marelio

@WangXian
i cant answer you in the thread because the person who is to lazy to read my comment blocked me, so i answer here. Your definition doesnt match the legal situation in Japan. Do you realy think they allow pedophil acitons? You and others ignore the fact, that Akira has rights to give consent to those things. Thats why the legal situaion is so balanced, on the one hand Protection for minors not getting manipultated or threatend but on the other hand giving minors a chance to explore their sexuality also with older, you can think that this wrong, but i just dont understand, when a Minor has a right to have relstionship with an adult? Never? Imagine a 17 Year with a 19 Year old? Pedophllia, cause on is minor and one is adult? You avoid all this question and avoid of just accepting what the series shows us. No normal thinking man or woman can say, he is manipulated on what we see in the series. And sorry if somenone gives an answer to you, that he refuse to read the comment but judging you would react in a same way,

How does the ex-crush react, when he finds out in the manga?

He is now about 23, when akira was 15 he was about 20. I understand that you avoid reading arguments, cause you know you have not one. you must rewrite the script for you accusations. Im not defending pedos, i defend Akira, for you just an objekt you can abuse for your stupid mind :D

i dont think they show us a illegal action, so in Japan the legal age gap between an 13-15 year old adolescent to his adult partner is less then 5 years,. So i think kanada is less then 5 years older. And for the rest, i desagree, the shows normalize nothing, if you think, the japanese laws are wrong, thats one thing. But as all the Accuser here, you dont accept that Akira has rights.

Its not grooming, thats nonsense In fact you lack to descripe a grooming thing, cause in your way every sexuel contact would be grooming. He has teached him without thinking of getting a possiblity for sex with him. It was just two gays who talked about their experiencees without ulterior motives and it was Akira who asked for it without beeing manipuleted. Its alway easy to say, hey there are better ways but life isnt just simple. And the point of Akira thinking he is not pure seems to me a question of having sex without feelings not the fact, that his sex partner is not his age. He would feel the same, when Kanda is just one year older than him. You abuse here Akira for your moral standards, but it dont work. You Rewrite the screenplay cause non grooming manipultating has happened. That means not, that im happy with the situation, but your and others just thinking in Black and White and not seeing the complet session is sad. And you i dislike the way you and others dehumanize Akira just to a prey and victim, He is a human beeing with rights.

ep. 2 was boring and hard to watch. No progression no real story. In fact i think Itt knows that Rit was lying but is interested in him and so all was teasing

Wir müssen uns auch nciht einig werden, sämtliche Altersgrenzen sind letztlich willkürlich von Menschen gezogen. Deswegen stört mich aber dei Absolutheit mit der hier viele diskutieren, als wäre das in sTein gemeißelte Wahrheit. Auch ich kann falschl liegen, aber meine Begründung für meine Meinung wird ja einfach ohne Argument einfach vom Tisch gewischt. Und viele finden es halt schade da wird ein Junge gezeigt, der durch Ablehnung und Mobbing seine Lebensfreud verliert und das rückt völlig in den Hintergrund. NIcht sein Schicklas wird diskutiert, sondern nur die Frage, ob sein Sexpartner nciht zu alt war.

Du schreibst oben, dass er ins Gefängnis gehen soll, wofür denn, wenn nicht für ein Verbrechen? Und so ziehen sich deine Ausreden durch. Du denkst an Akrias Gesundheit aber kommst nur als Besserwisser um die Ecke.. Behaupten kann man viel.

Dieser Fall ist doch genau der Grund warum in Deutschland die Sexualstraftaten so geregelt sind. Akira hat eben auch Rechte.

Und ich kämpfe für Akira und nicht für Kanda, aber das begreifst du nicht, weil dich der Gedanke so triggerd, ass Kanda mit Akira geschlafen hat, dass du alles andere verdrängst. Sei mir nicht böse, aber so wie viele homophobe selbst homosexuellle Neigungen haben, sind unter den Beschhützern der armen Kinder eben auch leute die genauso empfinden. Und dann dreht sich dein geschickter Vorwurf, deine Unfähigkeit sachlich zu argumentenieren, so Dinge ich ich habe nie gesagt er hat ein Verbrechen begangen während ein Post vorher steht, er gehört dafür ins Gefängnis. Dein Desinteresse Akira eigene Rechte zuzugestehen, nähren ehrlichwerie diesen Verdacht. Denn diese Grenzen sind alle willkürlich gezogen und daher immer diskutabel. Aber du hast ja schon meine Eräuterung zur Situation in Deutschland mit den Gründen als Essay abgetan.

