I don't think pobmek has really forgiven her like he said to solar they are getting to know each other again slowly…
Well, as a writer, all i see is laziness, a lack of seriousness about trauma, and nothing more. Also, the "you're overthinking it" line was disgusting. I was actually shocked because why would Solar, a character who (apparently) understands trauma and mental health so well, say something like this? It's so dismissive... Again, this is basic writing, character building.
A writer can do whatever he want with relationship of his characters, but he handled it... actually, he didn't handle it at all. It was just lazy as hell. I can't really say anything positive, even though i was waiting for this drama for a long time, hoping that writer will handle everything well since it's a VERY hard and sensitive topic already. Even OCD is stereotypically shown and I understand that it's a comedy (and it's actually very funny comedy), but OCD doesn't look like that in real life, it's more perfectionism than OCD.
I don't like upsetting authors or speaking negatively, but these are serious issues. As writers, we're responsible for what we create, and here, honestly, I get the impression the author doesn't feel responsible at all (even though, I know it's not true since i waited for this drama and read his tweets, but I still have this impression, which says a lot).
they're just predatory (though probably i should use another "p" word to describe them tbh) it's not about ignorance. they're clearly attracted to this image of a kid and an old man. "The Puritanical Little Church Girls are outraged, I tell you, outraged, over the tutor's hotness :)" is actually very telling lmfao
I've watched EP6 and i'm tired of bad parents constantly being forgiven in Thai dramas. I hope that someday, media will support (in a serious way, for once) victims of abusive parents instead of justifying those parents and rushing their redemption in a shallow, rushed, and often unrealistic way. People don't change that quickly. They may change their behavior, but with controlling and abusive parents like that, the problem runs deeper. I don't even want to hear people making excuses for the writers, when media plays such a big role in shaping our self-worth and boundaries. No one should have to beg to be loved and respected.
If you feel like your trauma isn't taken seriously in the way Thai dramas handle it, I'm sorry. And you're right, because you should never have to feel like you have to forgive, move on, or chase after an abusive parent. Prioritize yourself and your feelings, and never let anyone destroy or make you second-guess your boundaries. Blood means nothing if you’re feeling miserable and afraid.
so, was i a child still or already a teenager since i developed so early? would that make it okay for adults to have had sex with me back then? i'm asking, again.
don't worry about me, worry about 14 year olds who don’t have fully developed brains to have sex with an adult... because they're children, but i know you like to convince yourself otherwise for some reason. my brain is fully developed, so i don't see anything attractive in kids and i can see that it bothers you, wonder why? are you a victim or a predator? perhaps both.
i scrolled down to read the comments about the drama, but every time i only saw your crying ass getting defensive, calling everyone a "puritanical little church girls" because they don't accept predators and pedophiles. i think you know what you are, so no wonder you're so hurt reading all of this.
i'd rather be a 25 year old "Puritanical Little Church Girl" than support pedophiles/predators. if you don't find weird having sexual relationship with a fucking 14yo child as a grown ass man then i only can call you one thing. how a disgusting human being you have to be to normalize predatory behavior?
i read here bs like "but he helped me" that's grooming. he "helped" you because he wanted something from you. and you grew up to behave just like him, trying to normalize predatory behaviors.
i was 9 year old when my pubes were already in place, i was already menstruating, and my breasts were developing quickly, does that make it okay for you? does that make it legal for you? since i wasn't "childish" enough to be a child for you? does the law have to write in black and white that adult males should not touch children?
we can only hope that these people don't have kids (or have any contact with them), i don't even want to know what would happen, since they're so supportive of predators
you're talking about a pedophile and A CHILD. "Puritanical Little Church Girls" and it's just a normal person who doesn't support pedophilia. yall are sick as hell
I'm going to rant a bit on the comments given so far for the show. I find that most of the people nowadays lack…
i just finished 3 ep, and i was waiting for this "confusing timeline" and "confusing storyline", but it never came. people seriously have no attention span, it's scary. like this drama isn't hard to follow AT ALL, it's actually simple as hell
A writer can do whatever he want with relationship of his characters, but he handled it... actually, he didn't handle it at all. It was just lazy as hell. I can't really say anything positive, even though i was waiting for this drama for a long time, hoping that writer will handle everything well since it's a VERY hard and sensitive topic already. Even OCD is stereotypically shown and I understand that it's a comedy (and it's actually very funny comedy), but OCD doesn't look like that in real life, it's more perfectionism than OCD.
I don't like upsetting authors or speaking negatively, but these are serious issues. As writers, we're responsible for what we create, and here, honestly, I get the impression the author doesn't feel responsible at all (even though, I know it's not true since i waited for this drama and read his tweets, but I still have this impression, which says a lot).
If you feel like your trauma isn't taken seriously in the way Thai dramas handle it, I'm sorry. And you're right, because you should never have to feel like you have to forgive, move on, or chase after an abusive parent. Prioritize yourself and your feelings, and never let anyone destroy or make you second-guess your boundaries. Blood means nothing if you’re feeling miserable and afraid.
don't worry about me, worry about 14 year olds who don’t have fully developed brains to have sex with an adult... because they're children, but i know you like to convince yourself otherwise for some reason. my brain is fully developed, so i don't see anything attractive in kids and i can see that it bothers you, wonder why? are you a victim or a predator? perhaps both.
i scrolled down to read the comments about the drama, but every time i only saw your crying ass getting defensive, calling everyone a "puritanical little church girls" because they don't accept predators and pedophiles. i think you know what you are, so no wonder you're so hurt reading all of this.
i read here bs like "but he helped me" that's grooming. he "helped" you because he wanted something from you. and you grew up to behave just like him, trying to normalize predatory behaviors.
i was 9 year old when my pubes were already in place, i was already menstruating, and my breasts were developing quickly, does that make it okay for you? does that make it legal for you? since i wasn't "childish" enough to be a child for you? does the law have to write in black and white that adult males should not touch children?