agree about the tutor, but Arika is a red flag. 🤷♀️ the fact he is a victim isn't disputed, but he isn't…
How hypocritical, the moment you cant abuse him as victim for your Lectoring you begin to blame him. You have no compassion for a gay kid, who suffers. Your only thing ist blaming others to satisfy yourslelf, Disgusting
There are full essays here in the comments about the Kanda and Akira discourse . To keep it short he could have…
I agree, but now they had done it with sex. So what. Its perhaps not a good thing, but i dislike viewing all things in black and white and not recognising the gray tones. He was not groomed, if you think it was grooming, then how? Kanda meets him without any sexual interest. you and otheres just declares its grooming gaslighting but cant expalin what Kanda hast done for this judgement.
For me you dont understand, that Akira suffers and had no way out. He is hurt and have no one to talk about cause the fear of being rejecetet again. thats why he dont talk to his parents or older brother.
Im on your side, perhaps it would be better without the sex, but it seems both of them need the sex just to reliev.
and i just wish, that the people recongnize what happens with akira because of his bad friend from middle school, cause that is, what many young gay teens experience. Some Teens commit suicide of the situation.
Why tf are they trying to normalise a grown ass man being sexually intimate with a high schooler? Anyone who is…
Look at yourself, the tragedy is here not the relationship with the tutor but the Jerk from middle school who hurt Akira so deep, that he lost jis joy of life. there are many young gays who commit suicide in such situationl. The world is not black or white, you should just be more intested in suffer of Akira. Thats the problem of all the people, they just want to see, what happens and judging just about the age gap, The rest like gsalighting or grooming happens only in your fantasy
i dont think it is inmoral, you and other are just judging from the age gap. Not one second you think on Akira,…
IN germany it would be legal. Cause you say it was Manipulation, but this your fantasy, Rewatch the seenes and explain, what you see as manipulation. He is not a teacher or offiicial. authority. Dont put so much in the fact that he tutors him.
Other Thing, you say 7 years,, but i found ne clear hint, how big the age gap is.
Last thing, stop dehumanizing Akira just for you View of morality. He is young gay who has been brutal hurt by his best friend, but your only concern is having sex with an older.
There are studies, that homosexuality is one of the most reasons for suicide for teens. And thats why idiots like the middle school friends hurt so much, rejection of famliy hurt so much, but you are only interesting in scolding him for finding help.
You should focus more on your own weakness then lecture others
"There was no grooming, no gifts or money exchanged for favors, it was consensual."Since when did grooming…
its not a question of blamimg, you and i havent studied japanese las so its not clear, if a private Tutor is a autority . But you dont get one thing. Do you really think Akira is hurt by Kanda? His really hurt was his friend in cram school, just rewatch the scene and see the pain this "friend" caused. I just see, that you obsessed in condemnig the sex, but have not interest in Akira himself. I never said you are blaming him, you just have no tinerest of his feelings. Its more important for ypu to use him for your complaining. But what has really hurt him, that he couldnt study anymore and lost his joy of life is not concern for you.
Again, i would wish Akira has found someone else to open his mind after that painful experience. but you cant imagine that he couldnt find someone. After that he has to much fear because he was afreid to being rejeceted again so thats why he couldnt talk to his parents or his brotheres.
And this heartbrocking situation doesnt bother the peopl,e cause they can blame the tutor, thats just sad.
"There was no grooming, no gifts or money exchanged for favors, it was consensual."Since when did grooming…
So you studied law or psychiatry,? i did So this i found for Japan
n 2023, the two articles were amended to raise the age of consent from 13 to 16 years old. An exception was included for sexual acts involving persons aged 13 to 15, by which the older partner is only subject to penalty if five or more years older. The amendments were part of a larger reform of Japan's sex crime legislation
So its not that easy cause we dont know their exact age gap. And you misunderstand that he is not a teacher,. He tutoring cause hie brother waqnts him to help akira. That is not the situarion like School or cram school.
And dont missunderstand me, i dont think its cool and easy, but in your point of view you reduce Akira as just a prey, You have no interest of his feelings and needs.
The story is that he has no one to opened, no one to explore his sexuality. And you day it, you just think about him as a kid. In my country we called them adolescent not grown up but no more just a kid.
And he is gay, i see thats mostly women who complan about this. i thint you have no conclusion what it means for a young man to find out beeing attracted to men. I would have wish Akira that his friend in cramschool wouldnt hurt him so much. He is insecure he locks all this things in his mind and has no one to talk about no one he can approach.