Und natürlich kann so jemand eben nicht differenzieren,dass es um Akira geht und nicht um Kanada,

Nun, da du aus Deutschland bist, antworte ich auf Deutsch. Ich habe keinen Essay verfasst, sondern die deutsche Rechtslage erläutert und die Gründe hierfür aufgeführt. Diese kannst du offenbar nicht entkräften, also haust du einen raus. du solltest du nicht soviel an Sex mit Minderjährigen denken, sondern dir lieber ernsthafte GEdanken machen, waurm du hier auch Kanda falsch beschuldigst. Ein Freund eines Bruder der prifat Nachhilfe gibt ist keine Autorität, wede gesetzlich noch moralisch. Und auch an dich die dringennde bitte, denkt doch mal an Akira anstatt Kanda zu hassen. Wie würde isch Akikra fühlen, wenn Kanda ins Gefängnis muss, wieviel möchtest du dieser verletzten Seele noch zumuten nur um deinen Hass zu befriedigen.

My point is, that people should be more worried about akirass mental health then his sex life. Its not ok to judge moraly just because you have no argument to forbid it.

There is your problem, you jaust now kids or adults. Like the holy Ghost went on 18th birthday in kid and transforms him to an adult. And thats why a Consent of an 14 year old (but i think Akiras was 15 to 16) can count. No Manipulation no grooming, just consent that should count. I think you are to obsessed wiht thinking of minor sex, so oyu forgot humnaity. Akira has rights, he is not an object. Yuo should think less on sex with akira,then his mental health.

Why should i accept your opinion, its not a fact. And a good justification is still lacking.It it is consentual, its not your concern it they dont break the law. You should question yourself why your are so obsessed of thinking of Sex that you dehumnize Akira to an object with no free wlll.

in many countries a consent of minor can count. You can dislike it, but you should have arguments.

The age of consent in Germany is 14, as this is the age at which the legal capacity for sexual self-determination begins. It aims to protect the development of young people without prohibiting curiosity and hormones through overly strict laws. Furthermore, it seeks to prevent excessively harsh criminal consequences in cases of small age differences.
Here are the key reasons in detail:
Sexual maturity: According to Sections 175 et seq. of the German Criminal Code (StGB), at age 14, young people are considered mature enough to consent to sexual acts.

Historical development: The age of consent was set at 14 in 1973/1974 to create a uniform regulation following the reform of Section 175 of the German Criminal Code (criminality of homosexuality).

Protection from exploitation: Although consent is possible from the age of 14, the law protects young people under 18 from exploitative situations (such as dependency on teachers or coaches) by keeping these situations criminalized. Real-life reality: Studies show that a large proportion of young people have their first sexual experiences before the age of 16, which is reflected in legislation.

In summary, the age of 14 represents a compromise between protecting minors and acknowledging the onset of sexual maturity.

no in the uncut version its the same

yes i do, thats seems to be the difference between ua. He is a friend of his brother who tutors him, he is not a teacher or Trainer or else. And again, just using words without saying, wht exactly is the matter. He has not manipulate him or used force or something else, If you think otherwise then name the things he have don.

Another interesting thing is, we now they have sex, but fucking? If im not overseeing it, there is no hint, what Sex they really done, Its not so important, but it shows how much you and theres are triggered and leave the concret situation which is told.

You dont understand, that no one is cheering Kanda fro his doiing, yes perhabps it would be better not doing so. but it is right to overeact like you do now? And it is not even clear if Kanda breaks a law, unfortunaletly the plot is hier not clear.

And you confrim my statement you can see just black and white, akiras suffer is no concern for you, thats his own bad fortune, who cares. But many people have experinced simular like Akira and these are disappointed in your only concern about sex and not mental health.

For me that i think wouldnt happend, when i was i middle school, i was not attracted by oder men, But in fact would like to had a buddy like Kanda in this time just to find myself, but ok just without sex

As expected no answer to my question what acitions of kanda you see as grooming or gaslighting. Just more insults cause you lack arguments. Have a nice day

i hope not, that would be to much clichee, in realtity young gays get more rejectet by straight frineds, who fnish the friendship, ghosting them or here bullying them. So it would become a thing between gays, but i like the story because there are many gay teens who are not accepted by their straight friends

you use words like gasligting without understandig. And you insults shows juist that your are not the smartest person. yYou're just making claims without any concrete content,. Indeed thats time wasting

Thank you vor thinking my existence is a tragedy, does it need more to prove , that you are poor women wiht low moral standard= i feel pity for you. Another woman who has no compassion cause she dont understanes what Akira fells- You dont understand, why me and otheres see the suffer of Akira and are disgusted by your
superficial observation

whree is the grooming or gaslithing, please become concret which aciion you mean

No one says hurray to this relationship, but you are more interested in being triggered from sex than see his soul. I really feel sorry for you

Ok then explain what actions or Words of the tutor was manipulation, grooming or gaslighting? Thinking that the problems of Akia are caused by Kanda shows, yoru are so clueless about life,