Okay, since the issue is brought up again I'll say this only once -- Build's past actions have nothing to do with the rest of the cast so don't drag them down because of it, I don't think they should be cancelled by association even if one does not necessarily agree with them.
I think everyone needs to figure out where they stand in regards to the Build Incident.
If someone feels that Build has grown or that his apology is sufficient then that's fine. Alternatively, if someone feels hurt by it and no longer wants to support him or the show, that's also fine.
Just accept that not everyone has to forgive him and not everyone has to unstan him.
It's an individual choice.
Personally, I haven't idolized build -- I strictly focus on the character he brought on the screen not the actor himself so I don't really know how to feel about him atm.
And that's also okay, taking your time to evaluate your thoughts before you decide if he's worth an other chance is valid.
To sum it up -- it's okay to be hurt, its okay to unfollow him, its okay to forgive him, its okay to be confused, its okay to not support him anymore.
Now please stop attacking people for their own personal choices.
NO ONE knows him in real life, you can't know wherever he truly changed or not, all you can do is form your own view based on the information you have.
What is happening tho? I know there is something on Twitter about build but that's all π
I understand baby, I would probably be extremely conflicted if this was about bible, just take your time with it, don't feel pressured to forgive him or unfollow him, whatever you decide will be valid. If you genuinely believe he has changed then you can allow yourself to give him a new chance, if you feel otherwise its okay to not support him anymore
What is happening tho? I know there is something on Twitter about build but that's all π
Yeah I don't know how to feel about build either, I am not attached to the actor like I am to bible so it doesn't affect me as much because I don't look up to him nor had expectations from him, I don't idolize him and ik what he said was really fucked up so I don't know how to feel about it. And yeah, barcode can make his own decisions
What is happening tho? I know there is something on Twitter about build but that's all π
Honestly wherever someone forgives build or not is an individual choice like you can't force people to forgive him, what he said was really damaging but you can't force people to hate him either, if someone forgives him that's okay too. And wherever barcode is comfortable with a sex scene its his choice not anyone else's
Okay, I don't know what exactly goes on π perhaps things were taken out of context, maybe not but but I know there is rarely much of an argument attached, beyond the idea that deriving gay fantasies from a fictional representation is wrong if you are assumed female and the representation is a man with another man. This is because the people who are making this argument β and I think at least some of them do have good intentions β The problem is, yaoi/BL is not intended to be any gay manβs experience. Itβs not intended to be any real personβs experience, period. Itβs supposed to be purely fantasy and fiction. The genre itself has no influence on that one way or another. Itβs essentially neutral in that regard. If you want to write smut about it, write it. If you want to make scenarios about it, do it. If you want to talk about your fantasies just do it. No one is "privileged" to show's for God's sake. Every gender, age or identity can enjoy and fantasize about fiction. That's the beauty of art, of course there are people uncomfortable with seeing sexual requires so I suggest blocking for them but that's all, we all have our own opinions and perspectives but no one should be invalidated. It's okay to have more expectations regarding the intimate relationship between character's. If there are people uncomfortable with that, that's also okay that's why there is a block button. Everyone is entitled to their own feelings ESPECIALLY towards fiction.
Wanting a sex scene doesn't automatically mean you are fetishizing it if that's what you are implying ( could…
I mean I have only seen people post prompts, giving examples of sex scenarios that could happen between a fictional couple ( me included) but those are usually a few sentences so not much detail ( thats if ur referring to mdl specifically, idk about Twitter)
I think everyone needs to figure out where they stand in regards to the Build Incident.
If someone feels that Build has grown or that his apology is sufficient then that's fine. Alternatively, if someone feels hurt by it and no longer wants to support him or the show, that's also fine.
Just accept that not everyone has to forgive him and not everyone has to unstan him.
It's an individual choice.
Personally, I haven't idolized build -- I strictly focus on the character he brought on the screen not the actor himself so I don't really know how to feel about him atm.
And that's also okay, taking your time to evaluate your thoughts before you decide if he's worth an other chance is valid.
To sum it up -- it's okay to be hurt, its okay to unfollow him, its okay to forgive him, its okay to be confused, its okay to not support him anymore.
Now please stop attacking people for their own personal choices.
NO ONE knows him in real life, you can't know wherever he truly changed or not, all you can do is form your own view based on the information you have.
Whatever that view may be, it's okay to have it.