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This has gone way beyond gender my dear. This is about an actor who is a human being first - who is facing defamation of character -whether male or female , everyone has the right to prove their innocence before they are proven guilty and right now there is not one ounce of evidence confirming KSH's guilt. Accusations of bullying have been made against Go Min Si -so if I were a male man defending her and asking that she be allowed to prove her innocence-then is it because, I , a male bodied man (in this scenario) am in love with her? Does this sound right to you?

No- what happened to KSR is horrible and heartbreaking but using her death to blame someone she dated over 5 years ago with no confirmed evidence has nothing to do with me being a woman and everything to do with assessing what is true and what is false. Currently what is false right now is that KSH did not groom or have a relationship with KSR when she was a minor.

So a person defending themselves over a SERIOUS allegation of grooming is already 'guilty' because in your words he 'attempted to clear himself of the allegations of dating her as a minor'? Is that not what you are supposed to do when being accused? So he should of just accept and allow people say anything because he is clearly guilty already right?

So him explaining the reasons for spending time at her house which was not even between the 2 of them initially but with family members present is proof of him grooming her? The letters sent to her which speak on his daily routine with no ounce of romantic gestures is proof of him also grooming her? And later them deciding to date each other when she was not a minor but a fully consenting adult conscious of her decisions is him definitely grooming her. In what way exactly?

Do you know the definition of a groomer? A groomer is a person that exploits and builds a relationship with a vulnerable person with the purpose of isolating the victim and ensuring that the abuse is undetected. Yet KSR was constantly around her manager, her family members and her friends while KSH was busy with his filming activities and multiple advertisement shoots. So where was the time for him to isolate and groom her? He probably called her and sent her texts right? I'm assuming that is what you want to say but where is the evidence of that? For such a huge accusation ? Why is there no undisputed evidence besides the debunked nonsense confirmed by her family?

Lastly in what way was he in a position of power at GM other than just being a founding member and an actor at the same agency as KSR? I'm sure him not responding to her when she tried to contact him was also a form of power instead of her speaking directly with GM as is required ? That was definitely him exerting his power over her when she should have followed the proper procedures as mentioned by GM right?

Wow...... I guess Nam Joo Hyuk is really a lucky guy. He gets the benefit of being deemed innocent before proven guilty- Something that every human being deserves.

Look at you resorting to insulting my womanhood because I disagree with you... At least I can sleep peacefully at night knowing that I haven't falsely accused someone of what they are not-which has absolutely nothing to do with being a woman but everything to do with being a considerate and objective human being. I can't say the same for you though but let me not bore you with my long speeches since reading is quite a challenge for you .I don't care if you read this or not . It comes back to my main point of your reading comprehension skills .... If you read more -you'd be able to understand the world more but I guess that's too hard for you.....

So its defamation for Nam Joo Hyuk but a confirmed guilty verdict when it relates to KSH. KSH is definitely guilty because there's no way that KSR's family would lie about KSH grooming KSR. The double-standards is so loud-its actually deafening....my gosh.

So the difference between 'I love you' which is mentioned in multiple letters to his then girlfriend and him just talking about his day in the letter to KSR is a loss in translation? How does that make sense?

Aah so handsomeness is the only excuse you can come up with... Really? So the debunked pictures confirmed to be taken from 2019 till 2020 is the proof of KSH's handsomeness.... And the confirmed fake AI manipulated recording is also attributed to KSH's good-looks. What about the denied testimonies that were retracted from the family who claimed they would bring KSR's friends to testify against KSH? As well as the cellphones and laptops proving KSH's grooming that has apparently been 'stolen' -That was also due to his handsomeness right?

Do you actually read for comprehension or read to echo rumors like a broken telephone? We are way passed the accusations my dear... He is not a pedophile and what you are saying is defamatory to the actor's career and said reputation.

At least update yourself with the latest turn of events before coming here to spew nonsense. And while we are at it since he is a pedophile like you claim -please state the confirmed proved evidence of your statement.... Until you state that- all you have said is just nonsense gibberish with no substance as you have nothing to back your claims. I am patiently awaiting your response...

Absolutely, one can equally sympathize with KSR's family but we should still call them out on their nonsense. They have made such an irreparable damage on KSRs reputation.

