kalarro

Are you asking? I thought you watched it.

Her first kiss is with ML. She is in no real relationship with any other guy.
With a guy from her class she thinks she may like him and starts going on a few dates with him. But then it suddenly ends, without anything really happening. They make it feel that she didnt really like him, she was just trying.
And with the otehr guys, its not even dating, she likes one, but he is a senior and he is a good guy and doesnt like her back. He also appears very little. And there are 2 other guys that aproach her while she is already dating ML. They just harrass her in a few scenes and that's it

yup, this is a pretty common trope in asian dramas. almost every time that there is a problem in the relationship, it's always MLs fault. and he has to apologize BIG time. the few cases were it was FLs fault, it's always no problem, fixed with no apology at all.

also, you made a good point. ML is strong Infront of every other woman, but weak Infront of FL. but FL is weak Infront if every other guy, and strong Infront of ML

I still don't think it was terrible. there are shows where this things are.more annoying. here it was all made with quite a comic tone. I thing the show is not great, but still goos

yup. Encounter is so good that I rated it high despite the annoying breakup. but without it it would be SO good

i read those comments about him turning into the typical cold CEO and I disagree. well, I think it just happens in one episode, I think it's ep19. but that episode is terrible in more ways than that. he turns completely pushy, even toxic, but FL also behaves terrible in that episode. she clearly wanted to go back with him, and they almost did... and suddenly in this episode it looks like that wasn't so and she just seems annoyed when she sees him and... it all just doesn't make sense. it seems they wanted a dramatic episode.befoee the get together because both ML and FL didn't behave in that episode like they did before and after

also, thank you for your recommendations, and for your calm responses when I'm raging a bit. I Dona lot of research before starting a show and when after that I still find many... "dramatic" scenes, I'm quite sad about it.

I have watched hidden love and loved it. don't know the other you mentioned. I dropped who rules the world because I couldn't stand so much politics

everyone except the ones recommending the story when I said I don't like melodrama.

"watch how ML looks at FL". yeah, ML, that is one of the problems. I know he will be loving towards her most of the show. the problem is her. she will like another guy, and another, and then try to use ML, then the show will be beautiful for a while and then she will break up with him.

I have it on hold right now, and if I feel strong to endure all that bullshit, I will try. I know it's good. I loved how clever FL is the the 10 episodes I've watched. but I dislike scenes that make you feel bad, and it seems to have too many

Well, but I dont want things to make sense. I want a beautiful story. And FL likeing 2 other men then dating ML for several episodes without really likeing him, and worst of all, a friking 5 year breakup with only a last episode happy ending, and to top it all, with the typical trope of all being MLs fault like aaaalways, and FL needing to forgive ML like aaaaalways....

I dont find that beatiful, no matter if it makes sense in the story

but I'm not talking about her thinking he is a good match or not. it's about education. her daughter is being absolutely polite while she is being a jerk, and it's her who lashes out mad about how her daughter is talking to her.it has to do with culture. in Asia it seems disagreeing with your elders is very bad. even if they are wrong. seems you have to shut up and obey, just because they are elders.

you can give spoilers, but I already read a recap. it sounds terrible to me. if I want intriguing endings,I watch mystery or thrillers. if I watch a romance, I want satisfying scenes. a breakup in episode 50, a frikin 5 year separation, and a get back together in episode 55 of 56 sounds absolutely terrible.

I can endure problems between them in the first half of a show. but if there is 5 frikin episodes left, you better let me finally enjoy them together, not break them apart until the very end

She loves all 3?? OMG I am reading comment after comment telling me how terrible this show is

And what episode is this? Give me some good news because all I read about the show is terrible.

Really, well Im about to drop it after reading comments telling me that:

1. She will be several episodes with another guy
2. She only starts likeing him in episode 27 even after being together since 22. Great another show where ML has all the weight of the "loving" on his shoulders.
3. Theres a friking 5 year breakup close to the end

Oh yeah, reaaaaaal sweet show...

OMG, I started this show after many recommendations saying it was a sweet show, and Im so regreting it. Sio let me get this straight, I have to endure her beeing with another guy for several episodes, theres a friking 5 year breakup close to the end, and they just get together near thje end, and now I also read she doesnt even start likeing him until episode 27, even if they get together in 22.

Sweet show my ass

Ok, I started watching this drama after many recommendations saying how frikin sweet it is, even knowing she will be engaged to somebody else for many episodes. I though, ok, lets endure that part and enjoy the rest. And now I read a frikin comment saying they frikin break up for 5!!! YEARS. And they get together again close to the end????
WTF is this? I though it was a sweet show, not the typical last minute happy ending asian drama.

I still didnt reach the part where she is with another guy, and I was already dreading that part but ready to endure it.... But knowing that other crap will happen near the end... I think Ill drop it. Thanks for making me waste 10 episodes with all the recommendations saying it was a sweet show....

OMG, after reading this bullshit I think Ill drop the show

Omg, Im already disgusted knowing FL will be engaged to somebody else and now I read theres even more? Terrible- Stupid chinese love triangles

Yes please, tell us. It hasnt even started in my watch, and Im already dreading that part.
Why do that crap even.

No, still doesnt make sense. I just watched her beeing the judge of a quarrel between the other girls maidens and FLs maidens and not only was she completly wrong and biased against her daugheter, but we also see she kind of realizes she is playing favourites with the other girl.... and the inmediate next scene, they are at a festival and she goes, grabs the other girl and tells her she is going to show her around the festival since she has never seen it, and leaves her daughter behind, who also never has seen it.

Her character is not trying to fix anything, they just made her character evil to her daughter on purpose

Reunite? So it has a breakup?

it can be both. for example, the love triangles in this show aren't supposed to be angsty, they are done in a comical way. and I still find them irritating. FL has like 3 other guys courting her along the show. it's very irritating. but I still understand it was done in a comical way, didn't create angst.same with those jokes. you may find them irritating, but that doesn't mean they are making FL dumb, it's a comical thing that happens.