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Replying to Noriko Sep 7, 2025
Title Learning to Love Spoiler
This is going to be a controversial suggestion, but https://mydramalist.com/29908-chugakusei-nikki Mainly because…
I second this suggestion. I think that drama is very similar to this one. I do like this one a little better tho, but chugakusei nikki was also really good. I only think this one is slightly better because the parallels and symbolism in CN was less subtle and more overt. I think L2L is just a little bit more sophisticated of a watch, and I like the cinematography better here.

There are things about CN that are way more controverisal, it's true. But the way their lives are cornering them into feeling a sense of urgency and desperation is very very similar, where you can see they have less and less choice except to abandon their hearts, or run away and start completely over somewhere else. So you get a lot of the same vibes. CN is just a totally other level of messed up situation, more twisted than L2L.
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Replying to monstersnroses Sep 6, 2025
Title Learning to Love Spoiler
it's a complete masterpiece, and I am such such SUCH a picky critical watcher. I left a review saying as much,…
Once I dated someone almost 15 years younger than me. I did like his personality and we were getting along fine, and then after just maybe a few weeks or a month, he said something offhanded that was so immature that it made it hit home for me that this was not someone I could treat as a peer and have a relationship with, so I broke it off before we even really got started.

So I think about that, and then I think about how this FL's maturity is so stunted that they probably match up a lot better than I did with that guy. She's always with her stuffed bunny, she can't get respect from her class at school, and it really takes something special to try to drown yourself over a guy... whereas he had to grow up hard and fast in life. She's immature for her age, and he is mature for his age. So maybe they are closer - mentally - to being equals than just their outside appearance would suggest. Idk.

Maybe they make a good match? If they do run away and turn into the couple that runs the restaurant, she would grow because she'd be getting out from under her parents, and he would grow because he'd be getting out of hosting for a living.
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Replying to monstersnroses Sep 6, 2025
Title Learning to Love Spoiler
it's a complete masterpiece, and I am such such SUCH a picky critical watcher. I left a review saying as much,…
> (or maybe I’m blindes too.)

Aha! You see?! What if this is the 'gotcha' of the story, is like "hey viewer, you think this getting hooked on a host shit couldn't happen to you? Well guess again!" The host is hooking the VIEWER maybe...?

Its possible that FL - and the viewer - is being gaslit the whole time. I can't tell! I don't know anything!
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Replying to monstersnroses Sep 6, 2025
Title Learning to Love Spoiler
it's a complete masterpiece, and I am such such SUCH a picky critical watcher. I left a review saying as much,…
Oooooh, clever girl! You could be right on that dad theory, I could see that. Having to wait this long between episodes is it's own form of torture.
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Replying to monstersnroses Sep 6, 2025
Title Learning to Love Spoiler
it's a complete masterpiece, and I am such such SUCH a picky critical watcher. I left a review saying as much,…
You also have the FL's dad saying he's concerned that she's going all psycho-stalker again and getting weird, and she says she's not.

And then he says yes you are, i know you better than you even know yourself, I've watched you since you were in diapers--"

And she cuts him off and storms out. But dad has a point.

So what if they take the story in that direction, where ML tries to cut it off with her, and she can't accept it and her psycho tendencies re-surface?

Think about how when she told the story of how she jumped in the water over the last guy, she said it flippantly and laughed about it. That is not normal. That's a red flag sign that something is wrong, if you're going by just pure psychology. Especially as she admitted in inner narrative that she's never told anyone that story out loud before. So as her first time re-living that experience out loud with someone else, she's laughing about it and minimizing it. What if that's supposed to be a clue that this story is about to go totally off the rails crazy.
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Replying to monstersnroses Sep 6, 2025
Title Learning to Love Spoiler
it's a complete masterpiece, and I am such such SUCH a picky critical watcher. I left a review saying as much,…
What I'm mulling over is whether ML is really in love with her, or if he's playing a long-con, or both.

