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Honestly, just ignore her 😂 Apparently disagreeing with her about a Korean dating show gets you enrolled in a mandatory seminar on psychology, body language, vaccines and why only her opinions qualify as “facts.” Save yourself 😂

Okay, this has gone from disagreeing about a reality show to you repeatedly making personal remarks about me, dragging in vaccines and Fauci for some bizarre reason, diagnosing me with “cognitive dissonance,” calling me a “mean girl,” and now telling me “he’s not into you.” I don’t know this man 😂 I’m discussing a TV show. Get a grip.

Oh my goodness 😭 We’ve now reached Psychology Today citations about eye contact.
At this point, I have to admire your dedication 😂 You seem significantly invested in proving that Gyeong Ho is terrible. You dislike him. I get it. Truly. Message received several dissertations ago.
But please, I am actually begging you now! Write your Gyeong Ho exposés, body-language analyses and hater commentary in your own comments.

You’ve explained your position many times. I understand it. I still disagree with it. Since transparency matters, let me be completely transparent: I’m done with this discussion.

Calling your interpretation “facts” doesn’t turn it into facts. “Likely dating experience” is literally an assumption, and “he earned the disdain” is a judgment - both are perfectly valid opinions for you to have, but they’re still opinions.

I’ve already said that we watched the same show and came to different conclusions. I’ve also already said that neither of us is going to change the other’s mind, yet you keep returning to my comments to explain your position again.

So I’ll try this one more time 😅 You’re absolutely free to dislike Gyeong Ho, call his behavior cowardly, hold him to whatever standard you choose, and write as many comments about it as you like. But you don’t need to post all of them as replies to me. I understand your position. I disagree with it. That isn’t going to change 😂

I think we’re going in circles now. You see Gyeong Ho’s hesitation as cowardice and Gayeon’s hesitation as understandable conflict. I see much more nuance in the former and much less innocence in the latter. Saying she has told people she’s conflicted doesn’t really address my point. I know she’s conflicted - she tells us constantly. My point is that while being conflicted, she continues to keep both romantic connections very much alive.

We clearly interpret these people and their behavior differently, and that’s fine. But repeating your interpretation more emphatically isn’t going to make me adopt it, so I think we can leave this one here.

“Read the comments, 90% agree with me” isn’t really the argument you seem to think it is 😅 I don’t outsource my opinions to the comment section. The popularity of an opinion doesn’t determine whether it’s correct. I watched the same show, saw the same scenes and came to a different conclusion. That’s allowed.

And apparently disagreeing with you now means I’m biased because Gyeong Ho has a pretty face. Convenient, but still not an argument.

At this point I think we’ve established that we interpret him completely differently, and neither of us is changing the other’s mind. So perhaps we can leave it there. Feel free to write your own take in your own comments - you really don’t need to keep replying to mine in an attempt to convince me.

So let me make sure I understand the rules 😂
You called Gyeong Ho a coward and accused him of “stringing Yerim along” for two days because he didn’t clarify his feelings quickly enough. But when Gayeon keeps two men emotionally invested while repeatedly saying she can’t choose, suddenly there are all these nuanced explanations for why her uncertainty is perfectly understandable. It’s hard not to notice the double standard here.

I didn’t blame Gayeon for Gyeong Ho’s behavior anywhere in my comment, so I’m not sure what you’re responding to there.

And “he strung her along” is your interpretation, not an established fact. He realized he didn’t see Yerim romantically, felt awkward about it, and eventually told her why. Could he have handled it more smoothly? Sure. But being uncomfortable and imperfect in a situation like this doesn’t automatically make someone a coward or a villain.
Apparently Gyeong Ho was expected to identify his feelings instantly, communicate them flawlessly, never feel awkward about hurting someone, and handle the entire situation with perfect emotional precision. That’s quite a standard for someone who has known these people for a few days. If anything, this is exactly the kind of black-and-white interpretation I was talking about.

Meanwhile, if we’re looking for questionable dating-show behavior, can we talk about Gayeon? She has told us approximately 700 times by now how difficult it is to choose between the two men and how hard the situation is for her, while continuing to flirt with both and making sure neither one gets enough clarity to actually move on. What fascinates me most is that both men seem completely enchanted, because I’m still waiting for the conversation that explains why. So far it feels like endless playful flirting, the same “I just don’t know who to choose” speech on repeat, and somehow both men remain fully under the spell. Honestly, I need her secrets 😂

I honestly don’t understand why Gyeong Ho is being treated like he did something terrible. They’ve known each other for what, a few days? He’s allowed to realize he doesn’t have romantic feelings for Yerim. During the last ep he even explained her why exactly - her age makes him think of his younger sister. That may be disappointing for her, but it doesn’t make him a bad person.

At this point it feels like the editing is working overtime to turn him into the villain. Take an ordinary facial expression, a pause or an ambiguous comment, add ominous music, dramatic close-ups and reaction shots from the other contestants, and suddenly the audience is being pushed toward a very specific interpretation of everything he does. Apparently not reciprocating someone’s feelings is a crime now.

Well, if you meant the ballet dancer, his name is Kang Gyeong Ho though.

Okay, but I have to ask at this point... who is Yungho? 😭 You mention him in every comment, yet there is no contestant by that name 😂

After the last few episodes, I've completely lost my patience with Seungho. At first, I wanted to excuse his behavior because of his age and lack of relationship experience, but at this point I just can't anymore. Throughout the show, he comes across as manipulative, narcissistic, and selfish. He constantly seeks validation, makes Jinwoo jealous, openly shifts his attention to other people, and then gets upset when he doesn't receive the reaction he wants. It honestly feels like what matters most to him is feeding his own ego rather than building a genuine relationship.

What frustrates me the most is that Seungho never seems to take responsibility for his own actions. He avoids honest conversations, plays the victim, and repeatedly expects Jinwoo to be the one who apologizes first and fixes everything, even though Jinwoo is the one genuinely trying to communicate and work through their problems. On top of that, Seungho often tells completely different stories to different people and even lies, which makes it feel like he's just trying to keep everyone as backup options instead of being sincere. Does he not realize that all those people are going to watch the show and hear everything he said?

I genuinely feel sorry for Jinwoo. He's honest, open, emotionally mature, and keeps putting so much effort into this relationship, only to receive emotional exhaustion in return. Even as a viewer, it was draining to watch.

I really hope Jinwoo chooses himself in the end instead of Seungho (or that Seungho ends up choosing Hyeyeon). In my opinion, Jinwoo deserves someone who can communicate openly, respects other people's feelings, and puts the same amount of effort into the relationship that he does. As for Seungho, I honestly don't think he's ready for a healthy relationship yet.

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