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Dec 31, 2022

Technically that was rape

Porsche being drugged means that was rape. Even though the drugs weren't given to him by Kinn, even though it wasn't violent and Porsche kissed back, it's still rape. I reflexively want to apologize. I also want to keep watch, but how can I reconcile that with knowing that was rape. I don't want people - men and women and any gender - watching this and thinking that was ok - ok to happen in their lives, in a relationship. I know they were using it as a plot point to get them together, I know it was unlikely this would have happened so early in the plot had Porshe not been DRUGGED (admittedly be someone else, but it's still rape), but it's a story. **They could have done it after he sobered up. Kinn took care of him and showed him genuine courtesy, care, gentleness, and respect. That would have been a perfect reason/way for them to sleep together consensually. Am I a hypocrite for wanting to keep watching?If you still disagree with me after that (subjectively) beautiful alternative to this scene that still gets us to the same place, please watch this video first before commenting https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ (it's great. You should watch it either way)

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Aug 10, 2023

I love this show but I have to comment on that race

As a runner I have to do my due diligence and point out a couple things that would’ve disqualified Su Yu if this had been an actual race. Mostly because of Wu Bi. As always. First he stepped out of bounds to try and pass those three blocking him. Understandable. But still clearly out of bounds and clearly disqualification material. Second Wu Bi running next to him is called pacing. This is illegal in any sort of run because it gives the runner a huge advantage. Just believe me. (Watch the BL Mr. Heart if you don’t believe me). Finally, Wu Bi literally gets on the track! No Wu Bi! And then runs through the finish line BEFORE Su Yu, which means Su Yu doesn’t get an accurate time and wouldn’t have actually broken the record. Ok. I’m done. This is one of my favorite shows THIS YEAR. Maybe in a couple years. So I’m saying this out of LOVE.

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Jun 4, 2023

This depiction of Fatherhood is Beautiful. Needs to be everywhere. +Comfortable Relationship

1. I love the Main couple's dynamic right now. It's COMFORTABLE. You can see their minds are on the same level, more than just intellectually. I don't feel like I've ever seen anything like it before on TV. But that probably has in part to do with the skill of the actress/ors. 2. this is the most incredible depiction of fatherhood. Well, it's incredible that they've depicted it like that. We need to see this in ALL television. ALL media!!! FOREVER!! It's sad that I even need to say this but it makes it so much cooler that we have this (and from china). This is how a manly man is. He loves his child. He plays with his child. He will do anything for his child. PS: I feel lik this was once webtoons. It reminds me a lot of the Remarriage Contract but with a stronger female lead... just better. That webtoons is getting toxic.

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Apr 25, 2023

Wince, colonial saviorism much?

The way the portrayed everything in “Africa” was SO bad. Imagine if you were anyone of color watching that... It makes me feel extreme shame for everyone Involved. Ick, it’s like when they had slaves dance around and look marry whenever they wanted to put them up for sale on the auction block. Those are people g-dammit, not the worshiping minions you portrayed them to be! Dancing around a well. They’d likely say that I you and shake hands like other human beings. Wow. Just wow.
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Apr 3, 2023

Absolutely. 100%. Yes. This

They had TESTING for STDs on LIVE TELEVISION (or well, international television)! It was beautiful. It was sexy. It is what every person on this planet who's having sex should see. NO SHAME. Ugh, how could they make getting tested so SEXY. Just having it mentioned would have been a huge leap for humankind. But they made it a key plot point for the episode and it ADDED to the TENSION. To the SExUAL Tesions. And I'M ASEXUAL, and I felt the beautiful, invigorating, sexual waves just coming off the scene UGH! This is sp fantastic. I can't even!
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Dec 11, 2022

I don't know how the actors withstood it

That was the most embarrassing storyline. It felt like it was written by a 12 year old kid. So it really is a testament to these actors that not only they didn't die of embarrassment on the spot, but they were able to act convincingly, especially Tu, but no surprise there. Everything else was so cringy I feel so bad for the actors.
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Dec 4, 2022