He told her "come buy a tower and you can see me"

She knew it was a lie, and she was right, and she walks away anyway. But she doesn't do it for herself. She does it because she predicts that that's what ML wants her to do. That could be her obsession creeping in. We don't know. So there's one layer.

Then the Big Boss comes in and tells him he's too soft and he should get out while he can. So even though ML played the cards technically correctly, that doesn't fool Big Boss at all, he knows exactly what happened... he had FL in the palm of his hand, and he let her escape. So there's layer two.

And the ML responds to the Big Boss by being adamant that he will be number one, he doesn't take the out that's being offered to him. Why???? To make money for his future with FL, or for his little brother? Or because he really wants to be Number One more than anything? That's layer three.

There is no way to tell by the look in his eyes, his behavior or expression, if he A) Is in love with her B) was never in love with her but feels mercy for her after he finds out she would jump in a lake and kys if he asked her to. C) Will decide to go full darth vader to the dark side like Big Boss.

He says from the outset that he will 'hook' her by giving her what she wants. She's a teacher. He doesn't know how to read or write. He could be just capitalizing on that because he's giving her her idealized romance.

You think he's in love with her, but you have the foreshadowing of the high school girl who early on described how she got hooked on him, saying "he's different with me" or whatever. The point of a host is to make the woman feel special and loved to the point she's willing to give you everything.

And what will happen when she tries to run away with him? Her parents will come begging him to end it with her, and bring a boatload of cash to buy him off. He knows this because of the FAT stack mom showed up with at just the first whiff of trouble with their daughter.

God I have no clue what's gonna happen. What if she jumps in the water again. Or what if she's the stalker who stabbed a host, and the other chick is just a red herring to throw you off track. What if ML gets stabbed by the crazy woman and they end it in a tragedy. What if FL stabs him? Or maybe they srsly run away together and become another version of the couple in the restaurant where they ate fish curry? Or maybe the fiancee gets tragically involved. This ending could go like 20 different ways that I could think of just off the top of my head.

I feel like ML is on a precipice where he really does love FL, but also has the capability to ignore that love, and embody the Ideal Host, the Number One, and he's currently wrestling with whether he is willing to make that deal with the devil or not, and he's not sure.

I'm also not sure whether she's slowly going psycho or not.

When they walked away from eachother at the beach, seriously half of me was like "run away from him as fast as you can!" and the other half of me was like "run away with him right now!" lol
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Replying to monstersnroses Sep 6, 2025
it's a complete masterpiece, and I am such such SUCH a picky critical watcher. I left a review saying as much,…
Your english is very good!
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On Kimura Fumino Sep 6, 2025
Person Kimura Fumino
Amazing performance in L2L, I was really really impressed. Not just any actress could have made that role really come to life.
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Replying to monstersnroses Sep 6, 2025
it's a complete masterpiece, and I am such such SUCH a picky critical watcher. I left a review saying as much,…
I like how the farther you go along in the show, the less and less you feel like you know how it's going to end. The characters seem so enigmatic that you can FEEL how the characters themselves haven't made up their minds what choices they're going to make next, and the whole situation they're in just gets more and more tense till you're on the edge of your seat.

On one hand, I feel like they have a social responsibility to end it badly so that girls don't romanticize that kind of thing in rl.

On the other hand, they might feel they have a moral responsibility to end it well because hosts always get portrayed as the scum of the earth who don't ever deserve a happy ending, they are dehumanized.

And with a J-drama, there is *always* the possibility they will leave it open ended.

I have no idea what will happen next, I only know what would happen next if this was any other "host romance" story - tragedy.

Also if anyone does actually know the ending, do NOT spoil me. This is the most I've enjoyed a show in a long time, I just want to savor it.