One thing about Garosero and KSR's family is they have never brought any evidence before the court or to the police except for the fake AI-manipulated recording.... The constant changes in their story of how this alleged 'abuse' occurred is, all I need in knowing that they are lying. One big fat lie that did not turn out their way. I am so glad KSH stood his ground. It takes a lot of courage especially in Korea and in his industry to stand-up for himself. I honestly wish him the best and just wish for the deceased to now finally rest in peace.... This situation is honestly so sad.

I absolutely love and agree to this 🙌🏽

I absolutely understand that he shouldn't call her that and im not excusing it but i honestly think that him calling her that is a mechanism tool to hold himself back (cause my guy is crazy in love)....even though calling her ugly is wrong... But you can literally see hearts shooting out of his eyes....🤣🤣

Absolutely love your comments. I too in my naivity days liked the same guy as my friend and gal.... we spoke about it. None of us ended up with him though 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but we moved on.....

Im team Yeong Rye and Jung Hyun🥰🥰🥰 and team Jong Hui and Yeong Suk ( they suit each other more)...... Sorry to the ml🤣🤣🤣

Well said. God forbid anyone of us ever have to experience the type of pain there is in losing a child. I honestly and genuinely sympathize with her family as nothing can ever take that type of pain away.

However we also have to look at this thing rationally -as a person's career , reputation and morality is at stake here and is being judged by the public. Imagine that your said child has been 'abused' all this time since the alleged age of 12 years old and you as a parent have done nothing all this time but only when said child has passed on. Ok-lets say that you never knew about what was going on this entire time ? But no one knew? No manager? No guardian outside of the parents with a sense of responsibility knew? KSH was that powerful to shut people up about this issue?

I am not a psychologist but even I know that where there is abuse. There are signs -cries of help....Yet no none noticed the signs since the victims age of 12 ? Ok then-that can happen. One can't always know everything and true victims are threatened into silence where they can't tell anyone what is going on. That definitely happens.

Now you find out about this type of abuse and as a parent decide to accuse the alleged person of the abuse but you use a known cyber-wrecker youtuber instead of going to the police and the court to present this accusation.... you don't even have the evidence to back up your claim....against a VERY SERIOUS allegation of pedophilia.

I guess that too can happen...Who am I to know how I would react as a parent? I am in no position to speak on their behalf but the rational person in me cannot take out the inconsistencies I am seeing in this whole thing. I'm sorry this is such a sad situation for everyone because a parent has lost a child -no matter how sad this situation is. Something is not adding up....

I also wanna apologize if I sound insensitive to this situation. KSR was one of my favorite actresses. I absolutely loved watching her in her craft and I can't even imagine the pain she might have been going through while she was striving to achieve her dream. It is honestly not my intention at all but something does not up and I want to know the truth for both parties involved. There are just too many gaps in this story.

I really like this drama as well as all the leads so will definitely continue watching this 🙌🏽

I think I'm getting the reason why death is used so often in Kdramas. It is the actual killer/villain that no can stop besides the writer-nim 's will. It so tragic and breaks the soul of the characters as well as us the viewers who are witnessing the events unfolding. Is using the theme of 'death' becoming a lazy way out for writers nowadays? For me-if not used appropriately -yes I believe so, but for this drama- I see it woven into the story in a way that makes sense. Though-its so unfair for the ml. I really hope that he gets his happy ending.

Another thing I noticed about this drama is the writing, formatting and dialogues are so mature and makes so much sense. Every action to reaction is so relatable. I love the openness and honesty of the characters especially the part where the ml mentions how he does not know how to lie. That was just a refreshing thing to see in kdrama-land. He literally did not suffer in silence..... which is the usual route that writers love to take but he was bold and honest even though he was struggling to accept his reality....... Gosh I really like this drama. 8.5/10 so far from me

I get what you mean😂. He's such a gem as an actor. I also want more people to recognize how good he is but I don't want everyone to know him😂

I absolutely agree. The scene between father and son was so raw and sad. Like I feel so sorry for Hae. Life really is not fair to him.......🥲

I agree with you with the way things are looking. Its not gonna be easy to add this to the lineup especially with regards to the controversy but its not impossible for the drama to well considering the amount of attention it currently has. Besides KSH, I honestly just want the hard work of all the actors and staff to not be in vain.It's honestly so unfair for them.

Secret garden is an absolute gem! Got me into Kdramas😅

You are absolutely right - he /she is probably a nobody in real life but the record needs to be set straight. People like that thrive on mockery and hate, spewing a false narrative.