what it could be...they don't indulge in KAWAII silliness such as walking pigeon-toed or acting brain-dead.

Educate yourself before hurling radical insults like "racist."

Your reply's rating: -10/10
0 2
Replying to Wild side Mar 23, 2024
babe you've only watched 25 minutes of it. I strongly implore you to watch the whole thing before you make such…
Well, actually, I tried watching this film once before, about two years ago. That time I dropped it at about 90 minutes. It is my opinion that this is a horrendously terrible film, whether one drops it at 30 or 90 minutes. I'm OK with that. I'm glad you love it. That's great.

Believe me, I wanted to love it, as the first four actors listed above are among my favorite Japanese actors. Nevertheless, this movie is among my least favorite Japanese films and will remain so.

I have several "Top 30 Best Films" lists on my profile page. Check them out if you like!
1 1
Replying to etoks21 Mar 22, 2024
yeah, uh huh...THAT will definitely happen. Many times, the home is already broken. That's why one of the spouses…
I already said "justifiable" is YOUR word and YOUR hangup. I don't make anything sound like anything. It's you who's perceiving my words in such a way because you're projecting your way of thinking onto me.

My reaction to a partner cheating on me would depend entirely on a lot of different factors, each of which would differ according to who my partner was, when, and for how long this cheating went on among many other factors. Assessing a partner's infidelity is no more black and white than anything else in the universe.

lol WHOSE morality? Oh, that's right...YOUR morality, which you assume to be the only valid form of such, and which you use to judge other people and their lives, even though you claim you don't.
3 1
Replying to etoks21 Mar 21, 2024
Title Unknown
I'll be crucified here for saying this, but as I've told you already Maggi, I want to see a well-made BL in which…
I would love to see that too. :)
Fandy Fan would be required to star in my version of that film. :)
I found FBTE overall a good flick, but it skipped over when the half-brothers' relationship became romantic/physical. They went from being like 10 and 4 to grown men when their father died, by which time they were already involved. I would like to have seen a lot more of the development of the relationship and the angst surrounding that change.
Beautiful actors though.

Another thing people cringe over and pretend doesn't exist is the fact that it's not uncommon for full-blood male siblings, especially if they are very close in age, to fool around and explore sexually together in adolescence. The male sex-drive is in overdrive at that point, you're horny 24/7, so it's not surprising things happen.

But the vast majority of those boys are straight and simply move on to the next stage of their development in a couple years, which is when they start actively pursuing girls. Their same-sex experimentation is entirely physical with no romantic or relationship implications.
1 1
Replying to chillingindoors Mar 21, 2024
You are free to like / dislike a movie, but if you watched the film entirely, you'd realise that your impression…
Why would I watch a "film entirely" that has me squirming to drop it at 30 minutes? I have watched thousands of movies. If a film hasn't engaged me enough to hang around at half an hour, then it hasn't done its job as it should, and I'm out. All that matters to me is what I saw in the first part of the film that bored me to tears.

A great and powerful, redeeming character arc from a typically simpering Japanese female character who annoys the hell out of me in the first 30 minutes is something I'm OK with missing out on. Again, the film didn't do its job and, having seen that type a zillion times before, I'm out.

Yes, I know there are Japanese movies with strong female characters, but the type with the mannerisms I saw in this film is the dominant one. ugh It's not even about how strong the character may end up being in some way, it's that whispery, cringing, downcast, fake-Minnie-Mouse-voiced affect that makes me crazy, and it is definitely a Japanese thing. Google "KAWAII."