Obviously people aren't clued into this drama yet, but I think in the end it will go down as one of the top 5 j-dramas of all time. It just might take time for people to notice.
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On Learning to Love Sep 6, 2025
Probably many of you are already aware, but in case youre not, if you go to the tab that says 'episode guide' you can rate each episode individually and this will boost its MDL score more than just rating the whole show.
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Replying to Paulina Sep 6, 2025
Currently watching Cinderella Closet which is about to finish. Heard this was good. How is it?
Incredible. I havent seen anything this well done in a very long time.
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Replying to translator Sep 6, 2025
i genuinely love this so much. does anyone have any recommendations for similar jdramas? i don’t mind if it…
Jotei
A million stars falling from the sky
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Replying to Nataleejooheon Sep 5, 2025
This drama is so good. I don’t know why the ranking so low. I think it’s the best Japanese romance drama I’ve…
it's a complete masterpiece, and I am such such SUCH a picky critical watcher. I left a review saying as much, this deserves a higher rating, this is worth at least an MDL 8 or higher. Instant cult classic, it should win awards really. imo this is better than some of the best classics of asian drama from the past 25 years.
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Replying to NickB Sep 5, 2025
Lol, thank you. Yeah, this series was rough for me. Blood was bad too, I agree. Blood could have been an 1:30…
never seen it. Looks good, but no romance? aigoo.... I'll have to pick it up when im in the right mood for it. ty for the recc <3
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Replying to NickB Sep 5, 2025
Lol, thank you. Yeah, this series was rough for me. Blood was bad too, I agree. Blood could have been an 1:30…
Ya, from one vampire freak to another, you're right that asian stuff often doesn't grasp just what 'vampire-romance' is really supposed to be. With K-dramas they do gumiho stuff. But with c-dramas it gets interesting, because they do a lot of stuff that isn't vampire, but is 'vampire-adjacent', where if you just PRETEND the character is a vampire, it works. imo, Story of Kunning Palace was one of the best vampire stories I've ever seen, flat out... and ML isn't even a vampire! But he's so vampy that all he's missing is the fangs really. He has a drug addiction in that, so just pretend it's a blood addiction and boom, he's a vampire. A very HOT one, lol.
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Replying to caDAVEr Sep 5, 2025
Almost wanted to watch this, and after your review - makes me want to watch it to see how stupid the FL is lol.
The kisses are spicy. She wears some fun outfits. ML is eye candy. If you already know what you're getting into with a republican-era short-length, then you will be ready for this. If nothing else, at least it doesn't take long to finish.
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Replying to NickB Sep 5, 2025
Lol, thank you. Yeah, this series was rough for me. Blood was bad too, I agree. Blood could have been an 1:30…
tysm i'll check them out. Godddd Blood was the WORST, that FL... wasn't that the BoF FL and then she tried to direct, and Blood was her directing debut or something? idk maybe I got that wrong, but WHAT a snoozer! I don't know how anyone like it has to take real talent to take a subject like effing VAMPIRES and make it more boring than a high school math class, jesus.

At least this had a few spicy kisses, and an element of Good-Bad. Like the teal leopard print dress with the hot pink and the little hat, or that bitch getting caught trying to literally kill the FL and they're like "Hey! Never do that again mkay."

If Blood had leopard print teal and hot pink dresses with little hats, and dumb crazy bitches brandishing firearms at their in-laws, and a few random spicy kisses, I might not have had to prop my eyelids open with toothpicks and slam 10 pots of coffee to finish it.

How do you eff up vampires like that. I just can't get over it.
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NickB Sep 5, 2025
I just laughed so hard reading this omg... I think 1.5 is WAY too brutal of a score, but when you put it like that....

Idk, my benchmark drama for "Extremely Bad" is the vampire k-drama 'Blood'. This was better than Blood by a longshot.

I like this actress, but you talking about her made me crack tf up, I don't totally agree with you on everything but your review is just so effing hilarious i had to upvote it. Do you have other reviews, I'll have to check now because you absolutely slay.
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