Whyy is she blaming him for the promotion?? š Girl you still dont trust him? Atleast professionally? If he wanted to sabotage you he would've never allowed you to take up the project.
Do you think we have time for this? I've been sad that some episodes and arcs are rushed. I know that break up…
That's what I'm worried about. They'll just make Luke to chase her and she'll act cold and then accept it. I want both to ack what they did to each other like in literal words, no eye talk, voice over and shit.
At this point, I donāt want the ending to decide who was āthe villainā and who was āthe victim.ā I want both of them to finally acknowledge what they did to each other.
For Lu Nian, I want something like:
āI hurt you. I took you for granted. I let my insecurity turn into sarcasm, jealousy and cruel words. I should have trusted you more and made you feel safer in this relationship.ā
And for Tao, I want:
āI shut you out. I expected you to understand things I never properly communicated. I kept parts of my life separate from you, repeatedly made you feel like you were not a priority, and sometimes judged your reaction without acknowledging what led to it.ā
THAT would feel like real growth.
What I donāt want is the drama rewriting six years of a complicated relationship into āLu Nian was the problem, Tao endured him, therefore he must now spend years suffering, chasing and proving himself until she decides he is worthy again.ā
Lu Nian absolutely needs accountability. But Tao does too.
If the reunion only requires one person to apologise, reflect and change while the other is placed on a moral pedestal, then that is not reconciliation between two flawed people. It is just punishment for one of them.
A convincing happy ending, for me, requires BOTH of them to say: āI hurt you too. I understand that now. Letās do this differently.ā
I still don't understand why tf would they make him like Flora. It has changed my entire view on their dynamics…
I think youāre taking āemotionally compartmentalizedā too literally.
Obviously Luke isnāt going to be equally jealous of every single person Tao interacts with. The issue is not āshe spends time with other humans.ā Itās the specific kind of closeness he feels excluded from.
Yuan Zhu shares her home, Luke, daily routines and emotional moments with her. That is a very different dynamic from a landlord or a female friend. And yes, Tao didnāt know Yuan Zhu liked her. Iāve already said that. Iām not blaming her for his feelings.
What Iām saying is that the reveal makes it harder to dismiss Lukeās discomfort as completely irrational, because the emotional closeness he was sensing was real, even if Tao herself never saw it romantically.
And āshe wanted to go public, therefore she definitely would have integrated him fully into her lifeā is still an assumption. Wanting marriage or a public relationship shows she wanted something more serious, which is fair. But emotional inclusion also comes from everyday communication and making your partner feel involved, not simply changing the relationship status.
Tibet actually proves both points: Tao finally feels like they are in a real relationship, and Luke is visibly happier because he finally feels openly included too.
So Iām not saying Tao should stop having close friends. Iām saying both of them spent years wanting more security from the other while being terrible at actually giving it. Thatās why I hold BOTH responsible.
At this point, I donāt want the ending to decide who was āthe villainā and who was āthe victim.ā I want both of them to finally acknowledge what they did to each other.
For Lu Nian, I want something like:
āI hurt you. I took you for granted. I let my insecurity turn into sarcasm, jealousy and cruel words. I should have trusted you more and made you feel safer in this relationship.ā
And for Tao, I want:
āI shut you out. I expected you to understand things I never properly communicated. I kept parts of my life separate from you, repeatedly made you feel like you were not a priority, and sometimes judged your reaction without acknowledging what led to it.ā
THAT would feel like real growth.
What I donāt want is the drama rewriting six years of a complicated relationship into āLu Nian was the problem, Tao endured him, therefore he must now spend years suffering, chasing and proving himself until she decides he is worthy again.ā
Lu Nian absolutely needs accountability. But Tao does too.
If the reunion only requires one person to apologise, reflect and change while the other is placed on a moral pedestal, then that is not reconciliation between two flawed people. It is just punishment for one of them.
A convincing happy ending, for me, requires BOTH of them to say: āI hurt you too. I understand that now. Letās do this differently.ā
"If you love her so much, Go find her"
Lol I remember my college days, helping my friend to get his girl š
Girl you still dont trust him? Atleast professionally? If he wanted to sabotage you he would've never allowed you to take up the project.
Relationship needs work from both people in it. Dumping blame either way is not ideal.
For Lu Nian, I want something like:
āI hurt you. I took you for granted. I let my insecurity turn into sarcasm, jealousy and cruel words. I should have trusted you more and made you feel safer in this relationship.ā
And for Tao, I want:
āI shut you out. I expected you to understand things I never properly communicated. I kept parts of my life separate from you, repeatedly made you feel like you were not a priority, and sometimes judged your reaction without acknowledging what led to it.ā
THAT would feel like real growth.
What I donāt want is the drama rewriting six years of a complicated relationship into āLu Nian was the problem, Tao endured him, therefore he must now spend years suffering, chasing and proving himself until she decides he is worthy again.ā
Lu Nian absolutely needs accountability. But Tao does too.
If the reunion only requires one person to apologise, reflect and change while the other is placed on a moral pedestal, then that is not reconciliation between two flawed people. It is just punishment for one of them.
A convincing happy ending, for me, requires BOTH of them to say: āI hurt you too. I understand that now. Letās do this differently.ā
PS: I know there's no Pin option
Obviously Luke isnāt going to be equally jealous of every single person Tao interacts with. The issue is not āshe spends time with other humans.ā Itās the specific kind of closeness he feels excluded from.
Yuan Zhu shares her home, Luke, daily routines and emotional moments with her. That is a very different dynamic from a landlord or a female friend. And yes, Tao didnāt know Yuan Zhu liked her. Iāve already said that. Iām not blaming her for his feelings.
What Iām saying is that the reveal makes it harder to dismiss Lukeās discomfort as completely irrational, because the emotional closeness he was sensing was real, even if Tao herself never saw it romantically.
And āshe wanted to go public, therefore she definitely would have integrated him fully into her lifeā is still an assumption. Wanting marriage or a public relationship shows she wanted something more serious, which is fair. But emotional inclusion also comes from everyday communication and making your partner feel involved, not simply changing the relationship status.
Tibet actually proves both points: Tao finally feels like they are in a real relationship, and Luke is visibly happier because he finally feels openly included too.
So Iām not saying Tao should stop having close friends. Iām saying both of them spent years wanting more security from the other while being terrible at actually giving it. Thatās why I hold BOTH responsible.
For Lu Nian, I want something like:
āI hurt you. I took you for granted. I let my insecurity turn into sarcasm, jealousy and cruel words. I should have trusted you more and made you feel safer in this relationship.ā
And for Tao, I want:
āI shut you out. I expected you to understand things I never properly communicated. I kept parts of my life separate from you, repeatedly made you feel like you were not a priority, and sometimes judged your reaction without acknowledging what led to it.ā
THAT would feel like real growth.
What I donāt want is the drama rewriting six years of a complicated relationship into āLu Nian was the problem, Tao endured him, therefore he must now spend years suffering, chasing and proving himself until she decides he is worthy again.ā
Lu Nian absolutely needs accountability. But Tao does too.
If the reunion only requires one person to apologise, reflect and change while the other is placed on a moral pedestal, then that is not reconciliation between two flawed people. It is just punishment for one of them.
A convincing happy ending, for me, requires BOTH of them to say: āI hurt you too. I understand that now. Letās do this differently.ā