But this doesnt bother you, your only interest is to blame Kanda, you have no interest in Akira and his situation
i desagree. Why do you hink you have to decide for other people and judge them? As far the series shows, there…
its not a question of convincing, i just dislik your desinterest for Akira, He is a human beeing not just only a victim you must protect. In my Country this could be legal. The age of consent in Germany is 14 because German law considers adolescents to be capable of sexual self-determination at this age. This threshold differentiates "children" (under 14) from "adolescents" (14-18), allowing for sexual development and voluntary acts, provided there is no exploitation of a custodial relationship or abuse of power.. You have no compasson for a young gay, who needs to explore his sexual orientation. What could he do instead? you just look at the age and have no mercy for Akira, he just should not disturb your comfort zone
i like the series because it is realistic and not as often a fairytale. The father, who cant accept his son because…
Its good there is no happy end. They made decisions and we see the consequenze of it. Ejii has a child he loves but lose the partner he love. Their Triangle just worked as long Tagaki is just a part, but with the pregnancy she becomes more important to Ejii as Senoo can bear. im really god with this, because otherwise is all you do irrelevant, cause in the end all are happy. So i like this end, Senoo finds his way and can move on. Ejjii and Tagaki lost Senoo but have their child you cant get everything.
So i really suggest you to look to the end. i also need sometinms series with no real obstacles and a chesse happy ending But its good to see realistic stories which leads you to be thoughtprovoking
i like the series because it is realistic and not as often a fairytale. The father, who cant accept his son because he want him to satisfy his expectation. The Son who stands agains it and then do a stupid thing, to get both, his love and his father. The woman who wants to secure, that the three will stay together but ended up in a marriage withone. And Senoo, who realised that because of the child Ejii have feelings for Tagaki and cant accept it.
"There was no grooming, no gifts or money exchanged for favors, it was consensual."Since when did grooming…
It depends on the legal charges of your Country. What problematic in your view is the thing you are not really interested in Akira and his opinion. You are disgusted by the age of Akiva and having sex with a years older so you just list normal things just do say it was grooming.. But grooming is more used vor pedos who seeks for minors, That isnt it here, two gays found out that they are gay dont love each other but having sex just to satisfey their needs. Akira is for you just someone who has no right to make his own decision, cause this relationsships effect your moral view.
Okay, we're already on episode 6, but since I just watched them all at once, I'll start from the beginning: from…
i dont think it is inmoral, you and other are just judging from the age gap. Not one second you think on Akira, what he need, what he desire what he thikt. Just oh he is 7 years younger, so its inmoral, Akira is naiv stupid incomtetent to make own decisions. Akira has a right to live ihs own way, he dont need to please your moral
I'm genuinely disgusted by the amount of people defending the tutor and calling Akira a red flag in the comments...…
i desagree. Why do you hink you have to decide for other people and judge them? As far the series shows, there was no manipulting, just two men who helped each other. i dislike the thinking oh he is young the other ist older so the older took advantage, You should see people more as individuals than just a categorie to judge them. in fact you gave no reason for your opion, its just speculation without looking what really is shown in the series
it looks like, hey we are one episode before final, so lets make a break up, hey we have no idea, so let kidpap poom and send Ki to rescue him. let first knock out all thugs and after they are down. we remember that the father has a gun. Such a stupid plot
For me you dont understand, that Akira suffers and had no way out. He is hurt and have no one to talk about cause the fear of being rejecetet again. thats why he dont talk to his parents or older brother.
Im on your side, perhaps it would be better without the sex, but it seems both of them need the sex just to reliev.
and i just wish, that the people recongnize what happens with akira because of his bad friend from middle school, cause that is, what many young gay teens experience. Some Teens commit suicide of the situation.
Other Thing, you say 7 years,, but i found ne clear hint, how big the age gap is.
Last thing, stop dehumanizing Akira just for you View of morality. He is young gay who has been brutal hurt by his best friend, but your only concern is having sex with an older.
There are studies, that homosexuality is one of the most reasons for suicide for teens. And thats why idiots like the middle school friends hurt so much, rejection of famliy hurt so much, but you are only interesting in scolding him for finding help.
You should focus more on your own weakness then lecture others
Again, i would wish Akira has found someone else to open his mind after that painful experience. but you cant imagine that he couldnt find someone. After that he has to much fear because he was afreid to being rejeceted again so thats why he couldnt talk to his parents or his brotheres.
And this heartbrocking situation doesnt bother the peopl,e cause they can blame the tutor, thats just sad.
n 2023, the two articles were amended to raise the age of consent from 13 to 16 years old. An exception was included for sexual acts involving persons aged 13 to 15, by which the older partner is only subject to penalty if five or more years older. The amendments were part of a larger reform of Japan's sex crime legislation
So its not that easy cause we dont know their exact age gap. And you misunderstand that he is not a teacher,. He tutoring cause hie brother waqnts him to help akira. That is not the situarion like School or cram school.
And dont missunderstand me, i dont think its cool and easy, but in your point of view you reduce Akira as just a prey, You have no interest of his feelings and needs.
The story is that he has no one to opened, no one to explore his sexuality. And you day it, you just think about him as a kid. In my country we called them adolescent not grown up but no more just a kid.
And he is gay, i see thats mostly women who complan about this. i thint you have no conclusion what it means for a young man to find out beeing attracted to men. I would have wish Akira that his friend in cramschool wouldnt hurt him so much. He is insecure he locks all this things in his mind and has no one to talk about no one he can approach.
But this doesnt bother you, your only interest is to blame Kanda, you have no interest in Akira and his situation
So i really suggest you to look to the end. i also need sometinms series with no real obstacles and a chesse happy ending But its good to see realistic stories which leads you to be thoughtprovoking