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Replying to Solomakinde May 10, 2026
I love how each character’s struggle/flaw doesn’t magically disappear It’s like they’re walking through…
It's like...life! :)
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Replying to Mai May 10, 2026
Guys is this worth it? I’m 50/50 abt wanting to start it, it looks rlly rlly sad last thing I want rn is a sad…
It contains much sadness and angst, but which may lead to great joy, who knows?
If all you want is happy/joy, this isn't for you.
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Replying to Reem May 10, 2026
"You know,I can tolerate a guy sleeping around, but not acting superior." HJ’s intuition is kicking…
Nah...I think you're way ahead of the situation.

Married people get crushes on people outside their relationship all the time; it's human nature. What matters is what you do when that happens. Seems to me that leaning into the feeling of a crush, recognizing it for what it is, and going along for the ride without acting on it, is a great way to drain an infatuation of its power. The approach being, "just because I feel it, doesn't mean I have to have an affair over it."

GS can be an ass, but I feel like he has a good heart, not that people with good hearts don't have affairs, they do, but I look forward to seeing where that arc takes us. :)
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Replying to yvesaint May 10, 2026
IM SO NOT READY FOR THIS KDRAMA TO END.
I'm looking forward to my first binge watch after I watch all the eps as they are released, so in a way, the end will also be a beginning, which fits right into the themes of this show.
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Replying to Sheimoz May 10, 2026
IS IT GOOD should i start
If you enjoy shows that dive deep and stay there, exploring, that aren't afraid to present far-from-perfect protagonists, and in which no one is all good or all bad, this is for you.
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Replying to NguyenThaiKhang May 10, 2026
Another week where I like the new episode even more than the last one. I really can't stand Eunah's mother—she's…
I feel like Eun Ah put her mom in her place a couple episodes back. :)
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On We Are All Trying Here May 10, 2026
Episode 7:

This is unlike any drama-watching experience I've had, and there are too many things going on in my reactions to the show to explain why that is, in an obnoxiously long comment, let alone a brief paragraph, so I'll only try a little bit.

Over and over within each episode, I feel these multilayered emotional arcs occurring, and often it feels as though they conclude in a miniature climactic scene. Part of me must feel that the episode is ending, because over and over, I find myself checking how much time is left and being surprised that there is significant time remaining. I feel I'm seeing multiple episodes within each episode, and yet they all fit together as one.

It's quite strange...and wonderful.

I love how booze and boozing is being presented here as the important supporting character it really is in Korean life, for better and for worse. Drinking shows up in American films/series, of course, and professional characters are certainly shown scheming or celebrating or whatever over evening cocktails. Sometimes, there are drunken scenes, of course. But, Korean drinking, and not only that, but drunken carousing with fellow professionals, is at a whole other level. This drama owns that, leans into it, and isn't shy about it. A few characters have puked already. lol

Korea has the highest rate of alcoholism and alcohol abuse among all OECD nations. I absolutely love that this show is being so upfront about that, but, at the same time not making it into a separate issue of some kind. Shit-faced, almost nightly boozing is woven into the plot of WAATH, just as it is woven into Korean culture, in such a way that you can make something of that or you can leave it be.

I don't know...I find that refreshing.
Now, maybe it's this way in most K-dramas. I don't know, because I watch far more K-films than dramas. But I have watched a fair number, and I don't recall having this reaction to it.

The honesty about booze is another indicator of how much naked, emotional honesty is going on in the rest of the story.
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Replying to yvesaint May 10, 2026
“feel free to use me until i’m no longer needed. i’m a lifelong byeon euna admirer. if you tell me to come…
I know...I felt that too. Beautiful and quietly devotional.
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Replying to ibisfeather May 9, 2026
Yes, I thought that was great. However the Korean creative community is currently way ahead of the kdrama audience…
Just so I understand, do you mean that the creative community is way ahead of the Kdrama AND film communities, or are you distinguishing between the latter two?

I will check out Unwritten Seoul. Thanks for the tip. :)
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Replying to etoks21 May 9, 2026
Title Contrast
Their relationship is not the least bit creepy, that's what enrages the MDL Church Girl Morals Police crowd here.Tutor…
What line is it exactly, that you feel was crossed?
As far as I'm concerned, any crossing of arbitrary lines was 100% facilitated by the crime of being human and gay under extraordinarily stressful, punitive circumstances.
And, to me, that's no crime at all.

In most courts, the issue of harm will arise when assessing a trial case.
In this case, there was help, not harm; help that may have saved a life.

I love the Akira/Tutor relationship arc.
You described it far better than I have, mainly because I find myself focused on the emotional support/connection aspect rather than the legal.
Two lonely, sad people found each other and helped each other.
The world needs more such "crimes."
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Replying to etoks21 May 9, 2026
Yes, PJH was very good here, but the emotional core of the story was the village chief, played spectacularly by…
I get it! :)
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Replying to etoks21 May 9, 2026
Yes, PJH was very good here, but the emotional core of the story was the village chief, played spectacularly by…
Did you know that anyone can reply to anyone else's comment here?
There is no rule against that. It's true!

So...ARE you the president of the MDL PJH Fan Club?
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Replying to etoks21 May 9, 2026
Yes, PJH was very good here, but the emotional core of the story was the village chief, played spectacularly by…
Since here you are replying to me again, I suppose you, too, need to "go outside and interact with people," right?

Praise whoever you want, follow who you want. Yes, the reason you nominated PJH for an Oscar in your "lovely" comment is that you are biased and your bias affected your opinion, which is, as you said, yours.

To rave over an actor in a large supporting role while failing to so much as mention YHJ who carried the movie, is absurd.

"I can also tell you have not read my comment because I said YHJ is the one getting praise and is better known in Korea."
You are correct, I mistook your meaning in that regard, so my response was inaccurate. Sorry...I guess...?

I already have commented on YHJ's performance.
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Replying to cal May 9, 2026
Title 3670
where did you watch? I am trying to find it lol
I love illegal sites!
Without them, I wouldn't have been able to see 99.9% of the Asian content I've consumed over the last seven years.
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Replying to cal May 9, 2026
Title 3670
where did you watch? I am trying to find it lol
There are links in comments below. Let me know if you have trouble.
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On 3670 May 9, 2026
Title 3670
Thrilled and surprised to see this:

Cho Yoo-hyun Nominated as Best New Actor for his work in "3670," a fantastic gay film no one seems to know about. He is exceptional in the role.
He didn't win, but hell, he was up against Park Ji Hoon, so what were the chances? :D
Could this be a crack in the wall of homophobia surrounding the Korean film industry?
Hope so! :D

https://news.mydramalist.com/article/winners-nominees-of-the-62nd-baeksang-arts-awards
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Dojemi10 May 9, 2026
Thrilled and surprised to see this:
Cho Yoo-hyun Nominated as Best New Actor for his work in "3670," a fantastic gay film no one seems to know about. He is exceptional in the role.
Could this be a crack in the wall of homophobia surrounding the Korean film industry?
Hope so! :D

https://mydramalist.com/793244-3670
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt36733209/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_8_nm_0_in_0_q_3670

If anyone wants a link to watch "3670" online, message me, or reply to this comment.
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