Any movie that forces me to drop it because of its awfulness in its first 30 minutes or so gets a 1/10 from me. It is absolutely a fair rating. Why would it be any higher? If MDL didn't think it was "fair" to rate a movie you drop, the rating stars would not become available when you click on "drop." You are free to rate this a 10/10 if you like.
0 4
Replying to Myles_L Mar 20, 2024
Title Unknown
They were talking about family, as in relation. I don't remember the exact word, but WQ sees ZY as little brother…
Your inability to perceive my "handicapped" remark as snark, explains your inability to understand the story being presented in this BL as well.
0 0
Replying to Tajia Mar 20, 2024
Title Unknown
I think the headache are caused by the fightings he had before,when he was on a bad path,I hope they don't do…
Just because a character says something does not mean it is true. I choose to interpret "gay for you only" in BL as the character being in denial, simply because such a thing is not possible. If the same character told his lover "last night while you were asleep, I flew to the moon and back on the gossamer wings of a golden-haired fairy," would you interpret that to mean such a trip actually took place? I know I wouldn't.

Furthermore, the "straight-to-gay" silliness in BL has been on its way out of the genre over the last couple of years. This show being in the upper tier of BL story-telling in so many other ways, I doubt the writers are going to try to convince us of that moronic trope as part of its arc.

But you believe what you need to believe.
0 1
Replying to Myles_L Mar 20, 2024
Title Unknown
They were talking about family, as in relation. I don't remember the exact word, but WQ sees ZY as little brother…
Where did I say we live in a "gay utopia?" Where did I even imply such a thing? I didn't.

You're inability to see that Qian is either aware and in denial about Yuan's feelings OR he's mentally handicapped, is not my issue to fix. See or don't see what you want.
0 2
Replying to Myles_L Mar 20, 2024
Title Unknown
They were talking about family, as in relation. I don't remember the exact word, but WQ sees ZY as little brother…
Work on your reading comprehension. Nowhere above did I say that was NOT what Qian is saying in the fishing scene. What I DID say is his assertion is a form of homophobia.

I'm not responsible for your inability to see what is right in front of you regarding the fact that Qian is aware but in denial about Yuan's feelings for him. If he isn't, he is incredibly stupid, and that's not the case so there you have it.
0 4
Replying to Tajia Mar 20, 2024
Title Unknown
I think the headache are caused by the fightings he had before,when he was on a bad path,I hope they don't do…
No, he does not "become" gay. No one "becomes" gay. They are either already gay and in the closet or in denial, or they're not. Do some research.
1 3
Replying to etoks21 Mar 20, 2024
yeah, uh huh...THAT will definitely happen. Many times, the home is already broken. That's why one of the spouses…
No, I have not said infidelity is "justifiable." That is your word.

Infidelity is often "understandable" however, given the circumstances and human nature. No one else needs to "justify" their infidelity to you. Or are you some kind of officially, appointed Cheating Judge in a Court of Adultery?
0 3
Replying to Tajia Mar 20, 2024
Title Unknown
I think the headache are caused by the fightings he had before,when he was on a bad path,I hope they don't do…
No one "becomes" gay. Either the potential is there or it isn't.
0 5
Replying to Tajia Mar 20, 2024
I love age gap stories too,as long as they are not problematic 😁
Age of sexual consent here is 16. There's nothing "problematic" going on unless you choose to pretend there is which, I guess you do.
1 1
Replying to etoks21 Mar 20, 2024
Does any story NEED to be told? Isn't it more a matter of someone WANTING to tell a story, and then doing so?Could…
blah blah blah...got it.
2 1
Replying to Ahinny Mar 20, 2024
OK SO NOW I KNOW THAT UNDER AGE IS UNDER 20 IN TAIWAN XD
Be gentle. You might cause some of the MDL prude-heads here to explode.
1 0
Replying to Tajia Mar 20, 2024
I love age gap stories too,as long as they are not problematic 😁
At what point does an "age-gap" become "problematic?" How do you define that term?
1 3
Replying to etoks21 Mar 20, 2024
yeah, uh huh...THAT will definitely happen. Many times, the home is already broken. That's why one of the spouses…
I'll just repeat myself: "The self-righteous judgmentalism on MDL continues to amaze."
0 5
Replying to Tajia Mar 19, 2024
Title Unknown
I think the headache are caused by the fightings he had before,when he was on a bad path,I hope they don't do…
Are you saying Qian will "become" gay?
0 7