Beautiful: consent

Fu Li Gong asked Zheng Ze Shou to wait for him and Zheng Ze Shou smiled and stopped. It was beautiful. Not just this depiction of consent freely given and happily respected, but that they choose to show that!!! And instead of a sex scene. I’m the non. It was hotter than a sex scène. I’m so happy. This needs to be on TV so the time. Thank you thank you thank you. Consent means so much to me. Especially in bl.
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Dec 3, 2022

Kim Seong Hyuk wins the MILLENNIUM

Absolutely blown away by Seong Hyuk’s acting. And the story line is SOOO D*MN good. But in this episode, the storyline was good BECAUSE of Seong Hyuk’s acting.
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Go Ahead Episode 5
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Jun 1, 2022

Most beautiful scene in all of Chinese dramas

That really sums it up. This episode had the most beautiful scene out of all Chinese dramas. The moment when the father starts to speak about how it breaks his heart that his sons are not his by blood, my heart starts to break. And when he goes on to his feelings when he sees their blood relatives hit or retraumatize his sons, my tears start to fall. And when he reveals all the sadness his sons tried to hide from him - he sees it all, he truly sees them, I'm bawling. It was the scene I was waiting for all season, and it couldn't have been better. (though I wish men could express these things without needing to be under the influence of alcohol or extreme duress).

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Mar 29, 2024

Ace and Bi representation in the house!!!

"Before meeting Takumi I didn't know that there were people who didn't distinguish between men and women."Bisexual representation in the house!!! Yamashita: "I've never been interested in Love and dating. I've never liked someone or been on a date. Nor do I want to. I'm the happiest when I'm dancingAsexual representation in the house!!! I love this
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Mar 29, 2024

Awe, they introduced a cute gay couple!

And Asuka said what everyone was thinking. That they shouldn't be trying to make them into Chayne (the other group).
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Mar 21, 2024

Well that was sexual assault

Stop. Not a hard word to understand.Actually, it's 100% comprehensible. Nothing wishy-washy there. He said stop and no, multiple times=Sexual assaultand not the, oops I touched your butt, kind of sexual assault. I'm so tired of this. Can't authors think of any other ways of getting the same results without assault? I can think of several storylines, and somehow they end up even hotter with consent. Imagine that.
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Mar 10, 2024

best women supporting women episode ever!

Haragushi is the best character in the entire show and we need someone like her in all our lives. She is bad ass, she tells it to you straight. She knows what's going on in the world around her and knows the best most compassionate way to get it done. AND SHE'S BISEXUAL. Bisexual characters represent! I love how she is supporting hijiri and rubbing it in kawai's face. SHe's a great juxtaposition to his actions. She is accepting of Hijiri the whole time, nay, she pushes Nijiri to accept herself and her feelings and is there to comfort her even though she's technically her rival in love (but skrew Kawai and his self-centeredness, close-mindedness, and pride). She calls it before anyone else (besides poor runa). She even supports Kuroiwa. And Kawai. She supports everyone, and I"m sure that people looking at her from the outside see, or think they see a cold _____.So bad-ass, and also the most stylish. That outfit she shows up at Nijiri's house in! And those half corsets? Anyway, I love her. She's the best. She's so accepting and supportive, but in her own way, not sacrificing any of her values or self-worth

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Dec 31, 2023

Homophobic

Typical making the gay person the villain. It even seems like they're implying that he should amount to anything either because he's gay. "of course it's miserable to think my ex-boyfriend was gay. But he's still a celebrity chef, while I'm still a nobody like this."I'm leary about continuing this.
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Nov 12, 2023

"He doesn't want to force me. He simply likes me too much" NOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Mu Ren: "He's using your weaknesses to force you"Older brother: "He doesn't want to force me. He simply likes me too much""He simply likes me too much" is NEVER an excuse for rape. It's never an excuse for sexual assault, it's not an excuse for getting someone drunk you love to have sex with them.It's not an excuse for manipulating them into seeing you. Threatening Suicide. This is TEXTBOOK TOXIC RELATIONSHIP. I really have to say it again because I want to cry. LIKING SOMEONE "TOO MUCH" IS NEVER AN EXCUSE FOR ABUSE OF ANY KIND. NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVERNEVER NEVER NEVERNEVER NEVER NEVER

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