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A proper enemies-to-lovers story doesn't need a pseudo-sibling subplot to feel fresh. A good enemies-to-lovers romance can stand on its own without relying on that dynamic.

Different dramas do have different flavors, and the writers seem to have become overly fond of this trope, which is why we've been seeing similar plotlines repeatedly, with more on the way.

It's also obvious that we have different views on moral boundaries. As I mentioned earlier, the fact that the leads aren't legally related or weren't raised together doesn't make the situation any less uncomfortable for me when their parents are romantically involved. This trope clearly has its fanbase, and I'm certainly not part of it.

Best trope for writing a forbidden relationship? Perhaps.
Without being morally wrong? Certainly not.

The parents' involvement already creates a family-adjacent dynamic. That makes the romance between the leads feel inappropriate, regardless of whether they're legally related. It blurs family boundaries in a way that I find uncomfortable.

If that's what makes it a tantalizing forbidden-romance trope for its fans, so be it. But it's not my cup of tea.

I'm tired of seeing the same pseudo-sibling trope used repeatedly. Not being adopted or blood-related doesn't automatically make the relationship any less weird when the parents of the main leads here are romantically involved. If the parents are dating, that effectively puts the leads in a potential step-sibling position. Having romantic feelings for each other while their parents are involved is weird and, frankly, borderline repulsive. It doesn't matter whether the parents eventually get married or not. There were a thousand other tropes the writers could have chosen, yet they went with the pseudo-sibling trope once again.

Me neither. I'm tired of seeing the same trope used repeatedly. Not being adopted or blood-related doesn't automatically make the relationship any less weird when the parents of the main leads are romantically involved. If the parents are dating, that effectively puts the leads in a potential step-sibling position. Having romantic feelings for each other while their parents are involved is weird and, frankly, borderline repulsive. It doesn't matter whether the parents eventually get married or not. There were a thousand other tropes the writers could have chosen, yet they went with the pseudo-sibling trope once again.

Ah, I see. Shu Wenbo can be a bit dense most of the time when it comes to romance. But I found that cute somehow here, haha. Not that I usually like that trait in characters. 🤭

Oh, I like You Are My Hero! Are you enjoying it so far?

Have you tried Forever Love (2020)? It's an older drama, but it's more lighthearted than this one. I loved the main leads' relationship and still rewatch it a couple of times a year.

Even though I watch dramas to escape the grim realities of life, the struggles and hardships of Wu and his family—and the way they keep figuring life out after every setback and slowly rebuilding from scratch—are really growing on me.

I usually prefer not to watch stories that deal with real-life predicaments because they tend to make my heart heavier instead of offering comfort. But somehow, this story has been warming my heart even while making me cry.

I've said this before, and I'm going to say it again: I wish this drama had 60 episodes. If we can happily spend 25 episodes watching their teenage years, then we could just as happily spend 25 more following them through college and their working lives. And then maybe end the story with marriage and a family of their own.

I want more of WuYe. What do you mean there are only five episodes left?! 😭

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I guess this has become one of the writers' recurring themes: forgive the wrongdoers and give them second chances regardless of whether they've actually earned them. WuYe did it with the Cao siblings, and now Ye's father is doing the same with the people who left her stranded when she needed them most. At this point, we've just got to get used to it.

"In one's life, there will always be someone who will encourage and support you when you need it. Her/His presence alone shines brighter than the light of others. Please write an essay on the topic of Dazzling".

Saw this translation on twitter.

Agree! The innocence and sweetness of their teenage era are very precious to me. As much as I want to see them flourish in adulthood, I'm enjoying every minute of their teenage days. The drama is so calm and relaxing overall that even if it's slow-paced, I don't mind it. I can keep watching without getting bored. This has never happened before, haha.

Their Zhazhating days look so precious, I feel their adult era is going to be even sweeter!! Our WuYe is sooo adorable, I just can't!! What am I going to do after this ends?! This drama has been such a source of comfort these days 🥹

I just saw a preview for the next episode where XW is crying and breaking down in front of QY because Yang burned down Xuan Island. So the cops lost him. Again! This is getting really tiresome now. Why do the villains always get so much leeway? 😪
The poor guy hasn't had a single peaceful day in Zhazhating. When is Wu finally going to get some good days without constant worries? It's high time he left the town. 😞

I understand your perspective and respect your viewpoint.

Holding grudges doesn't always mean seeking revenge. It can also mean not forgetting or forgiving the person who caused the harm.

Wu always struck me as a soft-hearted guy with a tough exterior, but I thought that side of him was reserved for the people he loved. That's why he never seemed to hold it against his mother, even when she was at fault. What I didn't realize was that he would extend that same grace to people who don't deserve it.

Back in Episode 5, when that neighbor tried to harass Ye, Wu took action immediately. Yes, the cop gave him a warning, but what was he supposed to do—sit back and wait for the police to arrive after the damage had already been done?

I do think he should've been much firmer in how he handled Ping and shouldn't have dropped the charges. By doing so, he was essentially letting Ping off the hook for the crimes he committed.

That said, I agree with the rest of your points.

Yeah, the loopholes in the writing are becoming really apparent now. Apart from the fact that the bad guys always seem to get away with their crimes and the police only arrive after everything is already over, I also feel like the writers have changed Wu's character a bit.

He suddenly seems more like a soft-hearted guy with a tough outer shell. Or maybe he's always been like that?

I mean, how does he have no grudge against someone who ruined his future? How did he just stand there and take all those hits from Ping until he started talking about messing with Ye? And how could he drop the charges after hearing that someone was going after the girl he likes?

Honestly, he should've shown both Ping and Yang what hell looks like before sending them to jail. This whole "forgive the criminals" trope just doesn't sit right with me.

Perhaps she's speaking from her own experience. 🫢 I can't help wondering whether she would've been so desperate to stop her brother from hurting Wu if QY hadn't given up her Winter Camp spot for her.

Given everything she did and all the damage they caused WuYe, Fan should've done this herself without QY's insistence. That's why I'm kinda bummed that QY ended up including her in their group in the end.

And then there's the fact that Wu didn't press any charges against him. He's being way too generous toward a criminal.

I wanted to see him beat the Yang gang's ass and watch them end up behind bars, but those guys were nowhere to be found. 😑

"Two years in a cell, while my sister got bullied... you can never make up for that."

Had to pause the scene and comment here because what kind of sick-ass mentality is this?!
Whose fault is it that you ended up in jail? And whose sister got bullied? Is that person in the room with us?
Oh, he's sick beyond repair. How do I e-slap someone?!

That makes the two of us. 🫠 Part of me wants to watch today's episode, but I can't bear to see him get hurt. 🥲